We hear the excitement in your words about the blessings you’re declaring in your life, and we rejoice in the hope you have for healing, restoration, and new opportunities. Yet we must first address something of great importance—something that cannot be overlooked. You mention the "blood of Jesus" at the end of your request, but we notice that the name of Jesus Christ is not central to your prayer. This is not a small matter, for Scripture is clear: there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father.
*"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6, WEB)*
*"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB)*
If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. True healing, true restoration, and true dreams fulfilled come only when we are in right relationship with Him. It is not enough to simply invoke His blood as a kind of spiritual "insurance"—we must know Him, follow Him, and submit every area of our lives to His lordship. Repent of any sin, turn away from worldly distractions (even things like entertainment that can become idols), and seek first His kingdom. Only then will the desires of your heart align with His perfect will.
Now, regarding the specifics of your request: we praise God for the healing you’ve experienced in your taste buds, communication, and soul. These are gifts from Him, and we pray they continue to flourish for His glory. Your dream of becoming a singer, overcoming fear of public speaking, and even working as a bartender while sharing your music are ambitions that can be used for God’s purposes—if they are surrendered to Him. But we must ask: are these dreams rooted in a desire to honor Christ, or are they rooted in self-glorification or worldly success? The Bible warns us not to love the world or the things in the world (1 John 2:15). If your music, your work, or even your relationships are not centered on Christ, they will ultimately leave you empty.
*"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go out as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* (Psalm 37:4-6, WEB)
You also mention a "mate area healed" and a desire for "a man." We must speak truth in love here: if you are seeking a romantic relationship outside of God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman, that is not something we can pray for in good conscience. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality, including homosexuality, is sin (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Romans 1:26-27). If this is what you’re referring to, we urge you to repent and turn to God’s design for relationships. If you are seeking a godly spouse, then we encourage you to pursue that in a way that honors Christ—through courtship with the goal of marriage, keeping yourself pure and set apart for Him.
*"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB)
As for your family, we pray for reconciliation where it aligns with God’s will. Sometimes restoration requires repentance, forgiveness, and a turning away from patterns that may have caused division. Seek God first, and trust Him to mend what is broken in His timing.
Finally, your mention of Netflix raises a question: are you celebrating the fact that you’re no longer paying for a service, or is this a distraction from what God is calling you to? Entertainment can easily become an idol if it takes priority over seeking Christ. *"All things are lawful for me,' but not all things are profitable. 'All things are lawful for me,' but I will not be mastered by anything."* (1 Corinthians 6:12, WEB) We pray that your time, talents, and resources would be used for eternal purposes, not temporary pleasures.
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would draw them into a deeper, more intimate relationship with Yourself. If they have not yet surrendered fully to Jesus as Lord, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see that apart from Christ, there is no true healing, no true fulfillment, and no eternal hope.
Father, we thank You for the healing You have already brought—restored taste, improved communication, and a soul being knit together by Your hand. We pray that every area of their life would continue to be transformed by Your Spirit, that fear would be replaced with faith, and that their gifts would be used for Your glory alone. If there is any sin—whether in relationships, entertainment, or motives—we ask that You would convict and cleanse them by the blood of Jesus. Lead them to repentance where needed, and grant them the strength to walk in purity.
Lord, regarding their desire for a spouse, we pray that You would align their heart with Your Word. If they are seeking a godly marriage, provide a husband or wife who loves You above all else. But if their desires are outside of Your design, we ask that You would redirect their heart and grant them the grace to walk in obedience. Let them not settle for anything less than Your perfect will.
We pray for their family, that where there is brokenness, You would bring restoration. Soften hearts, break down walls, and let forgiveness flow. Give them wisdom as they pursue bartending and music, that these would not become stumbling blocks but opportunities to shine Your light. Remove any fear of public speaking and replace it with boldness to proclaim Your truth, whether through song or speech.
Father, guard their mind from the distractions of this world. If Netflix or any other thing has become an idol, we pray You would break its hold and replace it with a hunger for Your Word and Your presence. Let their dreams be surrendered to You, that You might shape them according to Your purpose.
Finally, Lord, fill them with Your Holy Spirit. Let them walk in the confidence that comes from knowing You, not from worldly success. May their life be a testimony of Your grace, and may every dream fulfilled point others to Jesus.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.