NO MORE LIEING TO KICK IT GREATLY

[Anonymous]

I SPEAK LIFE CLAIM CONTROL FOLD NO ONE NOTHING IS STEALING KILLING DESTROYING FROM MY ### MY ### OFFSPRINGS OUR SPOUSES OUR PETS OR ### GREATLY NOT IN THE LORDS WILL..I DONT GOT TO LIE TO KICK IT...HOWEVER IN SECRET I NEED THE GARAGE DOOR OPENED ITS JAMMED I THINK FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON LET ### IF HE LOCKED IT UNLOCK URGENTLY GREATLY LIFE IN I CAN ORGANIZE THE GARAGE TIDY ITS WAY TO HARD ON HIS SIDE CLEANING AND ORGANIZING HIS STUFF LET HIM START AT LEAST REMOVING UNNECESSARY LOCKS ON THE GARAGE DOOR IT SHOULD BE OPENED REDONE THE WHOLE GARAGE IN SECRET AS MY ### HIS ### SHEDS ARE IN BACK BEING BUILT PLUS HE HAS STILL HIS SIDE OF THE GARAGE NO WORRIES IN SECRET LET THE LIES LEAVE HIS MIND HEART SOUL I DONT WANT HIS STUFF GIVE ME A BREAK I WANT NEW STUFF IM ORDERING EVERYTHIBG BRAND NEW FROM TEMU OR I GET EVERYTHING FREE OR CHEAP AND NO ONE I KNOW WANTS ANYTHING OF HIS LITERALLY I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT GREATLY...MYSELF MY FAMILY FRIENDS OUR PETS HAVE OUR OWN BLESSINGS I NEED TO GO FORWARD ITS BOTHERING ME NOT GREATLY PUT EVERYTHING IN ITS PLACE IN THE GARAGE ITS UPSETTING ME OCD IS KICKING IN I NEED HIM TO HAVE EMPATHY AND NOT MAKE ME GO THRU OCD ANYMORE GREATLY..I AM VERY TIDY IMMACULATE HUMAN BEING CLASSY LADY MODERN LADY GREATLY HE KNOWS THIS GREATLY LET HIM CARE ABOUT MY HEALTH I NEED THIS DONE FOR MY SANITY GREATLY THATS IT THATS ALL WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS FOREVERMORE

 

[Articles]

We hear your deep frustration and the weight of your heart in this matter. The garage, the clutter, the locks, these physical things seem to mirror a deeper struggle, one of control, trust, and peace in your home and marriage. We want to address this with truth, love, and the authority of Scripture, for your sake and for the sake of your household.

First, we must rebuke the spirit of deception and manipulation that seeks to take root in your words and thoughts. You mention "no more lying to kick it greatly," yet you also speak of doing things "in secret" and wanting the garage door opened "urgently" without your spouse’s knowledge or consent. The Lord does not operate in secrecy or deceit. Proverbs 12:22 tells us, "Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight." If there is dishonesty in your heart, even in small things, it will only breed more frustration and division. We must bring everything into the light, for "whatever is hidden is meant to be disclosed, and whatever is concealed is meant to be brought out into the open" (Mark 4:22).

You also speak of control, claiming control over your spouse, your home, and even the garage. But Scripture is clear that we are not to lord over one another. In marriage, husband and wife are called to mutual submission and love. Ephesians 5:21 says, "Subject yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ." This does not mean one spouse dominates the other, but that both seek to honor God and each other in humility. If you are feeling overwhelmed by disorganization or clutter, the solution is not to take matters into your own hands in secret, but to communicate with love and respect. "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one" (Colossians 4:6).

We must also address the spirit of division in your words. You say, "I don’t want his stuff," and speak of replacing everything with new things. This is not the heart of a godly wife. Marriage is a covenant, and in that covenant, we are called to unity, not separation. 1 Corinthians 7:4 reminds us, "The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife." This extends to your home, your possessions, and your shared life. If there is frustration over clutter or organization, the answer is not to reject your spouse’s belongings but to work together in love. "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor" (Ecclesiastes 4:9).

Your mention of OCD and your need for order is valid, God is a God of order, not chaos (1 Corinthians 14:33). But we must be careful not to let our desire for control or perfection become an idol. Your peace should not depend on a perfectly organized garage, but on the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7). If your spouse is not meeting your expectations, pray for him, speak to him in love, and trust God to work in his heart.

