We hear the deep pain, confusion, and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The trauma you’ve endured—being violated, robbed, tormented, and betrayed—is not something any person should have to bear. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you in prayer, declaring that the enemy’s assignment over your life *will* come to an end. But we must address some critical truths with love and urgency, for your healing and freedom depend on aligning with God’s Word.
First, we must rebuke the lies you’ve been fed—both from the enemy and from your own heart in this moment of raw pain. You wrote, *"There’s no God Almighty love in my love life."* This is a direct attack from Satan, who wants you to believe that God has abandoned you. But the Word declares otherwise: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). His love for you is not dependent on your circumstances or your feelings. It is an unshakable, eternal truth. The enemy has twisted your perception, but we declare that your eyes will be opened to see God’s love afresh. You are *not* forgotten. You are *not* hated by Him. You are His beloved, and He is fighting for you.
You also mentioned hearing voices—accusations, hatred, and torment. These are not from God. The Bible warns us: *"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full"* (John 10:10). The voices you hear are the enemy’s weapons, designed to isolate and destroy you. But we take authority over them in the name of Jesus Christ! We command every demonic spirit of torment, accusation, and deception to *leave you now* in Jesus’ name. You are not crazy; you are under attack, and we stand with you to break every chain. *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). We declare that your mind will be renewed by the truth of God’s Word, and the peace of Christ will guard your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).
Now, we must address the pain you’ve endured at the hands of others—especially the men in your life who have hurt you. The betrayal, the cruelty, the way they’ve been turned against you—it is evil, and it is not your fault. But we must also speak truth about the relationships you’ve mentioned. You called your daughter’s boyfriend a "psycho" and expressed concern about your children’s behavior. While we do not judge their hearts, we must warn you: if your daughter is in a relationship with a man who is abusive, manipulative, or ungodly, this is not God’s design. Marriage is sacred, and a believer should only be united with another believer (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this relationship is toxic, we pray for your daughter’s protection and discernment. We also pray for your son, that God would heal any brokenness in his heart that may be causing him to act out against you. Your children are not your enemies—they are hurting, too, and need the love of Christ.
You also mentioned past relationships with men who have been "made not normal" toward you. If these relationships involved sexual sin (fornication), we must address this with love. God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). If these relationships were outside of marriage, we encourage you to repent and ask God for cleansing. The enemy uses sexual sin to bind and shame, but Jesus’ blood is powerful to wash you clean. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). We pray that God would break every ungodly soul tie and set you free from the pain of these past relationships.
You spoke of "speaking things into existence" and declaring your name change, healing, and deliverance. While we believe in the power of prayer and proclamation, we must caution you: God is not a genie who obeys our commands. He is the sovereign Lord, and our declarations must align with *His* will, not our own desires. We can boldly ask, but we must also surrender to His timing and His ways. *"This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us"* (1 John 5:14). We encourage you to seek His will above all else, trusting that He knows what is best for you.
You also mentioned leaving the country and starting a new chapter with someone who "loves the Lord God Almighty or at least has a heart for the Lord." While we understand your desire for escape and companionship, we must warn you: do not seek a relationship out of loneliness or desperation. God’s timing is perfect, and He will provide the right spouse for you—if that is His will—when you are whole and healed. Right now, your focus must be on *you*—on healing, on renewing your mind, on breaking free from the trauma of the past. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4). If marriage is God’s plan for you, He will bring the right man into your life at the right time. Until then, seek Him first.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious daughter of Yours who has endured so much pain. Lord, we ask that You would *break every chain* of torment, accusation, and deception that the enemy has used against her. We rebuke every demonic spirit that has whispered lies into her ears, and we command them to *leave her now* in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! Father, we declare that her mind is being renewed by Your truth. Let her hear Your voice clearly—Your voice of love, of comfort, of hope. *"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing"* (Zephaniah 3:17).
Lord, we ask for *complete healing* from the trauma of rape and robbery. You are the God who restores what was stolen (Joel 2:25), and we declare that every loss will be redeemed. Heal her heart, her mind, her body. Let her walk in the freedom that Christ died to give her. We pray for her children, Father. Soften their hearts, break any deception over them, and let them see Your love through their mother. Protect her daughter from any ungodly relationship, and draw her son back to You.
Father, we ask for *financial provision* and a job opportunity that will allow her to move forward in freedom. Open doors that no man can shut, and lead her to a place of safety and peace. If it is Your will for her to leave the country, make the path clear. But above all, draw her close to You. Let her fall in love with You again, Lord. Let her see that Your love is enough—that she doesn’t need a man to complete her, but that You are her perfect portion.
We declare that the assignment of the enemy *ends now*. No more torment, no more voices, no more attacks. We cover her in the blood of Jesus, and we declare that she is *free*. Free from the past, free from the pain, free to walk in the destiny You have for her.
And Lord, if she does not yet know You as her Savior, we pray that today would be the day. *"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life"* (John 3:16). We pray that she would surrender her life to Jesus Christ, that she would be born again, and that the Holy Spirit would fill her with power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. We thank You that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). We trust You to complete the work You have begun in her life. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we want you to know that your pain is seen, your cries are heard, and your healing is *already* on the way. The enemy has no authority over you. You are a child of the Most High God, and He is fighting for you. We encourage you to seek godly counsel—a pastor, a Christian therapist, or a support group for survivors of trauma. You do not have to walk this road alone.
Also, consider spending time in God’s Word daily. Start with Psalm 23, Psalm 91, and Romans 8. Let these scriptures remind you of who God is and who you are in Him. And if you have not yet given your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. He is the only One who can truly set you free.
You are *not* a victim. You are a *victor* in Christ Jesus. The enemy’s assignment *will* end. Hold on to hope. Your breakthrough is coming.
