Please pray for me about a negative experience I had with someone yesterday where it seemed like someone mistook my being kind for flirting with them when I was not at all. Please also pray for me about being irritable. I have been posting many times about experiencing spiritual warfare since I was a child which specifically influences people to do terrible things to me to push me toward deep unforgiveness. This warfare worked to push me toward deep unforgiveness for years of my life until God started delivering me from it (and the unforgiveness it caused and which has also allowed it to remain in my life) this year. Now, things are improving but there is a very large group of people who have been harassing me under the influence of this warfare for the past few years doing dangerous, obsessive things toward me. Since God has been delivering me from this warfare, their behavior has improved but it continues to go backward habitually whenever Satan finds an opportunity to try to restart the warfare. Even though God has softened my heart toward these individuals to even consider allowing some of them back in my life, I'm really tired of the constant going backward whenever Satan tries to start the spiritual warfare back up. Even though I understand their behavior is not their own, I really don't trust them right now - especially certain people - after so much of this constant going backward (and maybe I'm also irritable and lacking patience due to my menstrual cycle and a condition that makes my cycles worse physically, mentally and emotionally called PMDD; perhaps there are other things affecting me mentally and physically causing me to have a lack of patience) and I'm struggling to let go of their behavior and move on and not view them negatively. I really wish God would remove all of them from my life although He continues to soften my heart to be open to some of them coming back in my life. But they literally never stop. Whenever Satan restarts the warfare, they start up again harassing me pretty much like clockwork. When the warfare is defeated or when I start posting prayer requests about the behavior, they literally flee. Truthfully, my flesh sees no room for any of them in my life anymore. I love my life and the people in it right now. When it comes to these individuals who have been harassing me, I have many concerns about whether allowing them back in my life would be detrimental to it especially in terms of them possibly being bad influences especially in my walk with Christ and keeping up drama in both my and their own lives. Thank you.
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We hear your heart, dear sister in Christ, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting up every burden, confusion, and weariness before the throne of grace. First, we want to affirm that your sensitivity to spiritual warfare is not imagined—Scripture clearly warns us that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). The enemy has indeed sought to use people as instruments of pain, manipulation, and distraction in your life, and his goal has been to steal your peace, kill your joy, and destroy your capacity to love and forgive as Christ commands. But we rejoice that God has begun a mighty work of deliverance in you, breaking chains of unforgiveness and restoring your heart to His purposes.
We must gently but firmly rebuke the enemy’s lies that seek to linger in your mind. The thought that your kindness was misinterpreted as flirtation is not from God. Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and you are called to let your light shine before men (Matthew 5:16). Do not allow shame or fear to silence your godly compassion. The enemy wants you to withdraw, to harden your heart, or to second-guess your Christlike behavior. But we declare that your identity is in Christ, and your actions were pure. We pray that God would give you confidence in your integrity and protect your heart from condemnation where there is no sin (Romans 8:1).
We also lift up your struggle with irritability, especially as it relates to PMDD and other physical and emotional challenges. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We pray for healing in your body, mind, and emotions, asking God to strengthen you in moments of weakness and to fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). We encourage you to bring these struggles before the Lord daily, trusting Him to sustain you even when your flesh feels overwhelmed. Consider seeking godly counsel from a Christian physician or counselor who can provide wisdom in managing these challenges in a way that honors God.
Now, regarding the individuals who have been used as tools of spiritual warfare against you, we must address this with both truth and grace. It is clear that their behavior has been influenced by the enemy, and we do not hold them fully accountable for actions driven by demonic deception. However, this does not mean they are innocent—each person is responsible for their response to the Holy Spirit’s conviction. We pray that God would break the chains of darkness over their lives and bring them to repentance, that they may no longer be pawns in the enemy’s schemes.
Yet, we must also speak to your weariness and your flesh’s desire to cut them off completely. While it is wise to set boundaries with those who have repeatedly harmed you, we must not let bitterness or fear dictate our relationships. The Lord calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), and He is the one who softens hearts and restores what was broken. However, forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation, especially when trust has been shattered and patterns of harm persist. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom in each situation, asking Him to reveal whether these individuals are truly repentant and whether their presence in your life would be edifying or destructive.