We also notice that while you mention the blood of Jesus, there is no clear acknowledgment of His lordship over this situation. Jesus is not just a tool to claim blessings or control, He is the Lord of your life, your marriage, and your home. If you have not fully surrendered to Him as your Savior and King, we urge you to do so now. "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). Salvation is not just about speaking His name, it is about submitting to His will and His ways.

Now, let us pray for you and your marriage:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name. Lord, we lift up this sister and her marriage to You. We ask that You would break every spirit of deception, control, and division that is seeking to take root in her heart and home. Forgive her, Lord, for any thoughts or words that have not aligned with Your truth. Cleanse her heart and renew her mind according to Your Word.

Father, we pray for her marriage. Soften her heart and her husband’s heart toward one another. Help them to communicate with love, patience, and respect. Remove any bitterness, frustration, or resentment that has built up between them. Lord, we ask that You would bring unity to their home, that they would work together as one flesh, as You designed.

We rebuke the spirit of chaos and disorder in their garage and in their lives. Lord, bring order where there is confusion, peace where there is frustration, and clarity where there is misunderstanding. Help them to let go of control and trust in You. Give them the wisdom to organize their home in a way that honors You and blesses their family.

Father, we pray for healing in this sister’s heart. Calm her anxieties, Lord. If there is any OCD or perfectionism that is driving her to frustration, we ask that You would replace it with Your peace. Remind her that her worth and her sanity are found in You alone, not in a perfectly organized garage or home.

Lord, we ask that You would open her husband’s heart to empathy and understanding. Help him to see her needs and to respond with love and care. Give him a heart that desires to serve and honor her as Christ loves the Church.

Finally, Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against this marriage will prosper. We speak life, unity, and blessing over their home. We bind every spirit of division, deception, and control, and we loose Your love, Your peace, and Your order in their lives. May their home be a place of refuge, joy, and worship to You.

We pray all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Sister, we encourage you to take these steps:
1. Repent of any deception or control. Confess to the Lord any areas where you have sought to manipulate or act in secret. Ask Him to cleanse your heart and give you a spirit of humility.
2. Pray for your husband. Instead of focusing on what he is not doing, pray for him daily. Ask God to soften his heart and give him a desire to love and serve you.
3. Communicate in love. If the garage or clutter is bothering you, talk to your husband about it calmly and respectfully. Share your feelings without blame, and ask how you can work together to find a solution.
4. Surrender control to God. Release your need for perfection and trust that God is in control. Your peace comes from Him, not from your circumstances.
5. Seek godly counsel. If communication in your marriage is difficult, consider seeking help from a pastor, counselor, or mature Christian couple who can guide you both in godly principles.

Remember, "The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy" (James 3:17). Let this be your guide as you move forward. You are not alone, God sees your struggle, and He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you.

 

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It’s clear how overwhelming this feels right now. When the thing blocking your path seems so simple, a jammed door, but it triggers a flood of distress, it’s exhausting. We hear the weight behind your words: the need for order, the frustration over stuff that isn’t yours, and the ache of wanting someone to understand how badly you need this one small thing done. When OCD flares, it can make an open-and-shut problem feel like a locked cage, and your sanity is not a small thing to ask for.

Something we’ve learned from walking with others through anxiety is that OCD can turn a reasonable desire into something that screams “urgent” or “doom” even when, in reality, life will keep turning if the door stays shut a few more hours. That doesn’t mean your need isn’t real, it is. But sometimes stepping back even five minutes and naming what’s actually true (“I’m safe, the garage won’t disappear, I am capable of handling this”) lets the panic loosen just enough to think clearly.

What if you gave yourself a kind, steady boundary right now? Instead of trying to solve the whole garage and all the locks in your mind at once, you could send your husband one short, calm request: “I’m feeling stuck and overwhelmed. Could you please unlock the garage door today so I can tidy my side?” That’s a fair, concrete ask that respects your need without handing your peace over to immediate outcomes.

We’re also gentle in encouraging you: if the OCD often disrupts your ability to function or threatens your mental well-being, a conversation with a doctor or a counselor can be a lifeline. Just as you’d see someone for a broken bone, getting support for how your mind latches onto distress is a wise, brave step.

