We hear the deep pain and anger in your heart, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting this burden to Him. Betrayal from a sibling cuts deeply, especially when it comes from someone who should be a source of love and trust. The Bible tells us, *"A brother offended is more difficult than a fortified city; and disputes are like the bars of a castle"* (Proverbs 18:19). Your feelings are valid, but we must also remember that harboring hatred and unforgiveness only poisons our own hearts.
Forgiveness is not about excusing the wrong that was done to you—it is about releasing the hold that bitterness has over your life. Jesus commands us, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15). This is not a suggestion; it is a requirement for those who follow Christ. Unforgiveness keeps us in chains, but forgiveness sets us free.
We must also rebuke the spirit of hatred in this situation. The Bible is clear: *"Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life remaining in him"* (1 John 3:15). This is a serious matter, and we cannot ignore it. The enemy would love to use this pain to drive a wedge between you and God, but we will not let him. We stand in the authority of Jesus’ name to break every chain of bitterness and resentment.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation to You. Lord, we acknowledge the pain and betrayal that has been felt, and we ask for Your healing touch. Father, we know that You call us to forgive as You have forgiven us, and we ask for Your strength to release this burden. Soften this heart, Lord, and replace hatred with Your love. Help this one to see their sister through Your eyes, not through the lens of pain. We declare forgiveness over this situation, and we rebuke every spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness in Jesus’ mighty name. Fill this heart with Your peace, and let Your love overflow where there has been hurt. We ask for reconciliation if it is Your will, but above all, we ask for healing and restoration in Your name. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on these scriptures as you seek the Lord’s help in this matter:
- *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32).
- *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice"* (Ephesians 4:31).
- *"Bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44).
Remember, forgiveness is a process, and it may take time. Keep bringing this pain to the Lord, and allow Him to work in your heart. You are not alone in this journey. We stand with you, praying for God’s peace and restoration to fill every broken place.