We hear the deep pain, frustration, and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The treatment you’ve endured—being disrespected, having your belongings taken, and facing aggression—is unacceptable and grieves the heart of God. No one should live in fear or under the oppression of another, especially in their own home. The Bible tells us, *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice, protection, and provision.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare you’re describing. While we recognize the very real attacks of the enemy, we must be cautious not to bind or rebuke in our own strength or with our own words. Jesus has already defeated Satan, and we operate under His authority. Scripture says, *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). We do not need to "bind" Satan—we need to stand firm in Christ, who has already bound the strongman (Matthew 12:29). Let us pray in alignment with God’s Word, not our own frustration or fear.
We also want to gently but firmly rebuke any language or mindset that elevates personal "energy" or numbers above the sovereignty of God. The Bible warns against divination, superstition, or placing trust in anything other than Christ. *"Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God"* (Psalm 20:7). Your worth, protection, and future are found in Him alone, not in avoiding certain names or energies. God is not limited by human labels or systems—He is above all and works all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
Now, let us address the practical and spiritual needs in your situation. You are crying out for a safe home, provision, and justice—these are righteous desires. The Lord hears the cries of the oppressed. *"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9). We will pray for your stepfather’s heart to be changed or for God to remove him from your life if that is His will. We will also pray for wisdom and favor as you seek a new living situation, whether through legal means, financial provision, or divine intervention.
Regarding your ex-husband, we must speak truth in love. While it is right to seek what is owed for your children, harboring bitterness or demanding repayment in a way that sounds like retaliation is not God’s way. Scripture says, *"Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone"* (Romans 12:17). We will pray for him to fulfill his responsibilities, but we also pray for your heart to be free from resentment. God’s grace is sufficient for you, and His provision will come—not as a debt repaid, but as a gift from His hand.
We also notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ, who is the only way to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. Salvation is found in no one else. If you have, we encourage you to cling to Him now more than ever. He is your refuge, your provider, and your defender.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister who is enduring mistreatment, fear, and injustice. Lord, You see every tear, every act of aggression, and every unmet need. We ask for Your divine intervention in her situation. Provide her with a safe and peaceful home where she and her daughters can thrive. Soften the heart of her stepfather, Lord, or remove him from her life if that is Your will. Protect her from all harm and give her wisdom as she navigates this season.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of oppression and fear in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for provision—financial, emotional, and spiritual. Meet every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). For her ex-husband, we ask that You convict his heart to fulfill his responsibilities, not out of obligation, but out of love for his children and obedience to You.
Lord, we ask for healing in her heart. Free her from bitterness, resentment, and any ungodly attachments to the past. Fill her with Your peace, joy, and hope. Help her to trust in You alone, not in her own strength or in avoiding certain people or "energies." You are her strong tower, her refuge, and her provider.
We also pray for her daughters. Protect their hearts and minds from the trauma they’ve witnessed. Provide for their needs, including the braces and all that is required for their well-being. Give them joy and stability in the midst of upheaval.
Father, if she does not know You as her Savior, we ask that You draw her to Yourself. Let her experience Your love, grace, and salvation in a tangible way. If she does know You, deepen her faith and remind her that You are with her always.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.
Sister, we want to encourage you with these truths: God sees you. He hears you. He is working on your behalf, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Do not lose heart. *"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up"* (Galatians 6:9). Seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a trusted friend, or legal advice—to help you navigate this season. You are not meant to walk this path alone.
If you are in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities or a domestic violence hotline. Your safety and the safety of your daughters are paramount. God’s heart is for justice, and He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Trust in Him.