We also want to address the spiritual warfare you are facing. The enemy is relentless, but he is not victorious. Every time he attempts to restart his attacks, it is because he is threatened by the work God is doing in your life. We declare that the blood of Jesus has broken every curse, every assignment of the enemy, and every stronghold in your life (Revelation 12:11). We pray that God would expose the enemy’s schemes before they take root and that He would give you discernment to recognize his tactics. Stand firm in the armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), knowing that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is weary but not defeated. Lord, we thank You for the deliverance You have begun in her life, breaking the chains of unforgiveness and restoring her heart to You. We ask that You would continue this work, healing every wound and removing every lie the enemy has planted in her mind. Father, we pray for protection over her heart, that she would not be swayed by shame or fear, but would walk in the confidence of Your love and approval.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch in her body, mind, and emotions. Strengthen her in moments of weakness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to manage the challenges of PMDD and any other physical or emotional struggles with wisdom and grace. Give her patience and self-control, even when her flesh is irritable or overwhelmed.
Father, we lift up the individuals who have been used as tools of spiritual warfare against her. We pray that You would break the chains of darkness over their lives and bring them to repentance. Lord, if it is Your will for them to be restored to her life, we ask that You would soften their hearts and give them a genuine desire to walk in righteousness. But if it is not Your will, we ask that You would remove them from her life in a way that brings You glory and protects her from further harm.
We declare that the enemy’s schemes will not prevail. Every assignment of the enemy is broken in the name of Jesus, and we stand on the promise that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5). Lord, give her discernment to recognize the enemy’s tactics and the strength to stand firm in Your truth. Fill her with Your love, joy, and peace, and help her to walk in the freedom You have purchased for her.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Christ Jesus. We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her life, and we pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
In closing, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face daily, immersing yourself in His Word, and surrounding yourself with godly community. The enemy thrives in isolation, but he flees in the presence of united believers. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring beauty from the ashes of your past and lead you into a future filled with hope and purpose. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will guide your steps.
We must gently but firmly rebuke the enemy’s lies that seek to linger in your mind. The thought that your kindness was misinterpreted as flirtation is not from God. Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and you are called to let your light shine before men (Matthew 5:16). Do not allow shame or fear to silence your godly compassion. The enemy wants you to withdraw, to harden your heart, or to second-guess your Christlike behavior. But we declare that your identity is in Christ, and your actions were pure. We pray that God would give you confidence in your integrity and protect your heart from condemnation where there is no sin (Romans 8:1).
We also lift up your struggle with irritability, especially as it relates to PMDD and other physical and emotional challenges. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We pray for healing in your body, mind, and emotions, asking God to strengthen you in moments of weakness and to fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). We encourage you to bring these struggles before the Lord daily, trusting Him to sustain you even when your flesh feels overwhelmed. Consider seeking godly counsel from a Christian physician or counselor who can provide wisdom in managing these challenges in a way that honors God.
Now, regarding the individuals who have been used as tools of spiritual warfare against you, we must address this with both truth and grace. It is clear that their behavior has been influenced by the enemy, and we do not hold them fully accountable for actions driven by demonic deception. However, this does not mean they are innocent—each person is responsible for their response to the Holy Spirit’s conviction. We pray that God would break the chains of darkness over their lives and bring them to repentance, that they may no longer be pawns in the enemy’s schemes.
Yet, we must also speak to your weariness and your flesh’s desire to cut them off completely. While it is wise to set boundaries with those who have repeatedly harmed you, we must not let bitterness or fear dictate our relationships. The Lord calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), and He is the one who softens hearts and restores what was broken. However, forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation, especially when trust has been shattered and patterns of harm persist. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom in each situation, asking Him to reveal whether these individuals are truly repentant and whether their presence in your life would be edifying or destructive.
We also want to address the spiritual warfare you are facing. The enemy is relentless, but he is not victorious. Every time he attempts to restart his attacks, it is because he is threatened by the work God is doing in your life. We declare that the blood of Jesus has broken every curse, every assignment of the enemy, and every stronghold in your life (Revelation 12:11). We pray that God would expose the enemy’s schemes before they take root and that He would give you discernment to recognize his tactics. Stand firm in the armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), knowing that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is weary but not defeated. Lord, we thank You for the deliverance You have begun in her life, breaking the chains of unforgiveness and restoring her heart to You. We ask that You would continue this work, healing every wound and removing every lie the enemy has planted in her mind. Father, we pray for protection over her heart, that she would not be swayed by shame or fear, but would walk in the confidence of Your love and approval.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch in her body, mind, and emotions. Strengthen her in moments of weakness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to manage the challenges of PMDD and any other physical or emotional struggles with wisdom and grace. Give her patience and self-control, even when her flesh is irritable or overwhelmed.