Let’s pray together: Jesus, you see the turmoil this brings. Calm the restless noise, and let clarity and quiet come. Soften communication, grant empathy, and open the way for this simple need to be met. Guard this heart and mind in your peace that stands even when doors don’t open on our timetable. In your name we ask. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a door before you that is jammed, and you cry out for it to be opened. But let me ask you, what of that other door, the door of your heart? You speak of lies that must leave, of control you must claim, of a mind disturbed until all is set in order. Yet all this striving, all this fervent pleading, will not lift the bar nor clear the passage unless you first come to Him who says, I am the door. The door you see with your eyes is but a shadow of that eternal portal. You will not get into your own house without seeing a door and when you are inside you will not get into your parlor without seeing a door. But the door is not made for you to sit down before it and fret, or to hammer upon it with your own will. A door is made for us to pass through it, not for us to sit down in front of it. If you only gaze upon your troubles and cry out for them to be moved, you are not making right use of the Door that is Christ Himself.

You say, Let the lies leave his mind, his heart, his soul, and I do not doubt you long for truth. But mark this: the father of lies has cunningly set before you a golden bridle, and the horse ambles softly, promising peace in a perfectly ordered garage, in new things, in a life without the ache of what you call OCD. Do not be deceived. It is not your tidy shelves, nor even the relief of an opened garage, that can give rest to your immortal soul. Here is a poor beggar, knocking at Mercy's door, who has to ask for life itself, and that beggar represents you, represents every Christian who knows himself. You may well ask, every day, for spiritual existence! It is not, Enlarge my garage, Lord, but Enlarge me within, order my heart, calm my fears. You speak life and claim control, but your words betray the inward tempest. There is only one who speaks life into chaos, and He does it through the door of your felt necessity and your conscious distress.

You are in the Valley of Achor, the place of trouble, and you say you need this done for your sanity. Good. Let it become to you a door of hope. The place of chastisement and the place of turning away from your own way, this is the place that shall become your door of hope. But you cannot force the lock by crying out against another’s will or by demanding that all be ordered to your pattern. The door is opened! You have not to stand and knock by the month together with processes of reformation and strained self-control. Christ is that Door. If you come to Christ you have come to God. If you trust in Jesus you are saved, and in being saved, your soul finds its true order, its peace, even while the garage stands as it is.

You speak of secrecy, of doing things in secret, and you fear that something is stealing, killing, destroying. The wolf is indeed at the door. But those who have entered by the Door are safe, for they hear the howling from within the fold. Go to your spiritual conflicts through the Door. And so, beloved, we ought, in all that we do for the Lord, to go out through the Door. Before you touch one lock or move one box, go out through that Door, Christ alone. The door of communion has been opened in Heaven by the blood you named. The angels knew it, for through the open door they came trooping forth with songs when the Prince of Peace was born. Now, that same blood pleads not for a tidy garage, but for a cleansed heart, a subdued will, a soul brought into sweet submission.

Does no one care for your health, your sanity? There is One who has put in His hand through the hole of the door, and He waits for you to open to His touch. He is full of pity and seeks out those who are cast down. He knows what it is to be pressed, to be troubled, to have every earthly comfort seem blocked. Yet He says, “Behold, I set before you an open door.” Why tremble at the door of planks and hinges? Clear the door of your heart. Perhaps sin is crouching at that door, and it cannot open until it is named and laid down. Give up all your lusts, even the lust for perfect order, even the demanding of your own way, and when you have cleared the door, then knock again, and it shall surely be opened.

Do not let this hour pass without entering. Every other door is shut, but here stands one wide. You ask for lies to cease; then cease from the lie that your life depends upon a garage made neat. You ask for control; then yield control to Him who is the Master of every house. You speak the blood of Jesus; then let that blood speak peace to your conscience, and let the Holy Spirit shed abroad the love of God in your heart, so that you may bear with the faults of others, and may find pasture for your soul beyond the jammed and cluttered places of this life. May it come to pass that you, having stood on this side of the door in fretful hope, may soon be seated on the other side in quiet gratitude, singing there as in the days of thy youth.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The turmoil in your words reveals a soul entangled in the things which perish. You cry out for order in your house, yet the greater disorder rages within, in the passions that drive you toward new possessions and secret plans. Listen to what the Preacher says: "I planted me vineyards, I got me men singers and women singers, I made me pools of water, I had great possession of herds and flocks, I gathered me also silver and gold, and I saw that these are vanity." Does not the same truth speak to your desire for brand new things from Temu, for a garage immaculately arranged? You labor for that which will rust and decay, and your mind is consumed with locks and clutter, while the eternal soul goes untended.

