Neighbor’s divorce agressive violence abuse with bochinche gossiping beat all is going prison with their sabotage

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Good and Faithful Servant
Rebuke it torment in the neighborhood contagious in everywhere with divorce in all are, divorcefriends, divorce family, divorce business, divorce marriage, divorce relationships; those demons are idle unoccupied. The only thing has is ruin, disgraced another for giving increasing with it tragedy.

Praying for all woman / man / girlfriends/ boyfriends are through bad divorce also

Matthew 19:8-9 "Jesus replied, 'Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery'".
Deuteronomy 24:1-4
If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,

Galatians 5:21-22 outlines the contrast between the works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit. In verses 21, it lists examples of the "works of the flesh" such as envy, drunkenness, and orgies, warning that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God, the only thing they have is meddling in the another house and my life, is creating confusionsituation with false imitation “he is not is him, she is not her I am not her, they are not our relatives”; rebuke it bewitched confusion to violence my life.

Titus 3:3 describes how believers were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, and enslaved by various passions and pleasures. They lived in malice and envy, and were hated and hated others, and fake ties family, in the name of Jesus Christ
 

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We hear your burden and we join you in seeking the Lord together regarding this heavy torment in your neighborhood and the contagious spread of divorce, aggression, violence, abuse, gossip and sabotage that you are witnessing. We agree that what you describe is not of God but is confusion and destruction stirred up by the enemy, and it grieves the heart of God when homes and families are torn apart.

Scripture is clear about God's design for marriage from the beginning. Jesus replied, Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery, Matthew 19:8-9. And again, For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, Malachi 2:16, and What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate, Mark 10:9. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman before God, and divorce was never His perfect will but was permitted because of hardness of heart. When divorce is treated lightly, when it spreads through friends, family, business and marriages as you have seen, it brings ruin and disgrace and opens the door to further tragedy, bitterness and meddling in houses that are not our own.

We must also rebuke the bochinche, gossiping and whispering you describe, along with the aggressive violence and beating and sabotage. The works of the flesh are obvious, which are adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these, of which I forewarn you that those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom, Galatians 5:19-21, but the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control, Galatians 5:22-23. A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends, Proverbs 16:28, and God is not a God of confusion, but of peace, 1 Corinthians 14:33. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice, Ephesians 4:31. Like one who grabs a dog’s ears is one who meddles in strife not his own, Proverbs 26:17, and let none of you suffer as a meddler in other men’s matters, 1 Peter 4:15. The bewitched confusion you describe where there is false imitation and saying he is not him, she is not her, and creating fake ties of family, is a work of deceit and we rebuke it. For we were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another, Titus 3:3, but God calls us out of that life into sobriety and watchfulness, for your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour, 1 Peter 5:8. These demons are not merely idle and unoccupied, they are actively seeking to steal, kill and destroy homes, and they must be resisted in Jesus' name.

You also asked for prayer for all women and men and girlfriends and boyfriends going through bad divorce. We want to speak biblically here with love and truth. We believe courtship as a boyfriend or girlfriend should be with the purpose of discerning marriage to another Christian believer, not as a casual partnership or for sexual intimacy. Marriage should be honored, and the bed undefiled, Hebrews 13:4, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality, 1 Corinthians 6:18. If any in these relationships are living together or engaging in sex outside of marriage, that is fornication, and if involving a married person it is adultery, and it must be repented of and forsaken. We pray that those who are dating will pursue purity and seek a godly spouse, and that those who are married will honor their covenant and seek reconciliation where possible, and where divorce has already occurred due to hardness of heart or sexual immorality, that there would be repentance, forgiveness and healing rather than continued bitterness, gossip and sabotage.

We also take seriously the violence and abuse and talk of prison. God calls us to pursue what makes for peace, Romans 12:18, and civil authorities are appointed to punish wrongdoing, Romans 13:4. If there is physical beating or threats, we encourage seeking safety and involving appropriate authorities and godly counsel, while not returning evil for evil.

We pray together now in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved, Acts 4:12.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we rebuke the spirit of divorce, violence, gossip, sabotage, torment and bewitched confusion that has been contagious in this neighborhood and in families, friendships, businesses and marriages. We ask You to break its power and to silence the whispering lips and the meddling that invades other houses. Lord, bring conviction where there is hardness of heart, soften hearts to love truth and to honor covenant. Heal those wounded by divorce and betrayal, comfort the women and men and young people in courtship who are suffering, and lead them into purity and toward godly marriage that honors You. Put away bitterness, wrath and malice and fill Your people with love, joy, peace and self-control. Protect this home from false imitation and confusion, let no weapon formed against it prosper, and guard hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Where there is violence and abuse, bring safety, justice and repentance, and where the law must act, let it act righteously. Make us not idle or busybodies but diligent in good works and occupied with what is holy. We ask for Your peace to reign in this neighborhood and for Your will to be done, in Jesus' name, Amen.
 
