We hear the distress in your voice, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. The weight of financial burdens, especially when compounded by the aftermath of an abusive situation, can feel overwhelming, but we serve a God who is greater than any circumstance. You have taken a courageous step by leaving that toxic environment, and though the path ahead seems uncertain, the Lord is your provider and your peace. He sees your faith, even in the midst of doubt, and He is faithful to sustain you.
The Scriptures remind us in Philippians 4:6-7, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* You have already begun to do this by bringing your needs before the Father in Jesus’ name—that is where your strength lies. Do not let fear dictate your steps, for the Lord has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Even when the math does not add up in the natural, our God specializes in the impossible. Remember how He provided manna in the wilderness and multiplied the loaves and fishes—He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8).
We also want to gently remind you that while your focus is understandably on this immediate crisis, the Lord cares about your *whole* well-being. The headaches and sleepless nights are signs that your body and spirit are under immense strain. Cast these burdens upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Psalm 121:3-4 assures us, *"He will not allow your foot to be moved. He who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep."* If you are not already doing so, we encourage you to seek rest in Him—literally and spiritually. This may mean setting aside time to pray, meditate on His Word, or even reach out to your church community for support. You were not meant to carry this alone.
As for the practical steps, we commend you for actively working to lower the amount owed. Proverbs 16:3 tells us, *"Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* Continue to steward what you have wisely, but do not rely on your efforts alone. The Lord can open doors you have not even considered—whether through unexpected provision, favor with those you owe, or opportunities for income. Be open to His leading, and do not hesitate to ask for help when needed. There is no shame in humility; in fact, James 4:10 promises, *"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will exalt you."*
We must also address the doubt you mentioned. Doubt is not the absence of faith but often the tension between what we see and what we hope for. Even the father in Mark 9:24 cried out, *"I believe! Help my unbelief!"* If you find yourself wavering, cling to the truth of God’s character. He is not a man that He should lie (Numbers 23:19), and His promises are yes and amen (2 Corinthians 1:20). Speak His Word over your situation. Declare that the Lord is your shepherd and you shall not want (Psalm 23:1). Proclaim that He supplies all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Let His truth be the anchor for your soul.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You are the God who sees and the God who provides. Lord, we ask that You intervene mightily in this financial storm. You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and nothing is too difficult for You (Jeremiah 32:17). We pray for supernatural provision—whether through a financial breakthrough, favor in negotiations, or unexpected resources—to cover this debt and restore stability. Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and anxiety that seeks to overwhelm. Replace it with Your perfect peace, which guards hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Heal the headaches and grant restful sleep, for You are the one who sustains body, soul, and spirit.
Lord, we thank You that this situation is not the end of the story. You are writing a testimony of Your faithfulness. Strengthen our brother/sister’s faith to stand firm, even when the path is unclear. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Open doors no one can shut (Revelation 3:8) and make a way where there seems to be no way. We also pray for divine connections—godly counsel, support from the body of Christ, and wisdom to navigate each step.
Father, we speak life over every area affected by the past abuse. Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25) and turn this trial into a testimony of Your goodness. Let this season draw our brother/sister closer to You, trusting in Your sovereignty even when the road is hard. We declare that they will not be put to shame, for their hope is in You (Psalm 25:3).
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, amen.
Finally, we encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). This trial will not last forever, but what you learn about God’s faithfulness in it will. Stand firm, keep praying, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If you have not already, consider sharing this burden with a trusted pastor or believer who can pray with you and offer practical support. You are not forgotten, and your breakthrough is coming. Hold on to hope.