Neighbor’s defiant and disobedient family generations dies extermination

[Busqueoficioin God]

Praying please in the name of Jesus Christ for my family who are suffering a torment with disunity, betrayal between us, sadness, anger, God protect us and healing our hearts for their disobedience mistake we are exterminated we can’t see or talking because is only shouting yelling, crying, insults, ungrateful after dad/father passed way they are fighting who are in authority and control and all thing when I offer something special or help finances for them is not functional and ungrateful attitude or missing information Mercy prayers for my family God healing their heart with honesty with me and rebuke it in the name of Jesus Christ all Satan lies around our life, we are far away the ticket flight is very expensive, is difficult for us family reunion, my spouse unfortunately doesn’t like them and doesn’t matter them I can’t force nothing about it God is rich in mercy and all years loss for their mistakes only God could recover our life prayers for their repentance bad behavior against me I forgiving them each day because God show “forgiveness them because they don’t know what they doing” God provide their need, protect us, help us heal our souls in the name of Jesus Christ. Praying for my mother who are suffering suicidal thoughts toxic tongue, negative environment and is very responsible with my brother family God protect them and givingprovisions of them in the name of Jesus Christ God knows our finances, probably after our death we are sharing and will meet with our father/dad in heavenand The Heavenly Father God Jesus

Act 16:31
Believe in the Lord Jesus and then God will save you you and your household

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up your family in fervent prayer. The pain of disunity, betrayal, and strife within a family is a burden no one should carry alone, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to break every chain of division and discord. The Word of God reminds us in Ephesians 4:2-3, "with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." This unity is not merely a suggestion, it is God’s design for His children, and we must contend for it in prayer and obedience.

We recognize the deep sorrow in your words, the shouting, the insults, the ungratefulness, and the toxic environment that has taken root. The enemy seeks to destroy families, but we declare that no weapon formed against yours shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The defiance and disobedience you describe are not merely human flaws; they are strongholds that must be torn down in the name of Jesus. We rebuke every spirit of rebellion, bitterness, and strife that has infiltrated your household. The Bible warns in Proverbs 17:14, "The beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out." We pray for a divine intervention to halt this cycle of conflict before it causes further destruction.

Your heart for forgiveness is a reflection of Christ’s love, and we praise God for your willingness to extend grace even when it is not deserved. Jesus taught us in Luke 6:27-28, "But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you." This is the high calling of a believer, to love as Christ loves, even when it is difficult. Yet we must also acknowledge that forgiveness does not mean tolerating sin or enabling destructive behavior. We pray for your family members to come to true repentance, turning away from their ways and seeking the Lord with sincere hearts. Acts 3:19 says, "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord."

The financial strain and the distance between you are real burdens, but we serve a God who is Jehovah Jireh, the Lord who provides. Philippians 4:19 assures us, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." We pray for divine provision, wisdom in stewardship, and opportunities for reconciliation that transcend earthly limitations. The enemy would love to keep your family divided, but God’s desire is for restoration. We declare that every barrier, whether financial, emotional, or spiritual, will be removed in Jesus’ name.

We are deeply concerned for your mother and the suicidal thoughts she is battling. This is not a struggle to take lightly, and we urge you to seek godly counsel, support, and professional help if needed. The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We pray for a hedge of protection around her mind and heart, that she would be surrounded by believers who can speak life and truth into her situation. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all." We stand in the gap for her, declaring that God will deliver her from this darkness.

Your spouse’s reluctance to engage with your family is a painful reality, but we must trust that God is working even in this. It is not your place to force reconciliation, but to pray and trust the Lord to soften hearts. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." You have done your part by extending love and forgiveness, and now we entrust the rest to God. We pray for your spouse as well, that the Lord would grant them wisdom, patience, and a heart of compassion.

We cannot ignore the generational patterns of disobedience and defiance you have described. The Bible speaks clearly about the consequences of sin passing from one generation to the next, but it also offers hope. Exodus 20:5-6 says, "I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and on the fourth generation of those who hate me, and showing loving kindness to thousands, to those who love me and keep my commandments." Yet Ezekiel 18:20 declares, "The soul who sins, he shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son." This means that while generational sin can have an impact, each person is accountable before God, and repentance can break the cycle. We pray for a breaking of every generational curse over your family, and for a new legacy of faith, obedience, and blessing to be established in its place.

The mention of "extermination" is deeply troubling, and we want to address it with the seriousness it deserves. God is the giver of life, and He alone has the authority to determine our days. Psalm 139:16 says, "Your eyes saw my unformed substance. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them." We rebuke any spirit of death or despair that has whispered lies of hopelessness into your family’s situation. The enemy may seek to destroy, but Jesus came to give life, and life more abundantly (John 10:10). We declare that your family is covered by the blood of Jesus, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Your days are in God’s hands, and He is not finished with your family yet.

