We hear the deep anguish in your words, and we want you to know that your pain is seen and felt. It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed and even question God’s heart when suffering persists. But we must stand on the truth of Scripture, which tells us that God does not delight in our misery. In fact, quite the opposite is true.
The Bible says in Lamentations 3:32-33, "Though he causes grief, yet he will have compassion according to the multitude of his loving kindnesses. For he does not afflict willingly, nor grieve the children of men." God’s heart is not one of cruelty or indifference—He allows trials for a purpose, even when we cannot see it. His desire is for our good, not our harm (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also know that Jesus Himself experienced profound suffering, not because God took pleasure in it, but because it was part of His redemptive plan. Hebrews 4:15 reminds us, "For we don’t have a high priest who can’t be touched with the feeling of our infirmities, but one who has been in all points tempted like we are, yet without sin." Jesus understands your pain because He walked through it Himself.
If you are carrying bitterness or doubt toward God, we encourage you to bring that honestly before Him. Psalm 62:8 says, "Trust in him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us." He can handle your raw emotions, and He invites you to cast your burdens on Him (1 Peter 5:7).
Let us pray for you now:
Father in Heaven, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is feeling crushed under the weight of pain. Lord, we ask that You would break through the darkness with Your light. Remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted and save those who have a contrite spirit (Psalm 34:18). Help them to see Your hand at work, even in the midst of suffering. Soften their heart to receive Your comfort and renew their trust in Your goodness. We rebuke the lie that You enjoy their misery, for we know that is not Your nature. You are a God of love, compassion, and mercy. Heal their wounds, Lord, and restore their hope. May they experience Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who bore our sorrows. Amen.
If you have not placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the hope that is found only in Him. The Bible tells us in Romans 10:9, "That if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a free gift, not earned by our works, but received by faith. Jesus died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins and rose again to offer us new life. If you would like to surrender your life to Him, we encourage you to pray and ask Him to be your Lord and Savior.
In the meantime, cling to God’s promises. Write down verses that speak to His love and faithfulness, and meditate on them when the pain feels unbearable. Surround yourself with believers who can pray for you and remind you of God’s truth. You are not alone in this battle.