No justice , evil family, cousins, community treating me horrible with no care

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It is completely understandable to feel abandoned and hurt when you are suffering while the people treating you cruelly seem to face no consequences. When you are running on empty, trying to start a new job, and watching people weaponize their wealth, it can genuinely feel like the universe or God is letting them off the hook while punishing you.
 
We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. It is a heavy burden to carry when those who should show kindness, family, community, instead inflict harm, and when injustice seems to go unchecked. The weight of betrayal, especially from those who share blood or live nearby, can make the world feel dark and God feel distant. But we want you to know this: He sees you. He hears you. And He has not abandoned you.

The psalmist cried out in similar anguish: "How long, Yahweh? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart every day?" (Psalm 13:1-2). Even in moments when God feels silent, His Word assures us that He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). The wicked may prosper for a season, but Scripture warns that their way leads to destruction (Psalm 73:18-19). Meanwhile, the Lord promises to be a refuge for the oppressed (Psalm 9:9) and to repay every act of cruelty in His perfect timing (Romans 12:19).

We must also gently ask: Have you brought this pain to God in the name of Jesus? There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6), and salvation comes only through faith in Christ (Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to consider doing so, He is the only one who can truly heal your wounds and give you strength for each day. If you already know Him, we encourage you to pour out your heart to Him, trusting that He collects every tear (Psalm 56:8).

Now, let us pray with you:

"Father in Heaven, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is enduring such deep hurt and injustice. Lord, You are the God who sees the afflicted and hears the cries of the oppressed. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around them in this moment, reminding them that they are not alone. Strengthen them as they step into this new job, providing wisdom, favor, and endurance. Expose the wickedness of those who harm them, and let Your justice prevail, whether in this life or the next. Heal their wounds, Lord, and restore what has been broken. Help them to forgive, not because what was done was right, but because bitterness will only poison their own soul. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and let them know that their suffering is not in vain. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen."

Friend, we also want to speak truth into the lies you may be believing right now. The enemy would love for you to think that you are forgotten, that God does not care, or that your pain is meaningless. But Scripture tells us that God works all things, even the evil done against us, for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). Your suffering has a purpose, even if you cannot see it yet.

If your family or community is treating you with cruelty, we encourage you to set boundaries where possible. Proverbs 22:24 warns, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger." While we are called to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44), we are not required to remain in toxic environments that drag us down. Seek out godly fellowship, believers who will stand with you, pray for you, and remind you of God’s truth when the lies feel overwhelming.

Lastly, we want to address the weariness you feel. Starting a new job while carrying this emotional weight is no small thing. Remember that God does not expect you to perform perfectly, He simply asks that you rely on Him. "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest," Jesus says in Matthew 11:28. Let Him carry the load. And if you are struggling with thoughts of despair, please reach out to someone you trust. You are not meant to walk this road alone.

We stand with you, believing that God will turn your mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). Keep your eyes on Him, He is your justice, your defender, and your ever-present help in trouble.
 
It’s no wonder you feel hollow and hurt. When family and community who should have your back treat you with cruelty and indifference, and on top of that you’re pouring yourself into starting a new job while watching others use their wealth against you, any one of those burdens would be heavy. Facing them all at once is simply too much weight for anyone to carry without feeling completely drained.

We don’t think this is a sign that something is wrong with you. It’s a normal response to an unusually harsh pileup of stress. In times like these, it’s easy to believe the lie that God has abandoned you or that life will always be unfair. Those feelings are real, but they don’t tell the whole story. Even when justice seems invisible, you are not forgotten.

Right now your main job is simply to get through each day. Starting this new work is a genuine bright spot, something you’ve fought for, and it’s okay to protect your energy for that. You don’t have to fix every broken relationship or make sense of the cruelty all at once. Is there one safe, level-headed person, maybe a pastor, a trusted friend, or a counselor, you could talk with, just to unload some of this and steady your footing? You weren’t meant to carry this alone.

Lord Jesus, thank you that you see exactly what’s being done and what it’s costing this person. Please meet them in their exhaustion and hurt. Give them the small daily strength they need for this new beginning, and shield their mind from bitterness and despair. Surround them with even one caring presence. And in your time, bring the justice and healing that only you can. We ask this in your name. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
The burden you feel, the sting of watching the wicked prosper while you suffer, is no small thing. Yet it is written, "I have seen the wicked in great power, and spreading himself like a green bay tree. Yet he passed away, and, lo, he was not." God’s justice does not sleep; it only waits the appointed hour. And for you, child of the covenant, every trial is weighed by the hand that measures the oceans. He plants thorns in the nest of this world that we might mount on wings of faith and find our true home in Him. Your weariness speaks of one who has scanned the waters like the dove and found no rest for the sole of her foot. Then return to the ark. He put out His hand, and took her, and drew her in. So now, with the same tender force, Christ draws you to His wounded side. There, in the cleft of the rock, cease your striving and let Him bear both you and your burden.

Why fret over the temporary ease of those who wrong you? Their day will come, unless they repent, for the resurrection holds a reckoning for the unjust. But your own concern, under the yoke of Christ, is to learn of Him who is meek and lowly in heart. Find rest unto your soul. The yoke He lays upon you is no cruel weight, but a discipline to teach you dependence. Carry your own burden bravely, not sitting upon it and crying for another to lift it, but casting all care upon Him. He is your Substitute; He answered at the court of Eternal Justice for you. How then can you imagine He overlooks your wrongs? Every sorrow He permits He will sanctify, and every injustice He will right, whether in time or in the day when all things are made new.

Lift your eyes beyond this pin’s prick of present pain. Soon it is over, and the door opens into that family where the whole company of the redeemed, in heaven and on earth, knows no division. Then you shall find that the fellowship of His sufferings has knit you into their number with everlasting cords. Till then, believe that the darkness is only the shadow of His wing. Though you have labored in vain and spent your strength for nothing, you are accepted in the Beloved if you have done your best, trusting in the Spirit’s power. Do not be in a hurry. Wait God’s time. Swim in this peace, a peace that gives you private access and a perpetual permit to His throne. Go your way, then, not fearing what man can do, but hoping in His mercy; and let holy forgiveness reign, lest the sun go down upon your wrath. He who began the good work will complete it. The everlasting arms are underneath. In trouble I am confident and joyous, for then I prove my Lord’s faithfulness. So may it be with you.
 
You say no justice, and your heart aches under the weight of cruel treatment. I hear the cry of a wounded soul. But listen carefully: the harm you suffer does not injure you as much as it injures those who inflict it. When people mistreat you and seem to escape consequences, do not think God is asleep. The slanderer, the greedy, the heartless, they vomit out their own poison, and that poison festers within them like a disease. They have real cause to tremble, not you. For the evil they do, they will give account before the Judge. But you, if you hold fast to patience and do not return evil for evil, stand without anxiety. Your conscience can be bright; theirs is already darkened.

You feel abandoned, running on empty, while they weaponize wealth. Remember Job. He lost everything, his wife urged him to curse God, yet he said, “Blessed be the name of the Lord.” He did not retaliate or let bitter words defile his lips. That is the mark of a soul taught by God: to give thanks in suffering, to see that no true evil can befall the one who loves God. If you lack money, it is a thing easily lost and gained. If they plot against you, the plotter harms himself far more than you. “The soul that sinneth, it shall die”, not the one who endures injustice with faith.

I know the temptation. When you are exhausted and starting a new job, and you see no relief, your mind spins with anxiety. But Christ says, “Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.” Do not add tomorrow’s troubles to today’s. The daily toil is enough. Lay aside the worry that eats at you and hand your cause to God. He is not blind. And as you walk forward, do not listen to any whisper, even from well-meaning people, that tells you to take revenge or to abandon your duties. The devil can dress up impatience as righteousness, but it is a snare. Keep your tongue from evil words and your heart from hatred. In that quiet endurance, you will find a strange and holy peace.

The blind man whom Jesus healed did not demand honor or vindication; he simply worshiped. Do the same. Worship, give thanks, and do your work as unto the Lord. In time, your steady faith will do more to silence your accusers than any angry word could. And even if they never relent, you have a treasure in heaven that moth and rust cannot touch. That is true justice. Hold fast.
 

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