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We hear how heavy and exhausting this has felt, living near aggression, threats and constant gossip, and feeling like divorce and conflict are spreading through friends, family, marriages and the whole neighborhood. It makes sense you would feel tormented and on edge, and we are praying for protection and peace for you and for the women and men you mentioned who are going through painful separations.

When there is shouting, hitting or fear of harm nearby, it helps to have a safety plan and people who know what is happening. If you can, consider reaching out to a trusted pastor, counselor or other safe community resource who can walk with you, help you think through boundaries and next steps, and stay connected with you. You do not have to carry this alone or sort it all at once.

Father, we bring this neighborhood and every hurting marriage and family before You. Please bring safety where there is violence, calm where there is confusion and gossip, and wisdom for each decision that needs to be made. Guard our friend, give steady rest tonight, and lead them to caring help nearby. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
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Psalm 55:22 Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.
 
Your burden concerning violence and strife and the bitter contagion of divorce in the neighborhood has been heard, and it is right to bring it before the Lord with sorrow and with holy earnestness.

The Word of our Lord in Matthew 19 teaches that Moses permitted divorce because of hardness of heart, but from the beginning it was not so. Marriage was ordained by God as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and where that covenant is broken there is wounding and ruin. What you describe, the bochinche and gossiping, the beating and sabotage, the meddling in another house, the confusion where it is said he is not him and she is not her, all this shows the works of the flesh of which Galatians 5 warns, envy and malice and revelings, which leave men empty and disgraced. Titus reminds us that we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another. Apart from grace, the heart remains hard and idle for the adversary to occupy.

Yet there is healing, and that healing is in Christ alone. The leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations, and the least thing about Christ has healing virtue in it. There is not a word that ever fell from His lips but bears healing for some ill of our humanity. He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds. The soldier knows where to find a hand to extricate the shot, and we know a Physician who can give joy to the troubled countenance and calm the heart now swelling with grief. First there must be forgiveness, and then healing. He who is authorized to absolve says, Thy sins be forgiven thee, and with that sentence the soul is loosed. All the eternal penal consequences are gone from the forgiven man, and the sickness of sin begins to be cured when Christ touches the leper and makes him clean.

Let us pray together.

O Lord, rebuke the spirit of violence and torment that has troubled this neighborhood. Put Thy fear in hearts and preserve Thy people from all evil and from all the devices of the evil one. Let gossip and slander be silenced, let sabotage and beating cease, and let the confusion and bewitched imitation which would unsettle homes be scattered. Thou hast promised to preserve the soul and to deliver from the pestilence that walks in darkness, and we ask Thee to keep this house and this street in purity and uprightness.

We pray for those wounded by divorce, for every woman and man who bears its tragedy and disgrace. Heal the brokenhearted, forgive sin, and wash the conscience in the blood of atonement. For those who are in prison through violence and for those who suffer from it, grant repentance and true conversion, for salvation is through Jesus Christ alone and by no other name. For those living as boyfriends and girlfriends outside the covenant of marriage, we do not ask Thee to bless what is contrary to Thy holy ordinance, but we ask Thee to grant conviction, chastity, and grace, that they may either be joined in faithful marriage as Thou hast ordained or walk in holiness before Thee, bearing the fruit of the Spirit which is love, joy, peace, longsuffering and temperance.

Teach us a holy violence, not against flesh and blood, but against sin and hell and the hardness of our own hearts, that we may take the kingdom by force through importunate prayer and faith. Grant that Thy Word, even the least portion of it, may be as a healing draught to every sick soul, and that as Christ taught, healing may come with the hearing of Thy truth. Lift us up by Thy hand as Thou didst lift her from the fever, that being healed we may rise and serve Thee.

Hear this cry, O pardoning and healing Lord, and let Thy grace reign where ruin has entered, to the glory of Thy name. Amen.
 
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Your request has been heard and we join you in bringing this heavy burden before the Lord. The turmoil you describe in your neighborhood, with aggression, violence, threats, gossip and the pain that comes when marriages break apart, is grievous to God and brings ruin and confusion to many homes.

Scripture is clear about God's design from the beginning. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and Jesus taught that Moses permitted divorce because of hardness of heart, but it was not this way from the beginning, and that divorce followed by a new marriage, except for sexual immorality, is adultery. See Matthew 19:8-9. This shows both God's high standard and His mercy, for He calls all people to repentance and to receive salvation through Jesus Christ alone.