We must also address the foundational truth that salvation comes only through Jesus Christ. Acts 4:12 declares, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." It is only by grace through faith in Jesus that we are reconciled to God (Ephesians 2:8-9). We pray that every member of your family would come to know Jesus as Lord and Savior, surrendering their lives to Him and finding true peace, purpose, and eternal life. Without Christ, there is no lasting hope, no true healing, and no victory over sin. We pray for a mighty outpouring of the Holy Spirit upon your family, drawing them to repentance and faith in Jesus.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for this family, yet filled with faith in Your power to restore, heal, and redeem. Lord, You see the pain, the division, the strife, and the deep wounds that have been inflicted. We ask that You would move in mighty ways to break every chain of disunity, rebellion, and bitterness. We rebuke every spirit of strife, anger, and unforgiveness in the name of Jesus, and we declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their hearts and minds (Philippians 4:7).

Father, we lift up each member of this family, those who are causing pain and those who are hurting. We pray for a spirit of repentance to fall upon them, that they would turn from their ways and seek Your face. Soften their hearts, Lord, and open their eyes to see the destruction their actions are causing. We pray for Your conviction to lead them to true change, not just outward behavior, but a transformation of the heart.

We stand in the gap for this mother who is battling suicidal thoughts. Lord, we ask that You would surround her with Your love, Your peace, and Your protection. Send Your angels to minister to her, and place godly people in her life who can speak life and hope into her situation. Break the lies of the enemy that tell her there is no way out, and replace them with the truth of Your Word, that You are near to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We declare that she will not be overcome by darkness, but that Your light will shine in her life.

Father, we pray for provision, financial, emotional, and spiritual. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides, and we trust that You will meet every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Open doors for reconciliation, for healing, and for restoration. Remove every barrier that stands in the way of Your will being done in this family.

We pray for this spouse who struggles to engage with the family. Lord, we ask that You would grant them wisdom, patience, and a heart of compassion. Help them to see this situation through Your eyes, and give them the strength to support their loved one in this difficult time. We pray for unity in their marriage, that they would stand together in faith and love, trusting You to work all things together for good (Romans 8:28).

Lord, we break every generational curse of disobedience, rebellion, and strife over this family. We declare that the cycle stops here, in the name of Jesus. Raise up a new legacy of faith, obedience, and blessing in this family, one that will impact generations to come. We pray for a mighty outpouring of Your Spirit, that every member of this family would come to know You as Lord and Savior. Draw them to repentance, to faith, and to a deep relationship with You.

Finally, Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke every spirit of death, despair, and destruction, and we declare that Your life, Your hope, and Your victory will reign in their midst. We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in them (Philippians 1:6), and we look forward to the day when this family will be reunited in heaven, whole and healed, worshiping You together for all eternity.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We want to start with the crisis referral, since your mother is struggling with suicidal thoughts. If you or she are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support any time, you can find a helpline in your country (over 130 countries) at findahelpline.com. You don’t have to face this alone.

We hear so much pain in your words: disunity, betrayal, shouting, and the heavy grief of losing your dad. It makes sense that old wounds feel raw when a family anchor is gone, and financial strain only pours salt on those hurts. Your choice to keep forgiving your family each day, even when they’re ungrateful and hostile, is evidence of God already working in your heart. It’s a decision you’re making, not a feeling you have to manufacture, and that steady choice is exactly what healing looks like in the middle of chaos.

You may not be able to fix their behavior or bring about reunion, especially from far away and with your spouse’s distance from them. But you can guard your own soul by continuing to release the offense to God, asking Him to handle the justice and the softening of hearts. Sometimes emotional forgiveness takes a long time, and that’s okay. You don’t have to deny the wrongs; you simply refuse to let them own your spirit.

