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I want to be nice and kind to her and not be irritated by the things she does I’m ###.
Older lady ### irritates me laughing humming and talking too I am mean to her. I need prayer to deliver me.
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We understand the struggle you’re facing, and we commend you for recognizing the need for change and seeking prayer. The irritation you feel toward this older lady—and the way you’ve responded—reveals a battle in your heart that can only be won through the power of Christ. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:29-32, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Your desire to be kind is evidence of the Holy Spirit working in you, but the struggle against irritation is real. This is not just about her actions—it’s about your heart’s response. Jesus said in Matthew 15:18-19, *"But the things which proceed out of the mouth come out of the heart, and they defile the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual sins, thefts, false testimony, and blasphemies."* Your reaction to her humor, talking, or humming is an opportunity for God to refine you. First Peter 4:8 reminds us, *"Above all things be earnest in your love among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of sins."*
Let us also consider how we are to honor those who are older. Leviticus 19:32 says, *"You shall rise up before the gray head, and honor the face of an old man, and you shall fear your God. I am Yahweh."* Even if her mannerisms grieve you, Scripture calls us to a higher standard—one of patience, respect, and love. Ask yourself: *Is my frustration rooted in pride, impatience, or a lack of love?* The apostle Paul urges us in Romans 12:10, *"In love of the brothers be tenderly affectionate to one another; in honor preferring one another."*
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, confessing that her heart has been hardened with irritation and unkindness toward this older woman. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the times she has spoken or acted harshly, for we know that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Wash her clean, Father, and create in her a pure heart, renewing a right spirit within her, as Your Word promises in Psalm 51:10.
We pray that You would replace her irritation with Your supernatural patience and love. Help her to see this woman through Your eyes—someone You have created and love deeply. Soften her heart, Lord, and fill her with Your compassion. When the humming or talking grates against her, let her respond with grace, remembering that love is not easily provoked (1 Corinthians 13:5). Teach her to bear with one another in love, just as You have borne with us in our weaknesses.
Father, we also ask that You would convict her quickly when unkind thoughts or words arise. Let her be swift to repent and seek Your face. Help her to honor this woman as You command, recognizing that every person is made in Your image. May her actions and words reflect Christ so clearly that this older lady would see Jesus in her.
We rebuke the spirit of irritation and impatience in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that our sister is more than a conqueror through Him who loved her (Romans 8:37), and we ask that You would fill her with the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Lord, we thank You that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6). May she walk in victory, extending the same grace to others that You have so lavishly poured out on her. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to actively pursue kindness, even when it feels unnatural. Start by praying *for* this woman—ask God to bless her, to meet her needs, and to help you see her as He does. Proverbs 11:17 tells us, *"The merciful man does good to his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh."* As you extend mercy, you will find your own soul healed.
If you find yourself slipping back into irritation, pause and ask the Holy Spirit to fill you anew. Memorize Scripture that combats these feelings, such as Colossians 3:12-14: *"Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another and forgiving each other. If any man has a complaint against any, even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."*
You are not alone in this struggle. We are standing with you, believing that God will transform your heart and use this situation to draw you—and perhaps even this older lady—closer to Him. Keep seeking Him, and He will give you the strength to love as He loves.
Your desire to be kind is evidence of the Holy Spirit working in you, but the struggle against irritation is real. This is not just about her actions—it’s about your heart’s response. Jesus said in Matthew 15:18-19, *"But the things which proceed out of the mouth come out of the heart, and they defile the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual sins, thefts, false testimony, and blasphemies."* Your reaction to her humor, talking, or humming is an opportunity for God to refine you. First Peter 4:8 reminds us, *"Above all things be earnest in your love among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of sins."*
Let us also consider how we are to honor those who are older. Leviticus 19:32 says, *"You shall rise up before the gray head, and honor the face of an old man, and you shall fear your God. I am Yahweh."* Even if her mannerisms grieve you, Scripture calls us to a higher standard—one of patience, respect, and love. Ask yourself: *Is my frustration rooted in pride, impatience, or a lack of love?* The apostle Paul urges us in Romans 12:10, *"In love of the brothers be tenderly affectionate to one another; in honor preferring one another."*
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, confessing that her heart has been hardened with irritation and unkindness toward this older woman. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the times she has spoken or acted harshly, for we know that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Wash her clean, Father, and create in her a pure heart, renewing a right spirit within her, as Your Word promises in Psalm 51:10.
We pray that You would replace her irritation with Your supernatural patience and love. Help her to see this woman through Your eyes—someone You have created and love deeply. Soften her heart, Lord, and fill her with Your compassion. When the humming or talking grates against her, let her respond with grace, remembering that love is not easily provoked (1 Corinthians 13:5). Teach her to bear with one another in love, just as You have borne with us in our weaknesses.
Father, we also ask that You would convict her quickly when unkind thoughts or words arise. Let her be swift to repent and seek Your face. Help her to honor this woman as You command, recognizing that every person is made in Your image. May her actions and words reflect Christ so clearly that this older lady would see Jesus in her.
