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[Busqueoficioin God]

Rebuke it torment in the neighborhood contagious in everywhere with divorce in all are, divorce friends, divorce family, divorce business, divorce marriage, divorce relationships; those demons are idle unoccupied. The only thing has is ruin, disgraced another for giving increasing with it tragedy.

Praying for all woman / man / girlfriends/ boyfriends are through bad divorce also

Matthew 19:8-9 "Jesus replied, 'Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery'".
Deuteronomy 24:1-4
If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,

Galatians 5:21-22 outlines the contrast between the works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit. In verses 21, it lists examples of the "works of the flesh" such as envy, drunkenness, and orgies, warning that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God, the only thing they have is meddling in the another house and my life, is creating confusionsituation with false imitation “he is not is him, she is not her I am not her, they are not our relatives”; rebuke it bewitched confusion to violence my life.

Titus 3:3 describes how believers were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, and enslaved by various passions and pleasures. They lived in malice and envy, and were hated and hated others, and fake ties family, in the name of Jesus Christ.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, grieving over the pain and destruction that divorce, domestic violence, and spiritual torment have brought into your neighborhood and so many lives. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but we stand in the authority of Jesus Christ to rebuke every spirit of confusion, violence, and division that has taken root. The Word of God is clear: marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness. When hardness of heart leads to divorce outside of biblical grounds, such as sexual immorality, it grieves the heart of God and opens the door to further brokenness.

Jesus Himself said in Matthew 19:8-9, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery." Divorce is not God’s design, and when it occurs outside of His will, it leaves behind a trail of pain, bitterness, and generational wounds. We must also confront the reality of domestic violence, which is never justified in Scripture. The Bible calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), and wives to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33). Abuse is a perversion of God’s order and must be exposed, confronted, and stopped in the name of Jesus.

We rebuke the spirit of confusion that has twisted identities, relationships, and families in your life. The enemy delights in deception, whispering lies like "he is not him, she is not her, I am not her, they are not our relatives." But we declare that God’s truth is greater than the enemy’s lies. In John 8:32, Jesus says, "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." We break every assignment of the enemy to sow discord, envy, and malice in your neighborhood. The works of the flesh, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and hatred, are listed in Galatians 5:19-21, and those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

We also address the danger of meddling in the affairs of others, especially when it comes to relationships and marriages. Proverbs 26:17 warns, "Like one who grabs a stray dog by the ears is someone who rushes into a quarrel not their own." Instead of fueling gossip or division, we must pray, encourage, and speak life into marriages and families. The enemy wants to use idle hands and idle words to spread destruction, but we choose to stand in the gap, interceding for those who are hurting and lost.

To those who have gone through divorce or are in abusive situations, we say this: God sees your pain, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). If you are in an unsafe situation, we urge you to seek help from trusted believers, pastors, or authorities. God does not call anyone to endure abuse, and He provides a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13). For those who have been divorced outside of biblical grounds, there is forgiveness and restoration in Christ. Titus 3:3-5 reminds us, "At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy."

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name. We rebuke every spirit of divorce, violence, confusion, and deception that has infiltrated this neighborhood and the lives of those affected. Lord, we ask You to break the chains of hardness of heart and restore marriages according to Your will. For those who are in abusive situations, we pray for Your protection and provision. Lead them to safety and surround them with godly counsel and support.

Father, we declare that the enemy has no authority here. We cancel every assignment of the devil to steal, kill, and destroy. We speak life, healing, and restoration over every broken relationship and wounded heart. Fill this neighborhood with Your peace, love, and unity. Let Your Spirit move powerfully, convicting hearts of sin and drawing people to repentance and salvation.

We pray for those who have been divorced outside of Your will. Lord, bring healing to their hearts, and if it is Your will, restore what has been broken. For those who are single, we ask that You prepare them for godly marriages that honor You. Help them to seek You first and to walk in purity and holiness.

Father, we also pray for the church to rise up and be a light in this darkness. Give us boldness to speak truth in love, to confront sin, and to extend grace and mercy. Let us be instruments of Your peace, bringing hope to the hopeless and healing to the broken.

We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who restores. We trust in Your promises and declare that Your will shall be done in this neighborhood and in every life touched by this pain. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

To those reading this, if you have never surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. The Bible says in Romans 10:9, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you are ready to turn from your sins and trust in Jesus, pray this prayer with us:

"Lord Jesus, I confess that I am a sinner in need of Your forgiveness. I believe that You died on the cross for my sins and rose again. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. In Your name, I pray. Amen."

If you prayed that prayer, we rejoice with you! We encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith and be discipled. The journey has just begun, and we are here to support you.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how unsettling and heavy this feels, the chaos of a neighbor’s divorce and domestic abuse, the confusion it’s sowing, and that sense of torment spreading. That’s a lot to carry, and we don’t want you to carry it alone.

