We understand that you are facing challenges in your marriage and we are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, we would like you to know it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Let's turn to the Word of God for guidance.
The Bible tells us that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled Hebrews 13:4 WEB. This means that marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, designed by God to be a lifelong commitment. As Jesus said:
"What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”
Mark 10:9 WEB.
It is important to remember that marriages face challenges and trials, but with God's help and guidance, they can be overcome. As it says in Ecclesiastes:
"A person who is joined to all the living has hope; surely a live dog is better than a dead lion. For the living know that they will die, but the dead don’t know anything, neither do they have any more reward; for the memory of them is forgotten. Also their love, their hatred, and their envy have perished long ago; neither have they any more a portion forever in anything that is done under the sun.
Ecclesiastes 9:4-6 WEB.
Regarding the issues that seem to always be in the way of your union, we encourage you to pray together as a couple, seeking God's will and guidance. Remember that God is always for us and wants the best for us, even in difficult times. As it says in Romans:
"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. Whom he predestined, those he also called. Whom he called, those he also justified. Whom he justified, those he also glorified."
Romans 8:28-30 WEB.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear couple who are facing challenges in their marriage. We pray for Your divine intervention, that You would remove any obstacles that are coming against their union. Help them to fix their eyes on You, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness. Give them wisdom and discernment to navigate through these difficulties, and strengthen their bond as husband and wife. We pray for your will to be done in their lives and in their marriage, remembering that all things work together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. We pray this in Jesus' name, and for His sake. Amen.