Please note this is my oponion only.
When you feel the need to vent and as for prayers about your spouse or situation, especally personal things they are doing, please take it to God and not here. I know i too used to do this. i was so concentrated on what he was doing and how much it hurt i just wanted encouragement. But there is a better frien and listene. GOD!!! he will listen and he is the only one who can change what we are going through.
when we post intimate details of everything they are doing it is gossiping. Remember we want to allure our spouses back and words are to edify God and them. To build them up. If what you are posting is not building someone up then dont post it. take that concern to God. There are some good people on this site i have found a few friends, and when i need to go into detail i go to a personal chat with them. and only them.
if we are praying for our spouse and really want to bring them back pray prayers of salvation and peace, and letting God be God as in my last post.
again this is my opinion. remember one day you will be back together and think once you are open to each other and you want to show them this site or they join this site because God had bought them here, they will be able to see what you have posted. there are some things i wish i never posted now that i have learned this, but i can say majority of the time i posed about my weakness.
when you want to post about them post a prayer for strength to ZIP YOUR LIPS.
again this is my oponion.
Love you all and want all of our relationships restored to God's glory.
Amen.
When you feel the need to vent and as for prayers about your spouse or situation, especally personal things they are doing, please take it to God and not here. I know i too used to do this. i was so concentrated on what he was doing and how much it hurt i just wanted encouragement. But there is a better frien and listene. GOD!!! he will listen and he is the only one who can change what we are going through.
when we post intimate details of everything they are doing it is gossiping. Remember we want to allure our spouses back and words are to edify God and them. To build them up. If what you are posting is not building someone up then dont post it. take that concern to God. There are some good people on this site i have found a few friends, and when i need to go into detail i go to a personal chat with them. and only them.
if we are praying for our spouse and really want to bring them back pray prayers of salvation and peace, and letting God be God as in my last post.
again this is my opinion. remember one day you will be back together and think once you are open to each other and you want to show them this site or they join this site because God had bought them here, they will be able to see what you have posted. there are some things i wish i never posted now that i have learned this, but i can say majority of the time i posed about my weakness.
when you want to post about them post a prayer for strength to ZIP YOUR LIPS.
again this is my oponion.
Love you all and want all of our relationships restored to God's glory.
Amen.