First, if you or your neighbor are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained people who understand, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. Safety comes first, and you’re not meant to navigate this on your own.

What you’re witnessing sounds like the deep grief and wreckage that divorce, especially when tangled with violence, brings into lives and whole neighborhoods. It’s normal to feel rattled, even infected by that sorrow, as if it’s bleeding into everything around you. Many people who walk through this describe it like a death that keeps echoing; the trauma doesn’t neatly stay behind one door. Your care for all those affected, the women, men, friends, families, tells us your heart is tender, not hardened.

A small, steady step might be to reach out to your pastor or a mature believer you trust. They can help you process what you’re seeing, pray with you, and help you consider whether there’s a safe way to offer quiet support to your neighbor, even if it’s just a card saying someone notices and cares. You don’t have to sort out all the noise alone.

Let’s pray:

Jesus, wrap Your strong arms around our friend right now. Still the confusion and chaos that feel so close, and draw them into the shelter of Your peace. Protect the one being harmed, give them a way out and people who will help. For every heart broken by this divorce, we ask for real safety, for healing that only You can bring, and for wisdom about what to do next. Guard this neighborhood from the spread of destruction; let Your calm take root here instead. Hold our friend steady, Lord, and give each of us the courage to be Your hands and feet in the wreckage. In Your name we pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

It is well that your soul is stirred to its depths by this eruption of wickedness in your neighborhood, for the carnal ease that sees violence and shrugs is a stranger to the Spirit of God. The crash of a marriage under the blows of a clenched fist, the treachery of a covenant shattered, the contagion of divorce spreading like a plague from house to house, these are not mere domestic trifles; they are the roar of the pit and the manifestation of that deep-seated hardness of heart our Lord exposed when He declared, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.” The enemy has indeed come in like a flood, and you are right to cry out against the ruin, the disgrace, the demonic confusion that seeks to tear down every sacred bond and leave behind only misery and bitter imitation of true kinship.

Yet take heed lest your spirit be swallowed up in the very turbulence you decry. The Lord our God is a God of deliverance, and unto Him belong the issues from death. Did not Deborah sing of a greater overthrow? We are not left to be the sport of unoccupied demons, as if the legions of hell went idle. No, they are ever raging, but the Captain of our salvation meets them arrow for arrow. “Deliverance is of the Lord but it must be accomplished by human instrumentality.” Therefore, I charge you to lift up your voice with a holy violence, not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities that drive men to beat their own ribs and make a jest of sacred vows. The kingdom of heaven still suffers violence, and the violent take it by force. Bring this horror before the throne, not with a feeble whisper, but with the vehemence of Jacob at Jabbok, who felt Esau’s approach and yet obtained deliverance by wrestling prayer. It is when we shoot the appointed arrow of supplication that the Lord’s deliverance flies swift and sure.

And what of the battered wife, the husband crushed, the children caught in this hailstorm? The Lord sees the oppression and the violence that is in the hand of the oppressor. It is an abomination to Him when a man covers his garment with wrong; He is the shield of the defenseless. I would that every church were a refuge for the bruised reed, and that we would never add to their sorrow by a cheap forgiveness that winks at the fist of the aggressor. The command is clear: rescue those being led away to death. If there be genuine peril, if fist meets flesh and life is made a terror, no parchment of marriage license gives a soul the right to play the tormentor. We mourn the divorce that God hates, but we also mourn the cruelty that makes a home a slaughterhouse. Do not mistake me: the standard remains as it was from the beginning. Yet while we uphold that holy permanence, we must stand with the oppressed and rebuke the beast that rages until it flees.

Turn then to your own soul, lest the fog of another’s confusion bewitch your peace. I hear your cry that the evil meddles in your own life, spreading false identities and bewitching confusion. Remember, the work of deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the Lord’s doing as the blotting out of guilt. To the Father you must look, alone and entirely, for sanctification and for the stilling of inward turmoil. The enemy would love nothing more than to draw you into that whirlwind of imitative relationships and counterfeit names. But if you are in Christ, you have passed from the kingdom of darkness; you are not who they say you are. The Lord knows them that are His, and He has named you with an everlasting name. Cry out, “I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord!” Faith peers beyond the present pandemonium and discerns the appointed end. Where carnal sense sees only endless confusion, faith spies the deliverance already on the wing.

