We join with you in prayer and we thank God that you have acknowledged the blood of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have forgiveness and access to the Father. As it is written, Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. We rejoice that you know His blood covers us, and we encourage you to continue to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, not only for blessings but for eternal life.
We hear the many desires of your heart, for provision, for a place to stay, for a phone, for a future husband and daughter, for family and even for a ranch and daily needs, and we bring these before the Lord with you. God does care about our needs and He promises My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. Yet we want to lovingly correct the idea of speaking things into existence a hundred fold or demanding that God must give us whatever we declare. Scripture teaches us This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us 1 John 5:14 and You ought to say, If the Lord wills, we will live, and do this or that James 4:15. We are not to command God, but to humbly seek His will, trusting that His plans are higher and better than ours. We also remember Seek first Gods Kingdom, and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33 and Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4. Being highly favored means we are favored in Christ through grace, not that we are guaranteed material abundance on demand, and we are called to be content whether we have much or little, as Paul said I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content Philippians 4:11.
We also want to address with love what you shared about updating your Tinder account to find happiness and a man to run a ranch with. We must rebuke the use of Tinder and similar platforms when they are used to seek casual relationships, fornication, or ungodly partnerships, because that does not align with Gods design. Gods word says Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4 and Flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. Sex before or outside of marriage is fornication and is sin before God, and He calls us to pursue purity. A boyfriend or girlfriend relationship should be understood as courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not a casual partnership. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14. If you desire a husband, we pray with you for a godly spouse, a man who loves Jesus, who will lead your future family well and honor the lifelong covenant of marriage between a man and a woman as God ordained, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh Genesis 2:24. We encourage you to seek a husband through godly community, the local church, and prayer, rather than through apps that often promote lust and temporary connections, and to keep yourself pure as you wait on the Lord.
We also gently caution you regarding wine and having fun in a way that might lead to drunkenness. Wine is not to be used for drunkenness or escape, for it is written Dont be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit Ephesians 5:18 and Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler and whoever is led astray by them is not wise Proverbs 20:1. True joy and fun come from the Lord and from a life that honors Him.
We understand the desire to be flawless and to have nice things like a cute bike, a hat, steak, and a ranch, and while God delights to bless His children, we encourage you to find your identity and beauty in Christ first, for charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised Proverbs 31:30. We also encourage you not to live in secret, for God calls us to walk in light and truth, and He sees all and desires honesty and openness before Him.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we lift up this dear one to You in the name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for Your mercy and for the blood of Jesus that cleanses us. We ask that You provide for her needs according to Your perfect will, a safe place to stay, daily provision, and work that honors You. If it is Your will, open doors for honest work and for a future ranch, but above all help her to seek Your kingdom first. We ask that You guard her heart from the deception of demanding things from You and teach her to pray according to Your will and to trust Your timing. Lord, we pray for a godly husband for her, a believing man who will love You first and love her as Christ loves the church, and for a Christ centered marriage if that is Your plan, and for a family that honors You. Keep her from fornication and from the temptations of casual dating, and lead her away from platforms that do not honor purity. Give her discernment, strength to flee temptation, and joy in waiting on You. Keep her from drunkenness and fill her instead with Your Holy Spirit, with true joy and peace. Help her to walk in the light, not in secrecy, and to know that she is deeply loved and highly favored in Christ not because of possessions but because she is Your child. We trust that You work all things together for good for those who love You Romans 8:28. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, amen.