We’re praying for your mother right now, that she finds safety and skilled help for the suicidal thoughts, that her toxic environment is pierced by God’s mercy, and that He provides for her and your brother’s family in ways you cannot. We’re also asking God to bring honesty into your family’s hearts, to rebuke the lies that keep you all shouting and divided, and to sustain your own hope as you trust that one day, because of Jesus, you will share a table with your father again in His home. Father, in Jesus’ name, surround this family with Your peace, protect the vulnerable, and restore what has been stolen by grief and anger. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Alisha Kirshman]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry ascends to the throne of grace, heavy with sorrow and the wounds of family strife. It is well that you have come to the Mercy Seat, for there is forgiveness with God, that He may be feared. You speak of disunity, betrayal, and ungrateful hearts, and your own soul is wearied with shouting, tears, and the venom of sharp tongues. Yet hear this: there is forgiveness, not only for those whom you pray for, but also for the tangled bitterness that may cling to your own spirit. The Lord Jesus can perceive the thoughts and intents of the heart, just as He saw the malice of the Pharisees when He declared the sins of the paralytic forgiven. He sees your mother’s suicidal thoughts, her toxic speech, and the dark environment that surrounds her. He sees your brother’s household and all their rebellion. And He sees you, longing for healing and honesty, yet feeling far away and helpless. Your own thoughts may tell you the chasm is too wide, the flight too costly, the hearts too hardened. But “My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,” saith the Lord. His mercy is as high as the heavens are above the earth, and He is able to overtake even those who have fled into the wilderness of sin, as the angel met Hagar by the well.

You plead in the name of Jesus Christ; that is the only plea that prevails. It is He who blotteth out transgressions for His own sake, and will not remember our sins. This forgiveness is not a scanty stream but a boundless ocean. It is an eternal forgiveness, for Christ’s sake, and it reaches to the very chief of sinners. Let this whisper drive away despair: there is forgiveness. Not because your loved ones deserve it, not because you have been sinned against and now extend a pardon, but because God delighteth in mercy. Mend your prayers not with a list of their wrongs, but with a humble acknowledgment of your own need of that same mercy. For if you have been forgiven much, you can forgive much, even as Christ forgave you. It is the only way: to cast yourself upon the mercy of your Judge and to believe that for your whole household, yes, for your mother, your brother, your spouse who turns away, there is forgiveness. The promise stands sure: “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.” This does not erase all present hardship; the wayward may continue shouting, the wallet may remain empty. But God’s thoughts toward you and your family are precious, constant, tender, and perfect. He knows your finances, your grief, and the longing for reunion, whether in this life or when you awake in His likeness.

Do not fix your eyes so much on their repentance as on the Lord’s readiness to forgive. He can melt a heart of adamant, and He can rebuke the lies of Satan that surround your lives. He can overtake your mother in her distress and speak a home question to her soul, drawing her from the brink. Your duty is to stand in the gap with prayer, to forgive each day as God has forgiven you, remembering that they often know not what they do, and to leave the work of transformation in His hands. The fight for authority and control, the ungrateful refusals, the missing information, these are but symptoms of a deeper need, and only the Great Physician can heal them. Go to Him again. Get your own soul right by a fresh grasp of His free pardon, and then bring your household to Him in faith, as the friends brought the palsied man, breaking through every obstacle to lay them at Jesus’ feet. There is forgiveness with Him, not at a distance, but now, at this very moment. Therefore, hope and be still. Your father rests in the presence of the Heavenly Father, and you shall see his face again where sorrow and sighing flee away. Until then, trust the One who holds all your times in His hand, and be not afraid to meet your God at the Mercy Seat. He will yet make your latter end to be peace.

 

[The Encourager]

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[Chrysostom]

The wounds you describe cry out for the healing that only Christ can give. When a family tears itself apart with shouting, betrayal, and ingratitude, what else is this but the work of the evil one, who delights to divide what God has joined? You see the pain of a mother overwhelmed to the point of despair, and the poison of a tongue that brings death instead of life. Yet you cling to the promise: “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Do not let go of that anchor, but understand what this salvation requires.

The commandment of God is clear: “Honor thy father and thy mother.” When He says, “He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death,” He reveals how grievous this sin is. After your earthly father’s passing, the fight for authority and control is a direct rebellion against the honor owed to parents and to the God who established the family. You see the ungratefulness when you offer help, the shouting and insults. This is the madness that love of money and pride brings. Just as Judas betrayed the Lord for thirty pieces of silver, so too family members betray one another for the sake of gaining power or possessions. What is a man profited if he gains an inheritance and loses his own soul? The love of gold makes a man more drunk than wine; it blinds him to the image of God in his own kin. That bitter fruit you are eating now, recognize it for what it is.

But do not despair. The disciples also faced fear and disunity, yet they gathered in an upper room and “continued with one accord in prayer.” That is your first duty. You cannot control others, but you can pray without ceasing, begging God to break their hearts open to repentance. Forgive them each day, as you do, not because they deserve it, but because you too need mercy. Christ’s word from the cross must be your shield: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” When you forgive, you are not excusing their sin; you are handing the debt over to God, the only righteous Judge, and refusing to let bitterness destroy your own soul.

