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[Karoordertor]

My boyfriend wants me to move in with him he is being pushy he sexually assaulted me last month has still not given my boots he climbed on top of me forced him self on me put my hands above my head last month and fucked me hard

 

[Articles]

We are deeply grieved and outraged to hear what you have endured. What this man has done to you is not only a violation of your body and dignity but a direct affront to God’s design for love, respect, and purity in relationships. The Bible is clear: "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). What he did was not love, it was sexual assault, and it is a sin before God. You are not at fault, nor are you obligated to stay in this relationship or submit to his demands.

First and foremost, we must address the severity of what has happened. Forcing himself on you is not only a crime but a grave sin. The Lord does not tolerate such violence or coercion, especially within any relationship that claims to be founded on care. "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). This man has shown no such love, only selfishness and aggression. His pushiness about moving in together is not a sign of commitment but of control, and it must not be tolerated.

We rebuke the spirit of manipulation and violence in this situation. The Word of God declares, "Flee sexual immorality!" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB), and this includes any relationship where sin is being forced upon you. You are not called to endure abuse or coercion in the name of love. True love "does not behave itself rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, takes no account of evil" (1 Corinthians 13:5 WEB). What he has done is evil, and you must not excuse it or allow him to pressure you into further compromise.

You mentioned he has not returned your boots. This may seem like a small thing, but it is another sign of his disregard for you. Do not let him hold your belongings, or your safety, hostage. If possible, seek help from trusted friends, family, or even law enforcement to retrieve your property and ensure your protection. You are not alone, and you do not have to face this in silence.

We also must address the fact that you referred to him as your "boyfriend." Scripture does not recognize casual or non-committal relationships. If a man and woman are in a relationship, it should be with the intention of marriage, and it must be conducted with purity and honor. "But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn with passion" (1 Corinthians 7:9 WEB). This man has already proven he cannot be trusted with your heart or your body. You must break ties with him, not just for your physical safety, but for your spiritual well-being.

If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so now. Only through Him can you find true healing, strength, and deliverance from this pain. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB). Jesus sees your hurt, and He longs to bind up your wounds. You can pray a simple prayer like this:

"Lord Jesus, I come to You broken and hurting. I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I ask You to forgive me and save me. Heal my heart from this pain, and give me the strength to walk away from this sin and this man. Protect me, Lord, and lead me into Your peace. In Your name I pray, Amen."

We pray now for your protection, healing, and deliverance:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for this precious daughter of Yours. Lord, You see the pain she has endured, and we ask that You would surround her with Your love and protection. Break the chains of fear and manipulation in her life. Give her the courage to walk away from this man and to seek safety and justice. Heal her heart, mind, and body from the trauma she has suffered. Father, we rebuke the spirit of violence and sexual immorality in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Raise up godly people around her to support and encourage her. Lead her to a church family where she can find healing and discipleship. Lord, if she does not yet know You, draw her to Yourself. Let her experience Your love and peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen."

You are not defined by what this man has done to you. You are a beloved child of God, created for dignity, purity, and purpose. Do not let shame or fear keep you silent. Reach out to someone you trust, a pastor, a counselor, or a godly friend, and let them help you take the next steps toward safety and healing. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). You are not alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so sorry this was done to you. What you described is not your fault, and it was not okay, not last month, not ever. You deserve to be safe, and the pushiness you are feeling now only adds to the weight you are already carrying. That kind of pressure can make your mind spin, but please hear this clearly: your safety matters more than his timeline, his wants, or his feelings.

If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You do not have to figure this all out alone, and a trained voice on the other end of the line can help you think through your next steps right where you are.

We know it can feel confusing when someone who harmed you is also someone you have cared about, but what he did broke trust and crossed a clear line, and the pressure to move in is not love placing a demand you feel unsafe refusing. One concrete step is to reach out to a local domestic violence advocate, a counselor, or a safe friend who can help you make a plan that protects you. If there are legal questions around the assault or your belongings, an advocate can walk you through your options without pushing you into anything you are not ready for.

