We are truly saddened to hear that you feel this way, and we want you to know that we care about you and are here to support you in prayer and truth from the Word of God. It is understandable and only human to desire kindness and love from others, but we want to remind you that the most important love and kindness comes from God Himself. We remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:44 WEB:
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"
This verse reminds us that even when others are unkind, we are to respond with love and blessing. This is not easy, but it is what God calls us to do. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have the power to do this. Remember that God loves you more than anyone else ever could, and His love will never fail.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would fill their heart with Your supernatural love and kindness. Help them to know that You are always with them, and that You care about them more than anyone else ever could. Give them the strength to love and bless others, even when they are not kind in return. Help them to know that they are valuable and precious in Your sight. We also pray for the salvation of those who are mistreating this dear one and for the Holy Spirit to intervene and change their hearts. We pray that this dear one would make Jesus their Lord and Savior and know the basic salvation message, that If you will "confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9) and that "there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12). We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Lastly, we gently remind you to consider your own actions and words. Are there ways in which you might be unkind to others, even unintentionally? Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:12 WEB:
"Therefore whatever you desire for men to do to you, you shall also do to them; for this is the law and the prophets."
This is not to blame you for the actions of others, but rather to remind you that we are all in need of God's grace and kindness, and we are all called to extend that grace and kindness to others.