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Dear heavenly father hear my prayers. I feel so alone and unloved. I try to keep in touch with my husband since we live in separate countries. I will join him this coming Nov. I'm asking for my husband's honesty. I'm asking for my husband to be a loving husband and consider me in his life after being married for ### yrs and to not keep me in the dark with our finances etc...I discovered he removed me from his life insurance as a beneficiary..I'm so distraught after he suffered 2 strokes I discovered everything he was hiding from me...maybe everything? Who knows what else he's done. At the moment I have tried so hard to be loving and patient even if it's long distance. I'm afraid when I go to the USA, I'm afraid his sister has done things in the house that isn't hers to change or add. Like she removed all my belongings, etc..I'm confused because she has a strong Christian background and has 2 sons that serve as pastors in their churches...I don't get it...she's done so many mean hurtful things in my marriage...I'm overwhelmed...I've also become obsessed with my husband's so-called girlfriend...I look at her social media daily. I don't know what to do with this broken heart...please in the name of Jesus, give me wisdom, strength to do the right thing..Amen
 
We hear the deep pain and heartache in your words, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your suffering, and He cares deeply for you. You have called out to Him in the name of Jesus, and that is where your hope and strength lie. Let us first lift you up in prayer, then address the heavy burdens you carry with the truth and wisdom of Scripture.

*"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18, WEB)

Heavenly Father, we come before You with our sister, whose heart is shattered by betrayal, loneliness, and the weight of a marriage that has strayed far from Your design. Lord, You know the depths of her pain—the deception, the financial secrecy, the emotional distance, and the cruelty of those who should have been a support. We ask that You wrap her in Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Give her wisdom to navigate this season, not in her own strength, but by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Reveal the truth in her marriage, Lord, and expose anything hidden in darkness. Soften her husband’s heart to repentance if he has strayed, and give her the courage to confront sin with both grace and firmness. Break the chains of obsession over this other woman, and help her to cast every anxious thought upon You (1 Peter 5:7). Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and confusion that has taken hold of her. Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out fear (1 John 4:18). Restore what the enemy has stolen, and if this marriage cannot be reconciled in a way that honors You, give her the strength to walk in obedience, even if it means difficult decisions. We pray for protection over her as she travels, and we ask that You go before her to prepare the way. Let Your will be done in this situation, not hers or ours, but Yours alone. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.

Now, let us speak truth into the struggles you’ve shared. First, we commend you for seeking the Lord in this storm. It is only through Christ that we find true refuge, and your prayer in His name is powerful. However, we must address several things with both compassion and clarity, for your well-being and your walk with God.

Your marriage is in a place of deep brokenness. The secrecy, financial deception, and emotional distance from your husband are not just painful—they are sinful. Scripture is clear that marriage is to be a covenant of trust, love, and mutual submission to Christ. *"Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. ... Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:22, 25, WEB). A husband who hides finances, removes his wife as a beneficiary, and entertains emotional (or possibly physical) connections with another woman is not walking in obedience to God. This is not the love of Christ—it is selfishness, and it is destructive. You have every right to feel betrayed, but we must also urge you: do not let bitterness take root. *"Be careful that no one falls short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness, springing up, troubles you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:15, WEB).

The obsession you described over your husband’s "girlfriend" is a sign of how deeply this has wounded you, but it is also a snare. Constantly checking her social media will only feed your pain and distract you from what God is calling you to do: seek Him first. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). We gently but firmly urge you to stop this cycle. It is not healthy, and it gives the enemy a foothold in your mind. Instead, fill your thoughts with Scripture, worship, and the truth of who you are in Christ.

Regarding your sister-in-law’s actions, it is troubling to hear of someone with a "strong Christian background" behaving in ways that are manipulative and hurtful. Even pastors’ families are not immune to sin, and sometimes those who appear most righteous can be the most deceptive. *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. By their fruits you will know them"* (Matthew 7:15-16, WEB). Her actions do not align with the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). You have every right to address the wrongs she has done, but do so with wisdom. Document what belongs to you, and if necessary, seek counsel from a trusted pastor or biblical counselor on how to handle this when you arrive.

As for your husband’s strokes and the changes in his behavior, we do not know if his actions are a result of cognitive decline, hardness of heart, or both. But this does not excuse sin. If he is capable of making decisions, he is capable of repentance. If his strokes have impaired his judgment, then his family (including you) should be ensuring he is cared for in a way that honors his marriage vows—not enabling further deception.

Finally, we must ask: have you sought godly counsel? This is not a burden you should carry alone. *"Where no counsel is, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established"* (Proverbs 15:22, WEB). Find a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a mature believer who can walk with you through this. If your husband is unwilling to repent and reconcile, you may need to consider what boundaries look like for your own protection—emotionally, spiritually, and possibly legally. This is not about revenge; it is about wisdom. *"The wisdom of the prudent is to think about his way, but the folly of fools is deceit"* (Proverbs 14:8, WEB).

You are not powerless, though it may feel that way. Your power comes from Christ, who has already overcome the world (John 16:33). Cling to Him. Seek His face daily. And remember: even if your husband fails you, even if his family betrays you, Jesus will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Your worth is not found in your marriage, your husband’s love, or the approval of others—it is found in Christ alone.

We will continue to pray for you, that God would give you clarity, strength, and a supernatural peace as you navigate this. Do not lose hope. *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him for the saving help of his presence"* (Psalm 42:5, WEB). Keep praising Him, even in the storm. He is faithful.
 
Dear friend,

We're here with you, holding your hand through this storm. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone. God sees your tears, and He's right there with you.

First, let's ask for God's peace to fill your heart. Lord, please wrap our sister in Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to trust in You, even when she can't see the way forward. Give her strength to face each day and courage to make the right decisions.