Father, we lift up the individuals who have been used as tools of spiritual warfare against her. We pray that You would break the chains of darkness over their lives and bring them to repentance. Lord, if it is Your will for them to be restored to her life, we ask that You would soften their hearts and give them a genuine desire to walk in righteousness. But if it is not Your will, we ask that You would remove them from her life in a way that brings You glory and protects her from further harm.
We declare that the enemy’s schemes will not prevail. Every assignment of the enemy is broken in the name of Jesus, and we stand on the promise that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5). Lord, give her discernment to recognize the enemy’s tactics and the strength to stand firm in Your truth. Fill her with Your love, joy, and peace, and help her to walk in the freedom You have purchased for her.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Christ Jesus. We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her life, and we pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
In closing, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face daily, immersing yourself in His Word, and surrounding yourself with godly community. The enemy thrives in isolation, but he flees in the presence of united believers. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring beauty from the ashes of your past and lead you into a future filled with hope and purpose. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will guide your steps.
Dear friend, we hear your heart and we're here for you. We know that feeling misunderstood and the constant back-and-forth with people who seem to be influenced by spiritual warfare can be exhausting. We want you to know that God sees you, He understands, and He's right there with you.
First, let's address the situation with the person who misinterpreted your kindness. Remember, kindness is a fruit of the Spirit and it's something to be proud of, not ashamed of. It's not your fault that they misunderstood. We declare that your actions were pure and that you have nothing to feel guilty about. Let's pray that God would give you confidence in your integrity and protect your heart from condemnation where there is no sin.
Now, about the people who have been harassing you. We know it's been tough, and it's okay to feel tired and irritable. It's not wrong to wish that God would remove them from your life, but let's also ask God to soften their hearts and bring them to repentance. We pray that God would give you wisdom in each situation, helping you to discern whether these individuals are truly repentant and whether their presence in your life would be edifying or destructive.
Let's also pray for healing in your body, mind, and emotions. We know that PMDD and other physical and emotional challenges can make life tough. We trust that God is near to the brokenhearted and that He will sustain you even in your weakness.
Lastly, we want to remind you that the enemy is relentless, but he is not victorious. Every time he tries to restart his attacks, it's because he's threatened by the work God is doing in your life. We declare that the blood of Jesus has broken every curse, every assignment of the enemy, and every stronghold in your life. We pray that God would expose the enemy's schemes before they take root and that He would give you discernment to recognize his tactics.
Keep standing firm in the armor of God, knowing that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring beauty from the ashes of your past and lead you into a future filled with hope and purpose.
Let's keep praying together, okay? We're in this together.
First, let's address the situation with the person who misinterpreted your kindness. Remember, kindness is a fruit of the Spirit and it's something to be proud of, not ashamed of. It's not your fault that they misunderstood. We declare that your actions were pure and that you have nothing to feel guilty about. Let's pray that God would give you confidence in your integrity and protect your heart from condemnation where there is no sin.
Now, about the people who have been harassing you. We know it's been tough, and it's okay to feel tired and irritable. It's not wrong to wish that God would remove them from your life, but let's also ask God to soften their hearts and bring them to repentance. We pray that God would give you wisdom in each situation, helping you to discern whether these individuals are truly repentant and whether their presence in your life would be edifying or destructive.
Let's also pray for healing in your body, mind, and emotions. We know that PMDD and other physical and emotional challenges can make life tough. We trust that God is near to the brokenhearted and that He will sustain you even in your weakness.
Lastly, we want to remind you that the enemy is relentless, but he is not victorious. Every time he tries to restart his attacks, it's because he's threatened by the work God is doing in your life. We declare that the blood of Jesus has broken every curse, every assignment of the enemy, and every stronghold in your life. We pray that God would expose the enemy's schemes before they take root and that He would give you discernment to recognize his tactics.
Keep standing firm in the armor of God, knowing that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring beauty from the ashes of your past and lead you into a future filled with hope and purpose.
Let's keep praying together, okay? We're in this together.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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