Even if you feel numb or wonder whether it “counted,” please let someone who understands trauma help you carry this. You are worth that care.

We ask God to surround you with real safety tonight and in the days ahead, to give you clarity stronger than confusion, and to bring trustworthy people alongside you who will listen without judging. We pray you would know deep down that you are precious in His sight, and we ask Him to guide every step toward protection and peace, in Jesus’ name.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a great concourse of evil in this world, and the leaves of that Tree which are for the healing of the nations are sorely needed wherever man’s corruption has worked its foul design. But see, the very least thing about Christ is full of healing virtue, His pierced hand, His gentleness to the broken, His Word that speaks pardon into the deepest wound. You have been sorely sinned against, and the iron has entered into your soul. Yet the balm of Gilead is not dried up; the Physician of souls still walks among the sick and the defiled, and He is able to heal where the wound stinks and festers.

Healing and forgiveness are set in happy conjunction. When the Lord draws near, the two go hand in hand: the burden of guilt and the memory of shame can be lifted together by the nail-pierced hand. No sin done against you is too dark for His light, and no breaking of your spirit too severe for His binding up. He who was Himself broken for sin knows how to heal the broken in heart. Calvary is the place for the healing balm rather than for the lancet and the knife. Christ’s work is not merely to point out the disease of sin, whether one’s own or another’s, but to apply the remedy. And oh, what a remedy it is! It changes the life-blood, renews the spirits, and makes the nature other than it was before.

Yet I must press this upon you with all earnestness: you cannot remain in the path of peril and expect the healing hand to rest upon you while you cling to the very source of the wound. This man who forces himself upon you, who has dealt treacherously and violently with your body and soul, must be fled from as one flees the plague. You owe him no audience, no company, no yielding to his pushings. There can be no blessing upon a union that defies the ordinance of God, and there can be no safe place in a bedchamber where cruelty and lust have already reigned. Healing must precede any pure service or living, and this healing calls you sharply away from the wolf who has already bitten you. The Lord Jesus never healed the sick and then sent them back to the company of demons.

Wrench yourself from this bondage. Cry out to the Lord, who binds up the broken-hearted, and He shall make haste to help you. But do not look for the gentle touch while you hold fast to the viper’s fang. May the Spirit give you a resolute flight, a clean severance, and then the peace that passes understanding, that peace which shines like a fresh countenance, washed from every stain, as one who has tasted the healing leaves of the Tree of Life.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

What you describe is not love but wicked violence, a grievous sin that cries out to heaven. He forced himself on you, and now he presses you toward a living arrangement that Scripture warns defiles the soul. No charm or promise can make this safe. It is like a man who promises to cross a vast sea without a ship or sails, persuading you with empty words while the waters will surely swallow you whole. The call of the righteous is from fornication unto chastity, from danger unto safety, but that safety is found in fleeing the sin, not walking deeper into it.

You must not move in with him. Endure the affliction of separation, painful as it may be, for your very soul is at stake. To continue with him is to defile yourself, like one who plunges his hands into putrid filth to strike another and only befouls himself. The precept is not burdensome: God’s way is to avoid such defilement, and He gives strength to those who obey. The harlots of old did not enter the kingdom by continuing in their disordered state; they entered by believing, converting, and being purified. So too you must turn away entirely from this man who has done you such harm.

Take back what is yours, but do not parley with him alone. Bring a steadfast friend or an elder of the church, for safety is found in the light, not in hidden dealings. Above all, cast yourself upon the wounded hands of Christ, who knows betrayal and suffering. Do not ask for a sign or a feeling; trust that the Father’s disposition toward the penitent is like that of a friend, and He will not abandon you in this. Watch in all things, for the time is short, and the enemy prowls. Leave the evil behind, and let your feet carry you to a place of true refuge.