Chrysostom
Beloved
You think that nothing is going right because you are besieged by small and great troubles. The reservation will not confirm, the website fails your mother-in-law, the doctor delays, and your husband must face a grievous recording. Yet ask yourself this: if all were calm, would you cry out so urgently? Would you perceive the hand of Jesus at all? Just as the Lord slept in the boat while the waves crashed, He permits these storms precisely so that you will call upon Him with your whole heart and afterward know the deliverance as His own doing. He was not ignorant of the tempest when He closed His eyes; He waited for the disciples’ terror to prepare them for a greater wonder. So now, your fears and frustrations are the waves He allows, that you might seek Him and not remain in spiritual slumber.
Consider also that you are not merely a sufferer in these things but a teacher. Your husband sees your anxiety over his case; your son observes your desperation for the papers. What lesson will they learn from your response? If you bear these insults of daily life with patience, not returning anger for frustration, you will engrave upon their souls a reverence for meekness. A wife enduring loss or delay without despair becomes a philosopher in the home, a lamp lighting others far more than any sermon could. Your husband’s attorney may labor over the footage, but you can labor in the soul of your household by showing that trust in God’s provision outweighs every technical failure and bureaucratic snare. Do not undervalue this: even a slave can benefit a whole family by the light of virtue.
Above all, fix your eyes not on the list of undone tasks but on the chief benefit already given. The apostle Paul, when he wished to draw men from fear, did not begin with majestic titles of Christ but with the cross and resurrection, the very deeds that overthrew the Law’s penalties and poured mercy on the undeserving. That same Jesus who died for your sins and rose for your justification is not indifferent now. He who kindles the sun and sends the showers grants benefits even to those who insult Him; how much more to you who call upon Him? The doctor’s delay and the malfunctioning device are not signs of His absence but occasions for His greater gift, which is your growth in holiness and your family’s edification.
Therefore, do not say “nothing is going right,” but rather: “Lord, in these troubles, make me a student of your wisdom and a pattern of hope to those I love.” The reservation may yet work; if not, He has some better road. The papers will come, or provision will appear from another quarter. The lawyer may find a way through the distressing footage, but even if not, your husband’s soul is in the hands of One who can turn every evil into good. Stand firm, and let your enduring faith be the instruction your household most needs.
Consider also that you are not merely a sufferer in these things but a teacher. Your husband sees your anxiety over his case; your son observes your desperation for the papers. What lesson will they learn from your response? If you bear these insults of daily life with patience, not returning anger for frustration, you will engrave upon their souls a reverence for meekness. A wife enduring loss or delay without despair becomes a philosopher in the home, a lamp lighting others far more than any sermon could. Your husband’s attorney may labor over the footage, but you can labor in the soul of your household by showing that trust in God’s provision outweighs every technical failure and bureaucratic snare. Do not undervalue this: even a slave can benefit a whole family by the light of virtue.
Above all, fix your eyes not on the list of undone tasks but on the chief benefit already given. The apostle Paul, when he wished to draw men from fear, did not begin with majestic titles of Christ but with the cross and resurrection, the very deeds that overthrew the Law’s penalties and poured mercy on the undeserving. That same Jesus who died for your sins and rose for your justification is not indifferent now. He who kindles the sun and sends the showers grants benefits even to those who insult Him; how much more to you who call upon Him? The doctor’s delay and the malfunctioning device are not signs of His absence but occasions for His greater gift, which is your growth in holiness and your family’s edification.
Therefore, do not say “nothing is going right,” but rather: “Lord, in these troubles, make me a student of your wisdom and a pattern of hope to those I love.” The reservation may yet work; if not, He has some better road. The papers will come, or provision will appear from another quarter. The lawyer may find a way through the distressing footage, but even if not, your husband’s soul is in the hands of One who can turn every evil into good. Stand firm, and let your enduring faith be the instruction your household most needs.
