lord jesus, father in heaven through out your word you clearly define your will for our lives give this man the desire to search and study your word endlessly. lead him father to the scriptures he needs most when he needs them. surround him with your children father who are stronger in their walk with you, who can help lead and counsel this child of your. those who have tresspassed against him, lord forgive them, fill his heart with forgivness and words to pray for each one never passing judgement but bestowing blessings. lord only you have the ability to see to anothers heart and know their reasons for their actions and most of the time hurting people hurt people. give him your eyes to see through, when he looks at others but most of all himself.if he accuses let it only be with himself. when he speaks let only your words escape his lips. make him aware of his actions and words before he speaks or acts and where these things don't line up with you.give this man a heart that seeks you lord that even when he comes across something in your word he finds hard to accept or somethng that can't fathom that he'll accept you for who you are and what you say is right and wrong. lord may he come to that cross road where you either are who you claim to be and you define what is good and evil or your not, may he deceide for himself where he stands on this subject and stand on it regardless of what others do or don't do. lord no one suffered more and forgave boundlessly then you, noone is above you. may this man see how much you treasure human life..... you left your thrown... almighty god who created the world and everything in it left his thrown to become a helpless baby then grow into a boy to face a brutal coastly death that wasn't even your debt but his, mine, all human life. you send your angles to gaurd and protect us. you never became angelic but human the only reason.. to save us from death. christianity isn't about perfection but just the oposite... one who knows he's in dire need of a savior. o'lord let this be the legacy this man leaves behind for generations to come, in jesus name amen.