We hear your heart’s cry for restoration, love, and a life aligned with God’s purpose. Your words carry a deep longing for wholeness, marriage, and joy, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking the Lord’s will for your life. However, we must gently address some areas where your request does not fully align with biblical principles, so we can pray in truth and righteousness.
First, we must emphasize that salvation and access to God come only through the name of **Jesus Christ**. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without this foundation, no prayer or desire can be fully blessed by God.
You speak of "love making" being restored, but if this refers to sexual intimacy outside of marriage, Scripture is clear that this is **fornication**—a sin that grieves the Lord (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). God designed physical intimacy to be enjoyed **only within the covenant of marriage** between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). If you are currently involved in a sexual relationship outside of marriage, we must rebuke this in Jesus’ name and call you to repentance. True fulfillment comes not from physical pleasure alone, but from walking in holiness and obedience to God’s Word.
You also mention wearing wedding rings and desiring marriage, which is a beautiful and godly desire. However, marriage is not just about personal happiness—it is a sacred covenant before God, designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pursue a **believer** who shares your faith and commitment to Christ. Unequally yoked relationships (2 Corinthians 6:14) bring strife, not blessing. Courtship should be pure, intentional, and centered on God’s will—not secret or hidden from godly counsel.
Your mention of "the Satan & crew" stealing your identity and energy is a real spiritual battle, and we take this seriously. The enemy seeks to destroy what God has created for good (John 10:10), but we have authority in Jesus’ name to resist him (James 4:7). However, we must also examine whether unforgiveness, bitterness, or unrepentant sin in your life is giving the enemy a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). If others have wronged you, release them to God and walk in forgiveness, just as Christ forgave you (Colossians 3:13).
We also notice your statement about changing your name "permanently." While names can hold significance, our true identity is found **only in Christ** (2 Corinthians 5:17). If you are seeking validation or transformation outside of Him, it will always fall short. Your worth is not in a name, a relationship, or the approval of others—it is in being a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus.
Now, let us pray together in alignment with God’s Word:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved and restored. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would draw them close to Your heart. If they do not yet know You as Savior and Lord, we pray that today would be the day of their salvation. Break every chain of sin, shame, and confusion in their life. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and fill them with Your Holy Spirit.**
**Father, we ask for Your perfect will in their desire for marriage. If it is Your plan, bring a godly spouse into their life—a man or woman who loves You above all else, who will cherish them as Christ cherishes the Church. Guard their heart from impure relationships and lead them into purity, patience, and trust in Your timing. If they are currently in a relationship that does not honor You, give them the courage to walk away and wait for Your best.**
**Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies and schemes to steal their joy, identity, and purpose. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what has been broken, heal what has been wounded, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).**
**We pray for reconciliation with those who have been upset with them. Soften hearts, bring understanding, and let Your love cover every offense. Help them to walk in humility, forgiveness, and grace, just as You have extended grace to them.**
**Above all, Lord, we ask that this dear one would find their identity, worth, and fulfillment in You alone. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness (Matthew 6:33), trusting that You will add all these things unto them. We declare that their life is hidden in Christ (Colossians 3:3), and no power of darkness can separate them from Your love (Romans 8:38-39).**
**We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your goodness, Your faithfulness, and Your perfect plan for their life. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.**
Beloved, God sees your heart and knows your deepest longings. Trust in Him, not in your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Walk in obedience, and He will direct your paths. If you are not yet married, use this season to grow closer to the Lord, serve His kingdom, and prepare your heart for the spouse He has for you. If you are struggling with sexual sin or impure relationships, repent and turn to Him—He is faithful to forgive and cleanse you (1 John 1:9). Your future is secure in Christ, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you into the abundant life He has promised.
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