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Good Morning Group, I continue to pray for Obedience in The Name of the FATHER, THE SON AND THE HOLY SPIRIT NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS TWO NIGHTS AGO I HAD A DREAM MY FIRST HUSBAND WHO PASSED AWAY YEARS AGO, WAS WAVING TO ME AND SMILING, TELLING ME HE'S OK. It's ok to be with my new husband I can TRUST HIM. I have been having some reservations because, despite my new husband being a man of the cloth, he is always standing in a position of judgment; he uses the word of God as a basis for judgment. HE TOLD ME MY DREAM WAS A SIGN THAT I WAS GOING TO BE LEFT BEHIND IN THE DAYS OF TRIBULATION UNLESS I STARTED LISTENING TO HIM BECAUSE CHRIST IS RETURNING IN SEPTEMBER. When I TELL HIM NO, MAN KNOWS THE DAY OR THE HOUR UPON CHRIST RETURN. WHILE MY HUSBAND MAY KNOW THE BIBLE FROM GENESIS TO REVELATIONS, HE IS NOT PERFECT BECAUSE NONE OF US ARE. I NEVER PASS JUDGEMENT ON HIM OR ANYBODY ELSE NOR WOULD I CLAIM TO KNOW WHERE SOMEONE IS GOING TO SPEND ETERNITY BECAUSE OF MY OWN PERSONAL FEELINGS. I PRAY FOR CONTINUED OBEDIENCE AND IF THIS MARRIAGE IS MEANT TO BE TO REMAIN IN IT. IF NOT, THEN TO BE REMOVED FROM IT BECAUSE THIS IS BOTH OF OUR SECOND MARRIAGE. WE ARE BOTH VERY DIFFERENT. HE HAS MANY INSECURITIES AND SOME ARE ISSUES I PRAY TO OUR LORD DAILY CONCERNING JEALOUSY OVER NOTHING AND MAKING THINGS UP AS WE GO ALONG. MOST MEN FEEL LIKE WOMEN CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE AND THEY WERE BLINDSIDED. I FEEL THAT VERY SAME IMPACT. I FEEL PROVERBS 21:9 APPLIES TO ME HOWEVER IT'S REVERSED BECAUSE I AM THE ONE LITERALLY LIVING ON THE ROOFTOP CONSTANTLY (emphasizes the importance of peace and harmony in one's home). Thank you for this prayer OUTLET IT HELPS ME IN SO MANY WAYS. FOR MY HUSBAND TELLS ME BY HIS WORDS AS HE CLAIMS THE LORD IS NOT PLEASED WITH ME WHICH HE CLAIMS THE LORD IS SPEAKING THROUGH HIM WHICH I FEEL IS FALSE. I FEEL HE USES THE LORD AS A TOOL OR HE THINKS HE CAN TO MANIPULATE TO GET MY ATTENTION TO GET HIS WAY SINCE HE WEARS A COLLAR BECAUSE OUR BISHOP SAYS "HE IS SPECIAL." THINGS IS WE AS PEOPLE CAN FOOL SOME OF THE PEOPLE SOME OF THE TIME HOWEVER WE CANNOT FOOL GOD NONE OF THE TIME. I FIND MY PEACE OUTSIDE OF THE HOME MOSTLY WHICH IS TELLING ME MANY THINGS. MY PEACE SHOULD BE WITHIN MY HOME SO I PRAY FOR PEACE AT HOME. HE FEELS HE IS DOING RIGHT. I DON'T COMPLAIN. HE HAS TO DO WHAT HE FEELS IS RIGHT. MY SALVATION AND RELATIONSHIP IS PERSONAL WITH CHRIST NOT BASED ON WHAT MY HUSBAND FEELS HE SHOULD SEE OR AM I JUST BEING STUBBORN? I READ IN THE MORNING. I HEAD THE WOMEN'S MINISTRY. I UTILIZE THIS OUTLET TO PRAY AND OTHER SITES YET BECAUSE HE DOES NOT SEE WHAT I DO HE PASS JUDGEMENT. IT'S NOT ABOUT RIGHT OR WRONG FOR ME. IT'S JUST ABOUT OBEDIENCE TO THE WORD OF GOD FOR ME.
 
We lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this difficult season in your marriage, seeking obedience to God above all else. Your heart for the Lord is evident, and we commend you for prioritizing your relationship with Christ over the opinions of man—even when that man is your husband. The Scriptures remind us in **Acts 5:29**, *"We must obey God rather than men."* This is a foundational truth you are already embracing, and we pray the Lord strengthens you in it.

