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We hear your heart in this matter, and we want to approach it with both truth and grace. First, let us affirm that your desire to avoid romantic relationships is not inherently sinful. The Apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:7-8, "Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind. But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am." There is honor in choosing singleness for the sake of the Kingdom, especially if it allows you to serve God without distraction.
However, we must also gently challenge the way this decision is framed. The language used here—"No girls, No ###"—carries a tone of bitterness or rejection that does not reflect the love and respect Scripture calls us to have for all people, including women. Jesus Himself treated women with dignity and compassion (Luke 8:1-3, John 4:7-26), and we are called to do the same. In 1 Peter 3:7, husbands are instructed to honor their wives as fellow heirs of God’s grace, but this principle extends to how we view and interact with all women: "You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered."
If your decision stems from past hurt, disappointment, or frustration, we encourage you to bring those wounds before the Lord. He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and can heal even the deepest pain. If it comes from a place of pride or resentment, we must rebuke that spirit in Jesus’ name. Scripture warns us in James 4:6, "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble." Let us walk in humility and love, even in our singleness.
We also want to ensure that this choice is not rooted in fear. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, or fear of vulnerability can masquerade as wisdom, but 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." If fear is driving this decision, we must surrender that to the Lord and trust Him to lead us in His perfect will.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who has shared his heart with us. Lord, we thank You for the gift of singleness and the unique opportunities it provides to serve You without distraction. We ask that You would help him to embrace this season—whether temporary or lifelong—with joy and purpose, knowing that his worth is found in You alone.
Father, if there is any bitterness, hurt, or fear in his heart, we ask that You would uproot it and replace it with Your peace. Heal any wounds from the past and remind him of Your unfailing love. Help him to see all people, including women, through Your eyes—with honor, respect, and love. If this decision is rooted in pride, humble him gently and draw him closer to Your heart.
Lord, we also ask that You would guard his heart from isolation. Even in singleness, we are called to community and fellowship. Surround him with godly friends and mentors who will encourage him in his walk with You. If You have marriage written into his story, prepare his heart for that sacred covenant. If not, fill him with contentment and purpose in serving You.
Above all, we pray that his life would bring glory to Your name. May his singleness be a testimony to Your sufficiency and grace. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will in this matter through prayer and Scripture. Whether you remain single or one day enter into marriage, your ultimate calling is to love and serve God with all your heart. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender this decision to Him and trust that He will guide you in the path that brings Him the most glory. In all things, remember that your identity is found in Christ alone (Galatians 2:20). Walk in His love, and let it overflow to those around you.
However, we must also gently challenge the way this decision is framed. The language used here—"No girls, No ###"—carries a tone of bitterness or rejection that does not reflect the love and respect Scripture calls us to have for all people, including women. Jesus Himself treated women with dignity and compassion (Luke 8:1-3, John 4:7-26), and we are called to do the same. In 1 Peter 3:7, husbands are instructed to honor their wives as fellow heirs of God’s grace, but this principle extends to how we view and interact with all women: "You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered."
If your decision stems from past hurt, disappointment, or frustration, we encourage you to bring those wounds before the Lord. He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and can heal even the deepest pain. If it comes from a place of pride or resentment, we must rebuke that spirit in Jesus’ name. Scripture warns us in James 4:6, "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble." Let us walk in humility and love, even in our singleness.
We also want to ensure that this choice is not rooted in fear. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, or fear of vulnerability can masquerade as wisdom, but 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." If fear is driving this decision, we must surrender that to the Lord and trust Him to lead us in His perfect will.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who has shared his heart with us. Lord, we thank You for the gift of singleness and the unique opportunities it provides to serve You without distraction. We ask that You would help him to embrace this season—whether temporary or lifelong—with joy and purpose, knowing that his worth is found in You alone.
Father, if there is any bitterness, hurt, or fear in his heart, we ask that You would uproot it and replace it with Your peace. Heal any wounds from the past and remind him of Your unfailing love. Help him to see all people, including women, through Your eyes—with honor, respect, and love. If this decision is rooted in pride, humble him gently and draw him closer to Your heart.
Lord, we also ask that You would guard his heart from isolation. Even in singleness, we are called to community and fellowship. Surround him with godly friends and mentors who will encourage him in his walk with You. If You have marriage written into his story, prepare his heart for that sacred covenant. If not, fill him with contentment and purpose in serving You.
Above all, we pray that his life would bring glory to Your name. May his singleness be a testimony to Your sufficiency and grace. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will in this matter through prayer and Scripture. Whether you remain single or one day enter into marriage, your ultimate calling is to love and serve God with all your heart. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender this decision to Him and trust that He will guide you in the path that brings Him the most glory. In all things, remember that your identity is found in Christ alone (Galatians 2:20). Walk in His love, and let it overflow to those around you.
We're here with you, brother, and we want to encourage you in your decision to remain single. It's not wrong to choose this path, and there's beauty in dedicating your life fully to serving God. Remember, Jesus Himself was single, and He showed us how to love and serve without distraction.
But let's also remember to approach this with love and respect for everyone, including women. Let's not let any bitterness or hurt from the past cloud our views. Instead, let's strive to see everyone through God's eyes, with love and compassion.
We also want to remind you that fear shouldn't drive this decision. God hasn't given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. So, let's trust Him to lead us, even in this.
Let's pray for you, dear brother. Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We thank You for the gift of singleness and the unique opportunities it brings. Help him to embrace this season with joy and purpose, knowing his worth is found in You alone. If there's any bitterness, hurt, or fear in his heart, we ask You to heal him and fill him with Your peace. Help him to see all people with love and respect. Surround him with godly friends and mentors. Above all, we pray that his life would bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep seeking God's will in this, brother. Whether you remain single or one day enter into marriage, your ultimate calling is to love and serve God with all your heart. Trust Him to guide you in the path that brings Him the most glory. You are loved, and you are not alone. Let's walk in love together.
But let's also remember to approach this with love and respect for everyone, including women. Let's not let any bitterness or hurt from the past cloud our views. Instead, let's strive to see everyone through God's eyes, with love and compassion.
We also want to remind you that fear shouldn't drive this decision. God hasn't given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. So, let's trust Him to lead us, even in this.
Let's pray for you, dear brother. Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We thank You for the gift of singleness and the unique opportunities it brings. Help him to embrace this season with joy and purpose, knowing his worth is found in You alone. If there's any bitterness, hurt, or fear in his heart, we ask You to heal him and fill him with Your peace. Help him to see all people with love and respect. Surround him with godly friends and mentors. Above all, we pray that his life would bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep seeking God's will in this, brother. Whether you remain single or one day enter into marriage, your ultimate calling is to love and serve God with all your heart. Trust Him to guide you in the path that brings Him the most glory. You are loved, and you are not alone. Let's walk in love together.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for trusting us with your heartfelt prayer request. It’s a privilege to stand in agreement with you, lifting up your desire to remain focused on the Lord’s will for your life without the distraction of a romantic relationship at this time. We’ve been praying that God would strengthen your resolve, fill your heart with contentment in Him, and guide your steps according to His perfect plan for you.
If the Lord has already answered this prayer in a way that brings you peace and confirmation, we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If, however, you still feel the need for continued prayer and support in this area, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re here to intercede for you, asking the Father to grant you wisdom, discipline, and a deeper intimacy with Him as you seek His purpose above all else.
May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
If the Lord has already answered this prayer in a way that brings you peace and confirmation, we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If, however, you still feel the need for continued prayer and support in this area, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re here to intercede for you, asking the Father to grant you wisdom, discipline, and a deeper intimacy with Him as you seek His purpose above all else.
May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
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