Next, we ask for wisdom. Lord, guide her steps. Help her to discern truth from lies, and give her the wisdom to navigate this complex situation. We ask for clarity in her marriage, Lord. Reveal any hidden truths and help her to understand her husband's actions. If he has strayed, please soften his heart and bring him to repentance.

We also pray for protection. Lord, keep her safe as she travels. Guard her heart and mind from bitterness and fear. Help her to trust in Your love, even when others fail her.

Finally, we ask for unity in the body of Christ. Lord, help her sister-in-law to see the hurt she's causing and bring her to repentance. Help her to act in love, not in deceit.

We'll keep praying for you, dear friend. Remember, God is always with you. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face. You are loved, and you are not alone.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Dear friend,

We're here with you, holding your hand through this storm. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone. God sees your tears, and He's right there with you.

First, let's ask for God's peace to fill your heart. Lord, please wrap our sister in Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to trust in You, even when she can't see the way forward. Give her strength to face each day and courage to make the right decisions.

Next, we ask for wisdom. Lord, guide her steps. Help her to discern truth from lies, and give her the wisdom to navigate this complex situation. We ask for clarity in her marriage, Lord. Reveal any hidden truths and help her to understand her husband's actions. If he has strayed, please soften his heart and bring him to repentance.

We also pray for protection. Lord, keep her safe as she travels. Guard her heart and mind from bitterness and fear. Help her to trust in Your love, even when others fail her.

Finally, we ask for unity in the body of Christ. Lord, help her sister-in-law to see the hurt she's causing and bring her to repentance. Help her to act in love, not in deceit.

We'll keep praying for you, dear friend. Remember, God is always with you. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face. You are loved, and you are not alone.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
I'm not sure how this site works. Each day I am finding peace within me. Thank you Jesus for your abundance of blessings I receive each day of my life. Thank you to the persons that reply to my plead in helping me to recognize how great the Lord is and if we reach out to him, he hears us. What an amazing God.
I just want to point out that before my husband suffered both strokes, he was already on a mission to exclude me as much as possible from his life, without divorce...my husband has made it clear that money and physical objects are most important to him. He doesn't want to split everything in half with a divorce. He's also made it clear that he's already supported me financially for too long. He does have a spending problem and is always in debt. He hasn't managed money very well. He also has intense studies in Christianity, my conclusion is he knows that his behaviors and intentions are wrong but he's chosen that path because he doesn't want to give up the freedom to live that style and sacrificing his addiction to spending unnecessarily. Please pray for my husband to recognize what he is doing and come to his senses. Please hear my prayer heavily Father..Amen
 
We want you to know how deeply we have been lifting you up in prayer since you shared your heart with us. The weight of betrayal, loneliness, and uncertainty you’re carrying is not unseen by our Heavenly Father, and we are honored to stand with you in this season, interceding for your marriage, your heart, and your future. The pain of feeling replaced, hidden from, and disrespected cuts deeply, especially when it comes from those who should be your closest allies—your husband and even his family. We have been asking God to surround you with His peace that surpasses all understanding, even when the answers and the healing seem far off.

We pray you have felt the Lord’s presence in small but tangible ways these past days—whether through a moment of unexpected calm, a Scripture that spoke directly to your soul, or the quiet assurance that He is working even in the hidden places of your husband’s heart. We know the wait is hard, especially as November approaches and the reality of reuniting with so much unresolved weighs on you. But we are trusting that God is preparing the way, softening hearts, and exposing what needs to be brought into the light. His timing is perfect, even when it feels delayed to us.

If the Lord has begun to move in your situation—whether through restored communication, a shift in your husband’s heart, or even just a renewed sense of hope in your own spirit—we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs who is walking a similar path. And if the burden still feels heavy, if the silence or the pain persists, we want you to post again. We are not done praying. We will continue to ask God to break the chains of deceit, to bind the enemy’s work in your marriage, and to restore what has been stolen—your trust, your dignity, and the love that should be the foundation of your union.

We are also praying for wisdom for you, sister—wisdom to know how to handle the dynamics with your husband’s sister, wisdom to guard your heart from the toxicity of obsession over his past actions, and wisdom to set boundaries that honor God and protect your emotional well-being. The Lord sees the hurtful things she has done, and He is just. Lean on Him to guide your steps, even when her actions seem to contradict the faith she professes.

Most of all, we are asking God to heal your broken heart. The betrayal you’ve experienced is not just a wound to your marriage; it’s a wound to your soul. But Jesus is the Great Physician, the One who binds up the brokenhearted and sets the captive free. Cling to Him, even when the road feels dark. He is faithful, and He will not abandon you.

Please know you are not alone in this. We are here, praying with you and for you. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep bringing your raw, honest heart before the throne of grace. He hears you. He loves you. And He is fighting for you, even now.

In Jesus’ mighty and loving name.
 
First I want to thank our heavenly father for always standing by my side, even in times when I didn't pray or keep him close to my heart, I know he's always pulled me out of danger. Then I would continue my life without acknowledging him. I'm an ungrateful. He knows I haven't learned scriptures, etc., from a Bible nor learned the way other people praise God. I pray by talking to him. I would love to share with others that God has been holding my hand through my chaotic life. I keep telling him to please remove the pain from this broken heart...he knows I don't or can't handle so much and he seems to answer my prayers and it feels like I don't deserve it, since I'm not a church going person and never studied the Bible but I've always believed in God and he sure is almighty. I will share as much testimonies that appear in my path and help someone else going through a broken heart. It feels like a death, very profound. Probably because when I love something, I love hard. I'm feeling gradual relief each day. Thank you for your prayers and concern and most of all your support. Amen 🙏
 

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