Your dream about your late husband was a beautiful reminder of God’s peace and His sovereignty over life and death. We rejoice that you found comfort in it, for our God is a God of comfort (**2 Corinthians 1:3-4**). However, we must address with urgency the troubling claims your current husband has made—particularly his assertion that Christ is returning in September and that your dream signifies you will be "left behind." These statements are not only unbiblical but dangerously presumptuous. **Matthew 24:36** clearly states, *"But no one knows of that day and hour, not even the angels of heaven, but my Father only."* No man, no matter his title or position, has authority to declare what God has reserved for Himself alone. Your husband’s claim is a direct contradiction of Scripture, and his use of fear to manipulate you is not of the Lord. **1 John 4:18** tells us, *"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love."* A spirit of fear and control does not align with the fruit of the Spirit (**Galatians 5:22-23**), and we rebuke this spirit in the name of Jesus.

Your concerns about his judgmental attitude and the lack of peace in your home are valid. A marriage should reflect the love and grace of Christ, not a hierarchy of condemnation. **Ephesians 5:25** commands husbands to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."* If your husband is using his position—whether as a man of the cloth or simply as your spouse—to lord over you, he is operating outside of God’s design for marriage. **1 Peter 5:3** warns leaders not to *"lord it over those entrusted to you, but be examples to the flock."* His jealousy, insecurity, and manipulation are not fruits of godly leadership but of the flesh. You are not being stubborn by refusing to submit to unbiblical control; you are being obedient to God’s Word, which calls wives to *"submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord"* (**Ephesians 5:22**)—but this submission is never a call to endure abuse, spiritual or otherwise. If his behavior is causing you to live in constant distress, as you described with **Proverbs 21:9**, this is not the peace God intends for His daughters.

We also want to affirm your understanding that your salvation and relationship with Christ are *personal*. No one—not even a spouse—can mediate or dictate your standing before God. **1 Timothy 2:5** declares, *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus."* Your husband does not have the authority to declare the Lord’s pleasure or displeasure over you. That is between you and God alone. His attempts to do so are not only presumptuous but border on spiritual abuse. You are wise to seek the Lord’s face directly through His Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers. Your involvement in women’s ministry and your commitment to prayer are evidence of a heart that longs for God—this is commendable, not something to be judged.

Now, let us pray together for you and your marriage:

*Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who seeks Your will above all else. Lord, we ask for Your discernment to fill her heart and mind as she navigates this marriage. Give her wisdom to know when to speak, when to remain silent, and when to take action. Father, we rebuke every spirit of control, manipulation, and fear that has taken root in this marriage. These things are not of You, and we command them to flee in the name of Jesus. Lord, soften her husband’s heart. If he is truly Yours, convict him of his pride, his judgmental spirit, and his misuse of Your Word. Remind him that You alone are Judge (**James 4:12**) and that his role is to love, cherish, and lead with humility, not to condemn. Father, if this marriage can be redeemed, we pray for a mighty work of restoration. Bring peace to their home, Lord, and let Your love cast out all fear. But if this union is not Your will, provide a clear path of escape for our sister. Give her the courage to walk in obedience, even if it means walking away from what is unhealthy. Surround her with godly counsel, Father, and let her find her peace in You alone. Strengthen her, Lord, and remind her that her worth is found in Christ, not in the approval of man. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.*

Sister, we encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel from trusted believers—perhaps a pastor or mature Christian woman who can walk alongside you. If your husband’s behavior escalates or becomes emotionally or spiritually harmful, do not hesitate to set boundaries or seek safety. Remember, **Psalm 34:18** says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in this. The Lord sees your heart, and He will guide you. Stay rooted in His Word, and let His truth—not the words of man—be your foundation. We are praying for you.
 
We're here for you, dear sister. We understand that navigating a marriage, especially one that's different from your first, can be challenging. We appreciate your commitment to obedience, even when it's difficult. Let's keep that as our focus.

We want to assure you that God sees your heart and your efforts to live according to His will. He knows your reservations and the insecurities you're facing. We're here to lift you up in prayer and support you in any way we can.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, not just in your marriage, but in all aspects of your life. His Word is a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path. Trust in Him, and He will guide you.

Let's continue to pray for you and your marriage, that God's will may be done, and that His peace may reign in your home. We're here to support you, every step of the way.
 
Thank you, everyone, for praying with and for me in this extremely difficult situation. You have provided more clarity through God's WORDS and BIBLICAL DOCTRINE. YOU HAVE PROVIDED A SENSE OF PEACE WITHIN MY SPIRIT THROUGH THE HOLY SPIRIT THROUGH CHRIST. I APPRECIATE EACH OF YOU AND WANT YOU TO KNOW I WILL NOT MAKE ANY MOVES HAPHAZARDLY AND I AM WAITING ON GOD DAILY !!! HALLEJUAH THANK YOU FOR PEACE IN STORMS !!! PEACE BE UNTO EACH OF YOU !!!
 

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