You are right to be troubled by violence and by gossip. The Lord commands us to love our neighbor as ourselves, and on this hang all the law and the prophets. Violence does not come from necessity but from a failure to rule the heart. God gave us anger not so we would attack one another, but so we would be zealous against sin and against the enemy of our souls, and be strict with our own faults while showing mercy to others. In the same way, we are called to cover over the failings of neighbors rather than to spread them. When we repeat what we have heard, even under the appearance of concern, we become gossips and bring disgrace upon ourselves and harm to others. It is better to keep silence about the faults of others and to pray for them in secret.

The works of the flesh, which include envy, strife, hatred and outbursts of anger, will not inherit the kingdom of God, while the fruit of the Spirit is love, peace, patience and self control. See Galatians 5. Titus also reminds us that we ourselves were once foolish and enslaved by passions, living in malice and envy, but God saved us through His mercy in Christ. Therefore we do not return evil for evil or meet violence with violence, but we show mercy if we hope to receive mercy.

We will pray with you.

Heavenly Father, we ask in the name of Jesus Christ alone, our only Savior, for Your mercy and protection over this neighborhood. Restrain all violence, abuse and intimidation, and protect those who are vulnerable. Bring conviction where there is hardness of heart, and bring repentance where there is sin. Put a guard over lips that gossip and stir up strife, and teach us all to love our neighbors and to seek peace. For those who have been wounded by divorce, whether husbands, wives, or those in dating relationships that are outside Your design for marriage, we ask for healing, for godly counsel, and for a turning to You. Where marriages can be reconciled in faithfulness, we ask for restoration. Where sin has broken what cannot be restored, we ask for repentance, for purity of life, and for contentment in following You, whether in a restored marriage or in a holy walk before You. Deliver from confusion, from false ties and from every work of the enemy that seeks an idle place, and fill Your people with Your Spirit so they may live in clarity and truth. Give wisdom to authorities to do justice and to restrain evil, and keep this community from a contagious spread of bitterness and slander. We ask not that You would bless relationships that are outside Your will, but that You would lead all people into obedience, holiness and peace through Christ. Amen.

Continue to seek the Lord, to avoid meddling in the affairs of other homes, to refuse to pass on gossip, and to pursue what makes for peace. If you are in danger from violence, seek help from pastors and from proper authorities, and keep praying that God would make you an instrument of His peace in that place.
 
The pain and turmoil you are describing in your neighborhood is real, and it is understandable that you feel overwhelmed by the violence, the gossip, and the sense that brokenness is spreading from house to house. God sees what is happening and He hears your prayer for protection and for peace.

Scripture shows us that much of the confusion in this world comes when people turn away from God and decide for themselves what is right. When there is no final authority beyond our own desires, everyone does what seems right in his own eyes and the result is strife and confusion. That is what you are witnessing. Where there is envy and strife, there is confusion and every evil work. The wisdom that comes from this world leads to fighting and quarreling because it is driven by lusts and selfish desires. In contrast, the wisdom that comes from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and willing to yield, and it sows peace so that righteousness can be reaped.

You quoted Jesus rightly when He said that Moses permitted divorce because of hardness of heart, but it was not this way from the beginning. From the beginning God established marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and He calls His people to honor that covenant. When hearts are hard, relationships fracture, and the works of the flesh take over. You mentioned Galatians 5, which contrasts those works of the flesh such as envy, drunkenness, and strife with the fruit of the Spirit, which is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control. Those who live according to the flesh will not inherit the kingdom of God, but God has made a way for us to be changed.

Titus 3 reminds us that we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, enslaved by passions and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hating and being hated. But God in His mercy saves us through Jesus Christ, not because of our goodness but because of His kindness. He separates our sins from us and remembers them no more. That is the hope we can hold out to every man and woman, including those going through the pain of divorce and broken relationships. We do not ask God to bless what is contrary to His design, but we do ask Him to bring conviction, repentance, healing, and a new life in Christ where there is purity and wholeness.

It is also wise to guard your own heart and home. Scripture warns against meddling in another household and creating further confusion through false impressions and gossip. You cannot fix your neighbors by entering into their strife, and you should not allow their turmoil to torment your life. Pray for them, but also set godly boundaries. If there is real violence or threat, it is right to seek protection and to let proper authorities do their work. God has promised to go before His people and to bring confusion upon the works of evil, and He is able to restrain what is harmful and to establish His peace little by little.

So let us pray together. Father, we bring before You this neighborhood and every family, marriage, and relationship that is being torn apart. We ask You to rebuke the spirit of violence, gossip, and confusion that seeks to spread from house to house. Release those who are idle and being used for evil, and bring them to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. For those who are hurting through divorce, bring comfort and true healing, and lead them away from further sin and into a life that honors You. Give to the one praying wisdom from above that is pure and peaceable, and help them to sow peace where there has been strife. Hide them in the provision You have made through Jesus, cover their home with Your protection, and let Your Word be the final authority that brings clarity where there has been confusion. We ask this in the name of Jesus, who alone saves and restores. Amen.
 

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