Let your prayer then be the arrow of the Lord’s deliverance: quick, piercing, shot with the full strength of intercession. Rebuke the devouring spirit not in your own name, but in the all-prevailing name of Jesus Christ, who spoiled principalities and powers and made a show of them openly. Ply the throne of grace for your neighbor’s household, for all the men and women and youths entangled in the wreckage of bad divorces. The clock of mercy has not yet ceased to strike; a ransom has been found. God has devised a way to bring forth prisoners from the pit and to lead captivity captive. He can yet make those who are at enmity to dwell together in peace, or if that may not be, He can cause even the wrath of man to praise Him while He restrains the remainder.

And when the deliverance breaks, as it shall, do not keep silence. Declare it in Zion. Let the people of God hear what the Lord has done, that many may take heart and that His praise may be heard among the nations. A Christian who has never been in the deeps has little to tell on the mountaintop. This present tribulation is the raw material out of which a glorious song of gratitude will be forged. You are learning the dark notes now that you may sound the high notes later. Rest your soul on this: “He brought them forth also with silver and gold.” After the night of weeping, the morning brings not only escape but enrichment.

I bid you, therefore, cast your burden on Jehovah, wrestle in prayer with holy determination, and stand still to see the salvation of God. The Deliverer shall arise out of Zion to turn away ungodliness from Jacob. Even now He hears the groaning of the prisoner, the cry of the battered, the sigh of the bewildered. And as surely as He divided the sea and led His Israel through, so will He part the waves of this storm for all who put their trust under the shadow of His wings.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

The very atmosphere in your neighborhood has become thick with the smoke of a great fire, and you are right to perceive that this is not merely a human tragedy but a spiritual contagion. Yet the first blow of this storm must not be met with a storm of our own making. When you look upon the violence and the ruin, and your heart cries out for a rebuke, take care that you do not become the very thing you lament. The man who is wronged and then seethes with malice, the woman who hears slander and then spreads the story further, these are not fighting the evil but feeding it at their own table.

You see the demons as idle and unoccupied, and in that you are not mistaken. They are like a raging torrent that finds a cracked vessel. The crack is our own listless will, our readiness to dwell on the injury, to replay the confusion, to insist, “He is not him, she is not her, I am not her.” Let the torrent rush past; do not be the vessel that contains it. You ask for a rebuke of this bewitching confusion, but the first and most necessary rebuke is the one you deliver to your own thoughts when they begin to imitate the chaos outside your door. The evil speaker disgraces first himself, and then his target. When you report what you have heard, even under the pretense of prayer, you make yourself the first victim of the poison you are trying to expel.

Consider David, hunted by a wicked king who had all the power of armies. David had the weapon and the opportunity to end the conflict with a single stroke, urged on even by his own desperate men. Yet he spared Saul. He did not mistake the devil’s provocation for a divine summons to fight. To rush upon a conflict when God has not summoned you is not courage but vainglory, and its victory is hollow. This contagion of divorce has indeed produced a monstrous fruit of violence, but letting that violence take root in your own spirit through sleepless rehearsals of wrong gives the evil a double triumph. The injury was meant for you, but if you make a nest for it in your heart, you deliver yourself into the hands of your own malice, which is a far worse captor.

The only truly ruinous theft is not when a man steals your peace by his disgraced life, but when by your response you steal from yourself the treasure laid up in heaven. Injustice is judged not by the measure of gold or land taken, but by the intention of the soul. When we strive and dispute in our mind, demanding a price of vengeance from those who have hurt us, are we not robbing God of His judgment seat? The poison of this divorce is, as you see, a work of the flesh, and the flesh seeks to reproduce itself. It will infect your house not through the walls, but through the door of a brooding, slandering, anxious tongue. Cut out that root, and there will be no fruit of confusion in your own life.

Therefore, the prayer for all those wounded by this tragedy must begin with your own standing before God. Pray for them, yes, but from a citadel of peace. Be like the peacemakers who are called sons of God, imitating the Son who, when reviled, did not revile in return. The more this spirit of divorce wars against you, the greater your reward if you stand firm in meekness, remembering no evil. Nothing so delights God as this. This very silence in the face of provocation sets you free from your sins, loosens the charges against you, and builds a wall the demons cannot scale. Do not be deceived; the sins of the house next door are not the product of force or constraint, but of an indolent will. And the same is true for your own. The grace that abolished the very roots of sin’s exceeding evil is more than sufficient for your neighbor’s upheaval and for the trembling it has caused in your soul. Commend all to the judgment of God, who sees the hidden intentions, and cling to the simple, single-hearted peace that makes even a fugitive stronger than a king.

 

[Silas]

The torment you are witnessing in your neighborhood is a clear marker of a fierce spiritual battle. When divorce sweeps through like a contagion, carrying with it domestic violence and abuse that almost comes to blows, we are seeing not just human brokenness but demonic forces unleashed to dismantle what God has joined together. The confusion, the false identities, the sense that “he is not him, she is not her, I am not her, they are not our relatives”, all of that is the hallmark of an enemy who specializes in counterfeit relationships and chaotic rage. Scripture shows us that such confusion has a long history; it echoes the scattering at Babel when God confounded languages and left people unable to understand one another. That same spirit of Babylon is at work today, seeking to twist families into battlegrounds and to make divorce a weapon of destruction.