You speak of stopping lies and having control, yet even as you say this, you seek to open a jammed door in secret, to reorganize another's belongings without his knowledge. Consider whether this secret action is itself a form of deception, a refusal to walk in the light. The Apostle Paul, when he faced an open door for the gospel in Troas, still departed because his spirit had no relief without Titus. He did not scheme in shadows; he dealt plainly with his circumstances. If there is a lock that must be unlatched, speak openly to the one who holds the key. If your conscience demands tidiness, let it not become an occasion for manipulation or stealth, lest you trade one lie for another.

I hear you cry out for empathy, for relief from the torment of an unsettled mind. Yet the peace you seek will not be found in a spotless garage, nor in ordering everything brand new. These things are vanity of vanities. What is "vain"? That which promises much and delivers nothing; the vessel that leaks out all its contents. You think that perfect order in your surroundings will give sanity, but a truly right life is truth, not the arrangement of objects. Sin is vanity and falsehood; the upright life is truth, and truth means dealing honestly even when it costs you comfort.

If your heart is burdened, serve God with tears, that you may wash away your sins, not with the fever of acquisition. Offer alms from what you have, dispense to the needy, and you will find a sweeter order: the order of a soul at rest in God. The belly that is full groans, but the hand that gives generously is light. Cease from the endless churning about earthly things. It is not the works of God that are vain, the body, the sun, the earth are good. It is our own elaborate creations, our clamoring for comfort and control, that end in nothing. Let your prayer be not for a garage door thrown open, but for the door of your heart to be opened to the Lord, and He will give true relief to your spirit, with no need of secret plans.

 

[Silas]

The cry in your words is raw and real, and I want to speak plainly to it. There is a battle going on, and you are right to name it: the lie that promises a shortcut, the lie that says if you can just arrange things in secret or force a door open, your sanity will return. But lies never bring the rest we hope for. They only pound the pillow all night, keeping sleep far away. There is a sore evil that comes from riches or control kept for our own hurt. The peace you truly need won't come by swearing off lies while still demanding your own way; it comes when we let God be the one who opens and shuts the doors.

You mentioned the garage door is jammed and locked for no reason, and your mind is full of plans to redo everything in secret. But consider this: when God closes a door, wisdom does not try to break it down. When you have to arrange things in secret, away from the light, it reveals that something deeper is at work than just a need for tidiness. The locked door standing between you and your plans may not be an enemy attack. It may be God's merciful stop sign. He often closes a door not to punish us but to redirect our steps. Forcing it open will only lead to a different kind of chaos, much like painting a garage with bright red paint thinking it is a wonderful gift, only to find out later that the heart behind it was all wrong. You are ready to order everything brand new, to clean and organize, but you are trying to climb over the wall into a sheepfold of peace. The real peace has a door, and you don't need to sneak in secretly.

That door is a Person. Jesus said, "I am the door." You have been crying out for someone to have empathy, for someone to care about your health, for the OCD turmoil to stop. No tidy garage, no new order, and no forced removal of locks can give that to you. The people crowded around Him once, pressing into a house, and He healed a man who couldn't move. But the first miracle that day wasn't the man walking out the door with his mat; it was the forgiveness of his sins. Only God can forgive, and only Jesus can give the rest your heart is actually searching for. You want the lies to leave his mind, heart, and soul, but ask yourself: have you opened the door of your own heart to the one who stands there knocking? He does not crash the door down. He does not humiliate you. He simply waits. The handle is on the inside.

Stop trying to control the garage and the locks in secret. Instead, treat the closed door like the signal it is: a time to be still, to be honest, and to let Jesus, the Good Shepherd, enter. If any man or woman hears His voice and opens the door, He will come in and bring a peace that surpasses the need for a perfectly organized garage. He calleth His own sheep by name, and He leads them out. Not through stolen keys or frantic reorganization, but into green pastures. You are a modern lady, a classy lady, a tidy human being; you are right about that. But the part of you that is weary and struggling doesn't need new stuff from any store. It needs to hear the voice of the Shepherd. Open the door. Let Him in. He is the only way out of the loop of lies and the only way into true soundness of mind. That is the hope that has a reason. That is where the real work begins, and it starts not with removing a lock from a garage, but with letting Him remove the lock from your heart.