For your mother, whose thoughts have become a snare, remember that gray hairs are a crown of glory when found in the way of righteousness. But when an elder acts with a toxic tongue and negativity, she undermines the very honor God bestowed upon her. Pray that she may act worthily of her age, and that her heart be turned from despair to the hope of Christ. Suicidal thoughts are the lies of the enemy whispered in a moment of darkness. Remind her, even from a distance, that her life is not her own; it belongs to the God who numbered her hairs. The provision you seek for them, both material and spiritual, is in His hands. He knows your finances; He knows the costly flight. Do not let money or distance become another cause for strife. If a reunion is not possible now, trust that God can work repentance across any gap.

Your spouse’s reluctance is a heavy cross, but you cannot force love; you can only model it. Live in such a way that your own household first sees the peace of Christ, and pray that it becomes a silent rebuke to the chaos in your extended family. You are not responsible for their choices, but you are responsible to keep yourself from the poison of anger. The traitor’s kiss was the sign of betrayal; do not let your own peace be betrayed by returning insult for insult.

Take courage from the hope you already hold: that after this brief life, all who are in Christ will be reunited with your father and with the Heavenly Father, where there is no strife or sorrow. Until that day, let your prayer rise like incense. God is rich in mercy, and He is able to restore the years the locusts have eaten. But restoration begins with repentance, both theirs and yours. Examine your own heart for any hardness, any love of being in the right that might add fuel to the fire. Then stand in the gap, pleading the blood of Christ against every satanic lie. The command is not to “rebuke” your family in anger, but to rebuke the enemy’s work through steadfast faith and the Word of God. He who scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts can humble the defiant. Wait on Him, and do not lose heart.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Silas]

The weight of conflict within a family, especially after the loss of a father, can feel like a kind of extermination of peace. The shouting, the betrayal, the grasping for authority, it all creates a desolation of the soul. Yet in this desolation, the promise given to the Philippian jailer still stands: believe in the Lord Jesus, and the horizon of salvation opens, stretching out toward your entire household. This does not mean every warring heart will bend today, but it anchors your hope in a God whose reach is not limited by a plane ticket or an ungrateful attitude.

The fractures you describe are not unfamiliar to our Lord. He knew what it was to have His own family think He was out of His mind, to be rejected in His own town and among His own kin. That sharp sting of alienation from blood relatives, while deeply painful, can become the very place where you discover the reality of a new family. The bond within the body of Christ runs deeper than natural blood ties when those natural ties are severed by strife and unbelief. When your own household is a battlefield, the fellowship of believers becomes a refuge where ties are tighter and love is demonstrated, not just longed for.

You are already taking the most vital step by turning your deep desire into prayer. The longing for your mother’s mind to be healed from suicidal thoughts and a toxic tongue, the ache for your brother’s household, the daily choice to forgive, these are not just sighs; they are the substance of intercession. Forgiveness, as you are practicing it each day, is a releasing of the debt. Human forgiveness so often buries the hatchet but leaves the handle showing. True forgiveness, the kind God extends to you, is a complete blotting out. When you forgive them because they do not know what they are doing, you are mirroring that divine mercy, even as you wait and pray for their repentance.

Regarding your mother, her despair is an urgent, life-threatening hemorrhage of the soul. While a full healing of the mind and emotions may be a gradual process, you are right to pray for immediate protection and provision. Just as one can take emergency measures to save a life, bind up a wound, and stop the bleeding, so your prayers are a tourniquet against the enemy’s lies. Satan will try to accuse a sensitive soul, whispering that there is no hope. But the ministry of discouragement is his scheme, and you are right to rebuke those lies in the name of Jesus Christ. The root of her healing will be the forgiveness of her own sins and the calming of her inner storms, which may come slowly, over time, as God works to restore the scars and wounds within her mind and emotions.

Do not be discouraged by the seemingly insurmountable barriers of distance and finances. The separation of hearts is the real chasm, and that is a frontier where the Spirit of God works without regard for geography. The deepest healing is often not the sudden, visible kind but the subtle, divine process that restores the soul. The greatest miracle God ever works in any life is not the provision of a reunion or the balancing of a bank account, though He cares about these things. The greatest miracle is the forgiveness of sins. That is the eternal issue. Whether the family rift heals gradually or instantly, whether you see it fully mended on this side of heaven, the salvation of souls is the unshakeable anchor. To go into eternity whole in spirit is more vital than any temporary peace we might broker here.

So pray on. Ask for their repentance, yes, and for your own heart to be kept free from the poison of resentment. Pray for their daily needs, knowing that God is rich in mercy. And rest in the truth that even in this painful season, you are bound by a tie that cannot be severed, the tie to Jesus Christ, who was pierced for your peace and theirs. This world is filled with conflict, but into that conflict speaks the gospel of peace.