When the Pharisees tried to trap Jesus on the question of divorce, they pointed to the allowance Moses gave in the law. Jesus cut through the debate by taking them back to the beginning: from the start it was not so. God’s design was a lifelong, exclusive union. The provision of a certificate of divorce was given only because of the hardness of human hearts, it was a concession to sin, not a command for every offense. In the rabbinic schools of thought, the definition of “uncleanness” had been stretched to absurd lengths; some said a woman could be put away for burning a meal or going out with her head uncovered, making divorce as easy as handing her a written notice. Jesus would not allow that cheapening. He reaffirmed that sexual immorality breaks the one-flesh bond, but He also wept over the hardness that drives people apart.

Yet even within that high standard, the Bible does not demand that a person remain in a home where they are being beaten and terrorized. When a marriage becomes a site of violence that threatens life and sanity, the same mercy that Moses codified to protect a vulnerable spouse still speaks. Some unions are tragic mistakes from their youthful beginning, forged out of infatuation rather than covenant wisdom, and they spiral into peril. In such a case, separation is not a casual dismissal of God’s ideal; it is a last resort to preserve life and to stem the flow of evil. Divorce under those conditions, while still a failure to reach the divine pattern, is not an unpardonable sin. For the abused, for the one caught in a relationship that is disintegrating into threats and blows, there is grace and a path toward safety.

The demonic forces behind this epidemic are real. Scripture describes fallen spirits that sting like scorpions and bring torment that cannot be escaped by hiding in a room. They are intelligent beings, commissioned in seasons of judgment to afflict those who do not have God’s seal upon them. When you see a neighborhood overrun with divorce, when the enemy turns a household into a ruin and then spreads that ruin to business, friendship, and marriage after marriage, you are glimpsing a horde unleashed to devour. The violence and abuse, the almost beating that you describe, is the fruit of minds being driven by powers of darkness, not unlike the way dictators throughout history have been controlled into inhumanity. But take heart: the Antichrist spirit already at work in the world ultimately gathers the kings of the earth only to be crushed by the returning Christ. Jesus plundered the strongholds of Satan, and on the cross He disarmed the principalities and powers.

Stand firm, then, in the authority of that Name you have invoked. When you rebuke the confusion, you are not speaking empty syllables; the same Lord who cast demons out of people with loud cries is still casting them out. Pray that the seal of God would protect the innocent and that any lying spirit whispering “this is not your real family” would be silenced. Intercede for every man, woman, boyfriend, and girlfriend walking through a bitter divorce, asking that God would grant them wisdom, safe shelter, and ultimate healing. Do not lose hope amidst this chaos. The book of Judges records a time when everyone did whatever was right in their own eyes, and unspeakable acts corrupted the land. Yet even in that dark hour, the faithfulness of a few prepared the way for Ruth and Boaz, and from that line came the Messiah. God is not finished. The tearing down of families through violence and divorce is a work of the enemy, but the restoring work of Jesus is stronger still. His grace can rebuild what the locusts have eaten, and His return will bring every confusion to an end.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are deeply grateful for the privilege to stand with you in prayer during this heavy and heartbreaking season. Your request has weighed heavily on our hearts as we have interceded for your neighbor, their family, and all those caught in the destructive cycle of divorce, domestic violence, and spiritual oppression. We have prayed earnestly for God’s protection over the vulnerable, for His justice to prevail, and for the chains of confusion, bitterness, and deception to be broken in Jesus’ mighty name.

We have lifted up the Scriptures you shared—Matthew 19, Galatians 5, and Titus 3—asking the Holy Spirit to bring conviction, healing, and restoration where hearts have grown hard. We have rebuked the works of the flesh that have brought such pain and destruction, declaring instead the fruit of the Spirit—love, peace, patience, and self-control—to take root in every home and relationship. We have prayed against the enemy’s schemes to sow division, violence, and false identity, asking God to expose every lie and replace it with His truth.

If the Lord has moved in answer to these prayers—if there has been a breakthrough in safety, reconciliation, or freedom—we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report so we may rejoice with you. If the battle still rages and the need for prayer remains, we encourage you to post this request again so we may continue to stand in agreement with you, covering this situation in persistent, faith-filled intercession.

May the God of all comfort strengthen you and give you wisdom as you navigate this trial. May His presence surround you, His Word guide you, and His peace guard your heart. We remain committed to praying for you and all those affected by these tragedies, trusting that our Father is at work even when we cannot see it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.