Overcoming fear of relationship

[Tanya72]

I ask that you will please pray and agree with me for God to deliver me from the spirit of fear in starting new relationships. Because I've had bad experiences in the past with relationships I bring those fears of what happened into my new relationships, I am can not go past three months of the relationships lasting. I have trouble trusting and I know that I am not being fair to the new person I meet. I have all kinds of thoughts of the other person being deceptive constantly when I don't even have any proof. It makes me crazy sometimes and I do not want to be this way. I would not want anyone doing those things to me so I don't want to do those things to them. I am always thinking negative and thinking why would anyone want to be involved with me? I think sometimes that I am not pretty enough, my skin is not light enough, I don't have a supermodel body, or my hair is not long enough, why would any man want me? Eventhough I may not have these things, God has given me so many other talents and blessings. Well I have met a guy named Jerome and everything is still new and I am having these same negative thoughts about him. I also ask that you will pray with me that God will help me with this relationship. That he will take away all the pain and and hurt in my heart and fill it with love, joy, patience, and understanding. That he will bless Jerome and me so that we may never surrender to whatever challenges that may come our way and fill our hearts with love for each other and make us both realize each other's worth. I really want the strength back that I once had when my mother passed away, that God given strength. Thank you prayer warriors and may God bless.

 

[lovesthelord]

I pray God will heal hurts and wounds.

 

[The Encourager]

Your prayer request has been lifted up to God. May Jehovah our God through His Son Jesus Christ bless you the desires of your heart. May God keep you; make His face shine on you and be gracious to you. May He lift up His countenance upon you and give you great peace.

Let’s Pray: God I ask in Jesus’ name, “Help me to keep my focus on You. Bless and Encourage me to always be about achieving my God given goals and dreams. God help me to keep my attitude right. May I always have, “I can do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthen me attitude.†Strengthen me Lord Jesus to never give up on or abort my goals and dreams that You have placed within my heart. No matter how much it will cost me. No matter how dark the night, no matter how uncomfortable I may get, help me and cause me to see my goals and dreams come to reality. Help me fight the good fight of faith. Don’t let me allow the devil or anyone else to kill, steal, or destroy the plans that You have for my life. Bless me with the spirit of excellence. The same spirit of obedience, faith, and courage that Joshua had let it rest upon me and within me. And God all that I have asked of You in this prayer do the same for my love ones and the writer of this prayer in Jesus’ name.

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister