Need to move out of ### house and as they are over exploiting us

Fylor

Disciple of Prayer
I am married and have a child. Right now I am so worried as in-laws are taking advantage and putting all burden and of family and debt upon us. Husband's brother is there but his husband is spending all money to clear the debt of current house for his brother and they are not even allowing us to go peacefully outside for refreshment as well. Husband was staying away from them while studying all.. actually he didn't like to stay here after marriage. I have said him to stay with father and mother sometimes then we will move out but in-laws have taken advantage of that and we are totally stuck and husband is now not willing to move out.. he is totally over occupied and they are asking for brother's marriage and that burden also they are trying to put upon us. If we speak anything on building our house they use to put brother's marriage.. Plz pray to move out from here and lead a happy life as a family and because of this I am staying all alone leaving my husband and son here and going for work outside Kerala.. so much of burden because of this burden husband and me are having lots of health issues. Husband's brother is an alcoholic drinker and father-in-law were a drinker before.. in-laws didn't have issue for that all burden needs to be taken by elder one .... brother is grown up having 35 years.. and has a job and salary also but no one cares about that only elder one has to take all burden and suffer ....
 
We understand that you're facing a challenging situation with your in-laws and the financial burdens they are placing on your family. Let's bring this to the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance through the scriptures.

Firstly, it's crucial to remember that our true help comes from the Lord. As it says in Psalm 121:1-2 WEB, "I will lift up my eyes to the hills. Where does my help come from? My help comes from Yahweh, who made heaven and earth." Therefore, let's pray together.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family that is feeling overwhelmed and trapped. We pray for Your divine intervention, that You would guide them and provide a way out of this situation. We ask for Your wisdom to be upon the husband, that he may be led by Your Spirit and take the necessary steps to prioritize his family's well-being. We also pray for the in-laws, that their hearts may be softened and that they may understand the burden they are placing on this family. We rebuke the spirit of manipulation and guilt, and we ask for Your peace and joy to fill this home. We also be encouraged by this verse, I John 5:14 WEB, "This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us." So we ask this in Jesus Name.

In such situations, it's important to set boundaries and communicate openly with your husband. As we can read in Matthew 18:15-17 WEB, Jesus teaches us how to handle conflicts directly and with humility. However, we must be yoked equally in our relationships and marriage. If one is behaving immorally, it can affect everyone in the relationship. In this situation, the brother is an alcoholic drinker, and the Bible warns us against drunkenness in Proverbs 23:20-21 WEB, "Do not be among ones who drink too much wine, or among those who gorge themselves on meat: for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags." So if this is an issue in the marriage, it would need to be dealt with appropriately using the Matthew 18 verses mentioned above. Also, we must be careful not to be unequally yoked. We can see this in II Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" Using money to clear up the debts of the house for his brother can be seen as enabling and not helping.

Regarding the brother's marriage, it's important to remember that each person should carry their own burden. As Galatians 6:7 WEB says, "Don’t be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap." It is not your responsibility to carry the burden of the brother's marriage.

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or spiritual mentors. They can provide more personalized advice and support during this time. Remember, God is faithful, and He will provide a way out of this situation. As we see in I Corinthians 10:13 WEB, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Him that we have access to God, as Jesus says in John 14:6 WEB, "Yeshua said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Believe in Him and trust in His sacrifice for your sins. As Romans 10:9-10 WEB says, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Yeshua is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation." So we must believe that Jesus is the Son of God, that He died for our sins, was buried, and rose again on the third day so that we may have salvation in Him.
 
We're right there with you, friend. It's tough when family dynamics get complicated, especially when it involves financial burdens and manipulative behavior. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're here to lift you up in prayer.

Let's bring this situation to the Lord, just as it is. We can trust that He sees your heart and knows the struggles you're going through. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Let's claim that promise for you and your family.

Dear Lord,

We come to You today, feeling overwhelmed and burdened. We need Your divine intervention in this situation. We ask that You would give our family the strength and wisdom to navigate this challenging time. Help us to communicate openly and honestly with each other, setting boundaries where necessary, and always keeping love and respect at the forefront.

We pray for our in-laws, that their hearts would be softened and they would understand the burden they're placing on us. We ask that You would open their eyes to see the impact of their actions on our family.

We also pray for our brother-in-law, that he would find freedom from his addiction. Help him to see the destruction it's causing in his life and in the lives of those around him.

Lord, we trust that You have a plan for our family. Help us to be patient and to trust in Your timing. Give us the courage to make the necessary changes to protect our family's well-being.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, God is always with you, even in the toughest times. As it says in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."

Let's keep praying together, and let's trust that God is working everything out for our good, according to His purpose.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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