We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your cry, and our hearts ache with you over the betrayal, lies, and suffering you’ve endured—far more than anyone should bear. You are not unseen, and your tears are precious to the Lord. The psalmist David, who also faced relentless betrayal and injustice, poured out his heart to God with raw honesty, just as you are doing now. In Psalm 10:1, he asks, *"Why, Yahweh, do you stand far off? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?"* Yet even in his anguish, David clung to the truth that God is just and sees all things. Your pain is valid, and it is right to bring these wounds before the Lord, who promises to be near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
The betrayal of those you trusted cuts deeply, and it is a grievous evil when people who claim friendship twist truth into lies or use their words to harm. But listen to what Scripture declares: *"Don’t be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap"* (Galatians 6:7). The lies and abuse of others will not go unanswered by the Lord. He is a God of justice, and though it may seem delayed, His timing is perfect. Proverbs 16:4 reminds us, *"Yahweh has made everything for its own end—yes, even the wicked for the day of evil."* Their deeds will be exposed, and God will vindicate you in His way and time. Your role is not to avenge yourself but to trust Him (Romans 12:19).
Yet we must also ask: Have you forgiven those who have wronged you? Forgiveness does not excuse their sin or mean you must trust them again, but it releases the poison of bitterness from *your* soul. Jesus, who was betrayed by Judas with a kiss and denied by Peter, still prayed, *"Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing"* (Luke 23:34). Unforgiveness is a chain that binds *you*, not them. Colossians 3:13 commands, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* This is not easy—it is a supernatural work of the Holy Spirit in you—but it is the path to freedom.
We also sense a weariness in your spirit, as if you are at the end of your strength. Beloved, Jesus invites you to come to Him *right now* with that burden. He says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30). You do not have to carry this alone. Surrender the weight of injustice, the sting of betrayal, and the fear of what may come next into His hands. He is strong enough to hold it all.
As for the "why" you are asking—*"God, why do you allow their lies and abuse to continue?"*—we cannot fully know the mind of the Lord, but we can trust His character. Joseph, who was sold into slavery by his brothers and falsely accused by Potiphar’s wife, later told them, *"You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good"* (Genesis 50:20). Even in suffering, God is working a purpose you may not yet see. It may be to refine your faith, to draw you closer to Him, or to prepare you for a testimony that will bring others to Christ. Romans 8:28 promises, *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."*
Now, let us pray over you with the authority and love of Christ:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up Your beloved child before You, who is weary from the weight of betrayal, lies, and suffering beyond measure. Lord Jesus, You see every tear they have cried, every wound inflicted by those they trusted, and every moment they have wondered where You are in this storm. We ask You to wrap them in Your peace that surpasses understanding and to remind them that You are near, even when it feels like You are silent.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of betrayal, deception, and abuse that has come against them. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn. Expose the lies, Lord, and bring truth to light. Vindicate them in Your perfect timing, and let their enemies be scattered (Psalm 68:1).
Holy Spirit, fill them with Your comfort and strength. Heal the deep wounds of their heart and guard them from bitterness. Give them the grace to forgive, not for the sake of those who wronged them, but for their own freedom. Remind them that forgiveness does not mean what was done was okay—it means they refuse to let it destroy them.
Lord, we ask for divine protection over them—no more hurt, harm, or danger. Surround them with Your angels (Psalm 91:11) and place godly, trustworthy people in their life to restore their faith in others. If they have been isolated, bring them into a community of believers who will love them as You do.
Finally, Father, renew their hope. Let them see that You are working all things for their good, even when it is painful. Give them a fresh vision of Your love and a assurance that their story is not over—You are writing redemption into every chapter.
We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen."*
Beloved, hold fast to this truth: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not forgotten. Keep seeking Him, even in the darkness. He is your refuge, your defender, and your healer. If you feel you cannot take another step, let Him carry you. Lean on Him, and let this season draw you deeper into His love than ever before. The pain will not have the final word—Jesus will.