We stand with you in deep concern and fervent prayer for your daughter, lifting her situation before the throne of grace with heavy hearts. It is clear that she is entangled in a web of deception, manipulation, and ungodly influences that are pulling her away from the truth, her family, and the life God has designed for her. We recognize the pain and fear you carry as a parent, and we join you in declaring that no weapon formed against your family shall prosper, for the Lord is your strong tower and refuge.
First, we must address the seriousness of the situation your daughter is in. Living with a man outside of marriage is not only unbiblical but opens the door to spiritual, emotional, and physical harm. Scripture is clear: "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). Fornication is a sin that grieves the heart of God, and it distorts His design for intimacy, which is meant to be a sacred covenant between a husband and wife. We rebuke the lie that this arrangement is acceptable or that it can ever replace the holy institution of marriage. The enemy has deceived your daughter into believing that this relationship is safe or fulfilling, but the Word of God declares that "there is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death" (Proverbs 14:12 WEB).
The control, isolation, and financial manipulation she is experiencing are not characteristics of godly love but of spiritual bondage. A man who truly loves her as Christ loves the church would never demand that she cut ties with her family, disrespect her work, or diminish her worth. Instead, he would honor her, protect her, and lead her in righteousness. "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). The behavior of this young man and his mother is not only ungodly but demonic in its intent to destroy your daughter’s identity, faith, and future. We rebuke every spirit of control, manipulation, and isolation in Jesus’ name, and we command them to loose their hold on her mind and spirit. "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly" (John 10:10 WEB).
We also address the deception that has blinded your daughter to the truth. The enemy has sown lies into her heart, making her believe that she is unworthy of better, that her family does not love her, and that this relationship is her only option. But the Word of God declares, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4 WEB). We pray that the scales would fall from her eyes and that she would see the truth of her situation. Father, break every chain of deception and open her heart to receive the truth of Your Word. Let her remember the love, care, and wisdom her family has poured into her life, and let her reject the lies that have led her astray.
We stand on the promise of Isaiah 54:17, declaring that no weapon formed against your daughter or your family shall prosper. Every plot, scheme, and attack of the enemy is rendered powerless in the name of Jesus. We plead the blood of Jesus over your family, covering every area of your lives—spirit, soul, and body. The blood of Jesus cleanses, protects, and sanctifies, and we declare that your home is a place of refuge, peace, and restoration. We also pray for a hedge of protection around your daughter, that the Lord would surround her with His angels and shield her from every attack of the enemy. "For he will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways" (Psalm 91:11 WEB).
We pray for the restoration of your daughter’s relationship with her family, her work, her studies, and most importantly, with the Lord. Father, draw her back to Yourself with cords of love. Let her experience the depth of Your love and the security of Your promises. Remind her of the truth that "the LORD appeared of old to me, saying, 'Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with loving kindness I have drawn you'" (Jeremiah 31:3 WEB). Let her heart be softened to receive the truth, and give her the strength to walk away from this toxic environment. Fill her with wisdom to recognize the red flags, self-worth to reject manipulation, and faith to trust You for her future.
We also lift you up as her parent, asking the Lord to grant you wisdom, patience, and favor as you seek to guide her with truth and love. It is not easy to watch a child stray, but we are reminded that "love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things" (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB). Lean on the Lord for strength, and trust in His timing, even when the path is difficult. Continue to stand firm in prayer, knowing that "the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much" (James 5:16 WEB).
We pray for a godly spouse for your daughter—a man who will love her as Christ loves the church, honor her family, and lead her in righteousness. Father, prepare her heart to receive such a man, and let her not settle for anything less than Your best for her life. "Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 WEB). Until that time comes, let her find her identity, worth, and fulfillment in You alone.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of faith, believing that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. We declare that Your will be done in this situation, and we trust You to bring complete restoration to your daughter’s life. Let her experience the freedom, peace, and favor that come from walking in Your will. Surround her with godly influences that will encourage her to seek You and Your righteousness. Break every chain of deception, manipulation, and control, and let her walk in the light of Your truth.
We also pray for the young man and his mother, that their hearts would be turned toward You. Father, if it be Your will, bring conviction and repentance to their lives, that they may turn from their wicked ways and seek Your face. "The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9 WEB). Let them see the error of their ways and the destruction they have caused, and let them turn to You for forgiveness and transformation.
Lord, we thank You for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Jesus Christ. We declare that this situation will be a testimony of Your grace, mercy, and power. Let your daughter return to the safety of her family and the covering of Your love. Restore her respectful and loving relationship with her family swiftly, and let her be filled with gratitude for the love and support she has received. May her life be a shining example of Your redemption and restoration, drawing others to You.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved and can come before Your throne. There is no other name that brings salvation, healing, or deliverance, for "there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB). We trust in You, Lord, and we believe that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.