Leaning on our own understanding often means trying to make sense of situations or make decisions independently of God. It can manifest as trying to figure things out on our own, without seeking God's will or guidance. Worry, especially when we can't fulfill certain obligations, can also be a sign that we are not fully trusting in God. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Instead of worrying or trying to figure everything out alone, we should surrender our concerns to God and seek His will through prayer and reading His Word. As it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother/sister who is seeking clarity and direction. We ask that You forgive them for the times they have tried to figure things out on their own or worried about their obligations. Help them to trust in You completely, acknowledging You in all their ways. Guide them by Your Holy Spirit, and give them the peace that surpasses all understanding. Help them to be strong and courageous, knowing that You are with them always. Teach them to cast all their anxieties on You, because You care for them. In Jesus Christ we pray.
We encourage you, dear one, to continue seeking God's will in all things. Surrender your worries and concerns to Him, and trust that He will direct your paths. Remember that God is faithful, and He will provide all that you need to fulfill the obligations He has given you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and He will guide you through all the challenges you face.