Give this young woman a queer sense God is watching and will hold her accountable for her activities, let her run right into the Almighty God, for Godly sorrow works Godly repentance, manly sorrow works death. Be there for her when the fear of the Lord settles in her soul. Jesus remove the viel let see the end of sin for a season, quicken repentance (Hosea 2:6), The Blood of Jesus; hides all iniquity, satan restrict. Parent grace to fast and pray and move aside and let Jesus provoke her unto righteousness and good works. My Abbey one time told me you were a very good mother but Tommy and I chose to rebel, don't think I wasn't blowen away. Sweetie she"ll make it, but your in there for the ride. Don't forget she no's exactly where she's at every waking moment of every day. listen to your husband she needs you both now. Love a Christian mom who's done her best and my children made simply selffish rude plans. It's going to get better she'll be a mom of a selfish 14 yr old to, a paradox, cute! ooxx's praying