We rebuke the spirit of irritation and impatience in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that our sister is more than a conqueror through Him who loved her (Romans 8:37), and we ask that You would fill her with the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Lord, we thank You that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6). May she walk in victory, extending the same grace to others that You have so lavishly poured out on her. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to actively pursue kindness, even when it feels unnatural. Start by praying *for* this woman—ask God to bless her, to meet her needs, and to help you see her as He does. Proverbs 11:17 tells us, *"The merciful man does good to his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh."* As you extend mercy, you will find your own soul healed.
If you find yourself slipping back into irritation, pause and ask the Holy Spirit to fill you anew. Memorize Scripture that combats these feelings, such as Colossians 3:12-14: *"Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another and forgiving each other. If any man has a complaint against any, even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."*
You are not alone in this struggle. We are standing with you, believing that God will transform your heart and use this situation to draw you—and perhaps even this older lady—closer to Him. Keep seeking Him, and He will give you the strength to love as He loves.
We hear you, dear friend, and we're right there with you, feeling the irritation that sometimes comes when dealing with certain behaviors. It's like living with a little hummingbird that just won't stop chirping, isn't it? 
But remember, God has given us the power to choose how we respond to these situations. It's not just about her actions, but about how we react.
Let's take a moment to pray together, shall we?
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, laying down our frustrations and irritations at the feet of Jesus. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the times we've let irritation get the better of us. We know that our words and actions should reflect the love and patience of Christ, but we've fallen short. Please, Lord, help us to see this situation through Your eyes. Help us to love this woman as You love her, with a love that is patient, kind, and understanding.
We ask, Lord, that You would fill us with Your Spirit, giving us the strength to bear with one another in love, just as You bear with us. Help us to honor this older lady, treating her with the respect and dignity that she deserves, as Your Word commands.
We claim the promise in Philippians 4:13, that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. We believe that You will give us the power to love as You love, to be patient when we want to be irritated, and to be kind when we feel like being harsh.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
And remember, friend, every time you feel that irritation rising, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you're not just dealing with a hummingbird, but a child of God, created in His image, just like you. Keep seeking Him, and He will give you the strength to love as He loves. You're not alone in this. We're standing with you, believing in the power of God to transform your heart and use this situation for His glory. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep loving. You've got this, with God's help!
But remember, God has given us the power to choose how we respond to these situations. It's not just about her actions, but about how we react.Let's take a moment to pray together, shall we?
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, laying down our frustrations and irritations at the feet of Jesus. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the times we've let irritation get the better of us. We know that our words and actions should reflect the love and patience of Christ, but we've fallen short. Please, Lord, help us to see this situation through Your eyes. Help us to love this woman as You love her, with a love that is patient, kind, and understanding.
We ask, Lord, that You would fill us with Your Spirit, giving us the strength to bear with one another in love, just as You bear with us. Help us to honor this older lady, treating her with the respect and dignity that she deserves, as Your Word commands.
We claim the promise in Philippians 4:13, that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. We believe that You will give us the power to love as You love, to be patient when we want to be irritated, and to be kind when we feel like being harsh.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
And remember, friend, every time you feel that irritation rising, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you're not just dealing with a hummingbird, but a child of God, created in His image, just like you. Keep seeking Him, and He will give you the strength to love as He loves. You're not alone in this. We're standing with you, believing in the power of God to transform your heart and use this situation for His glory. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep loving. You've got this, with God's help!
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting you up in prayer over these past few days as you seek God’s heart in your relationship with this dear sister in Christ. It is a blessing to stand with you, asking the Lord to soften your heart and fill you with His love, patience, and kindness—especially when her habits test your spirit. We know how convicting it can be when the Holy Spirit reveals areas where we fall short of reflecting Christ’s gentleness, and we admire your willingness to surrender this struggle to Him.
If the Lord has already begun to work in your heart, giving you a newfound patience or even a growing affection for this woman, we’d love for you to share that praise with us. There is such encouragement in hearing how God moves in these quiet, personal battles! But if you’re still wrestling with irritation or feeling the weight of your own shortcomings, please don’t hesitate to post again. We are more than happy to continue praying with you, asking the Father to replace frustration with compassion and to help you see her through His eyes. Sometimes these prayers are answered in layers, and we want to walk with you until you experience His full peace.
May He remind you daily that your kindness to her is an act of worship—a way to love Him by loving one of His own. We’re praying that every interaction becomes an opportunity to display the grace you’ve been given in Christ. Keep seeking Him; He is faithful to complete this good work in you. In Jesus Name.
If the Lord has already begun to work in your heart, giving you a newfound patience or even a growing affection for this woman, we’d love for you to share that praise with us. There is such encouragement in hearing how God moves in these quiet, personal battles! But if you’re still wrestling with irritation or feeling the weight of your own shortcomings, please don’t hesitate to post again. We are more than happy to continue praying with you, asking the Father to replace frustration with compassion and to help you see her through His eyes. Sometimes these prayers are answered in layers, and we want to walk with you until you experience His full peace.
May He remind you daily that your kindness to her is an act of worship—a way to love Him by loving one of His own. We’re praying that every interaction becomes an opportunity to display the grace you’ve been given in Christ. Keep seeking Him; He is faithful to complete this good work in you. In Jesus Name.
