We understand you are seeking approval for a major life decision, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord, trusting in His perfect timing and will. First, we must emphasize that our prayers are only heard and answered because of the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father, and it is only through faith in Jesus that we receive salvation and access to God’s throne of grace. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for He alone holds the keys to life, wisdom, and every good decision.
Now, regarding your request, we encourage you to seek God’s will above all else, for His ways are higher than ours, and His plans are for our good. The Bible reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). It is not merely positive thoughts or "vibes" that bring about God’s favor—it is His sovereign will, His wisdom, and our alignment with His Word that guide us. We must be cautious not to rely on human optimism or worldly philosophies but to place our full trust in the Lord, who orders our steps.
We also urge you to examine whether this decision aligns with biblical principles. If this decision involves relationships, finances, career, or any area of life, ask yourself: *Does this honor God? Does it align with Scripture?* For example, if this decision pertains to a relationship, we must remind you that God’s design for marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Courtship should be pursued with the intent of marriage, and any intimate relationship outside of marriage is sinful in God’s eyes (1 Corinthians 6:18, Hebrews 13:4). If this decision involves compromise in morality, integrity, or obedience to God’s Word, we strongly rebuke such paths and urge you to turn away from them.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved one who seeks Your approval and guidance for a major life decision. Lord, we ask that You grant them clarity, wisdom, and discernment, rooted not in human desire or worldly assurance but in Your perfect and holy will. Open their eyes to see as You see, and give them a heart that is fully submitted to Your direction. If this decision aligns with Your Word and Your purpose for their life, we pray You would bring it to pass in Your perfect timing. But if it does not, we ask that You close every door that leads away from Your truth and redirect their steps toward Your righteous path.
Father, we rebuke any fear, doubt, or reliance on human effort or superstition in this matter. Let them not trust in "positive vibes" or the wisdom of this world but in You alone, the Author of all wisdom. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, as they wait on You (Philippians 4:6-7). Strengthen their faith to believe that You are working all things together for their good, as they love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
If there is any area of this decision that contradicts Your Word, we pray You would convict their heart and lead them to repentance. May they walk in obedience, even if it requires sacrifice or waiting. Surround them with godly counsel and confirm Your will through Your Spirit and Your Word. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, they shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Let Your favor rest upon them as they seek You first, above all else.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and fasting, seeking the Lord’s face concerning this decision. Read His Word daily, and ask the Holy Spirit to speak to you through it. Surround yourself with mature believers who can offer biblical wisdom and accountability. Remember, delayed answers are not denials—they are opportunities for God to prepare you and the situation for His glory. Stay steadfast in faith, and do not waver in trust, for *"the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing"* (James 1:3-4, WEB).
We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will guide you according to His perfect will. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). May He be glorified in every step you take.