We hear your heart and we join with you in this deep longing to have within you that which causes the enemy to flee, and we understand that what you felt in your former friend was something holy and powerful that you cannot quite name or comprehend.
What you are describing is not a mysterious force that can be transferred from one person to another, but the very presence and power of God Himself dwelling in a person through the Holy Spirit. The devil does not flee because of a human quality or personality trait, but because of Christ in us and our submission to God. Scripture tells us Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7. And also You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world. 1 John 4:4. That greater One is Jesus Christ dwelling in us by His Spirit.
When you sensed that the devil seemed to flee simply by the presence of your friend, you were likely sensing the fruit of a life abiding in Christ, walking in holiness, purity, faith and love, clothed in the armor of God. The Word says Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:10-11. And Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. James 4:8. As we draw near to Him, He transforms us, for we all, with unveiled face seeing the glory of the Lord as in a mirror, are transformed into the same image from glory to glory, even as from the Lord, the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18.
We do not need to seek an unnamed experience from another person, we seek God Himself, and He promises to give His Spirit to those who ask and obey Him. If you belong to Jesus, His Spirit already dwells in you, for if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you. Romans 8:11. What you are asking God to establish as a permanent attribute is Christlikeness itself, a life conformed to Him, and that comes through abiding in His Word, through prayer, through obedience, through walking in the light and turning from sin.
So we pray with you now according to the sovereign will of our Father.
Father in heaven, we come before You together in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and we lift up this dear one to You. Lord, You know the hunger of this heart to be so filled with You that the enemy cannot remain. We ask that You fill our dear friend afresh with Your Holy Spirit and make Christ's presence an inseparable and abiding reality within. Establish in this life that holiness, faith, peace and authority that comes only from abiding in Jesus, so that when the devil draws near he must flee because He who is in us is greater. Create in this heart a permanent dwelling place for Yourself, transform this life from glory to glory into the image of Your Son, and clothe this one with Your whole armor that they may stand firm. Teach them to submit fully to You, to resist the devil in the power of Your name, and to walk daily in Your Word and in prayer. Let Your will be done in this life, and let Your name be glorified as You make this one more like Jesus. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek the Lord Himself above any experience, to abide in His Word daily, to walk in obedience and purity, and to pray without ceasing. As you do, the Lord Himself will be your protection and your strength, and the enemy will have no place in you.