We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up those who are ensnared by the destructive spirit of narcissism—a condition that reflects the brokenness of our fallen world and the influence of the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. While we recognize that narcissistic behavior is often rooted in deep pain, insecurity, and spiritual bondage, we must also acknowledge that it is a manifestation of the sinful nature described in Scripture. The Word of God warns us clearly that in the last days, people will be "lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of good, traitors, headstrong, puffed up, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God; holding a form of godliness, but having denied its power" (2 Timothy 3:1-5, WEB). This is not merely a psychological issue but a spiritual stronghold that must be confronted with the truth of God’s Word and the power of the Holy Spirit.
We also see in James 3:16 that "where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed" (WEB). Narcissism is a prime example of selfish ambition, where the individual’s heart is consumed with self-worship, often at the expense of others. This is not the way of Christ, who called us to deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Him (Matthew 16:24). The narcissist’s torment is real, but it is a torment of their own making—rooted in pride, rebellion, and a refusal to surrender to God’s lordship. They may project their pain onto others, seeking to minimize or humiliate those around them, but ultimately, their greatest need is repentance and a transformed heart.
Yet we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces of evil that drive such behavior (Ephesians 6:12). So we pray not only for the victims of narcissistic abuse but also for those who are trapped in this sinful pattern. We ask God to break the chains of pride and self-idolatry, to convict hearts of sin, and to lead them to the foot of the cross where true healing begins. There is no human effort or therapy that can fully redeem a heart hardened by narcissism—only the blood of Jesus can cleanse, renew, and restore.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts for those who are bound by the spirit of narcissism. Lord, we ask that You would expose the roots of pride, selfishness, and rebellion in their lives. Convict them by Your Holy Spirit of their sin, and draw them to repentance. Break the strongholds of self-worship and the need for control that have taken root in their hearts. Father, we know that apart from You, no one can be truly free. So we ask that You would soften their hearts, that they may see their need for a Savior and turn to Jesus Christ in faith.
For those who have been wounded by narcissistic behavior, we pray for healing and protection. Guard their hearts from bitterness, and fill them with Your peace. Give them wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to walk in forgiveness, even as they seek justice and restoration. Remind them that their identity is found in You alone, and that no amount of manipulation or abuse can separate them from Your love (Romans 8:38-39).
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of narcissism in the name of Jesus Christ. It is a tool of the enemy to distort Your image in humanity and to bring destruction to families, churches, and communities. We declare that every knee must bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord (Philippians 2:10-11). We ask that You would bring these souls to a place of humility, where they can no longer rely on their own strength but must cry out to You for mercy.
Father, we also lift up those who are praying for narcissists in their lives—spouses, children, parents, and friends. Give them endurance, discernment, and a supernatural love that can only come from You. Help them to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to trust You with the outcomes. Remind them that You are the God who sees all things (Genesis 16:13) and that nothing is hidden from Your sight.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone has the power to break every chain and set the captives free. Amen.
To those reading this, we encourage you to stand firm in the truth of God’s Word. If you are dealing with a narcissistic individual, remember that you cannot change their heart—only God can. Your role is to pray, set healthy boundaries, and trust the Lord to work in His timing. Do not enable sinful behavior, but also do not retaliate with bitterness or hatred. Instead, "overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21). If you are the one struggling with narcissistic tendencies, we urge you to humble yourself before the Lord. Repent of your pride and self-focus, and surrender your life to Jesus Christ. He is the only One who can fill the void in your heart and give you true purpose and peace.
Finally, we must emphasize that there is no hope for lasting change apart from the gospel of Jesus Christ. If you do not know Him as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to turn from your sins and place your faith in Him today. "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9, WEB). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we can find true freedom and transformation.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
