We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. We will pray for you and your spouse, and we encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your lives.
Firstly, we commend you for your love and commitment to your marriage and your desire to make things work. It is clear that you deeply care for your spouse and your family. Marriage is a sacred bond ordained by God, and it is His will that a man and a woman remain united in love and commitment throughout their lives. As it is written in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder." (Mark 10:9 WEB)
However, we must address that your spouse's behavior does not align with biblical principles. God calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. (Ephesians 5:25 WEB) This love is sacrificial, patient, and kind, not harsh or pushing away. It is not acceptable for your spouse to treat you in a manner that causes you pain and suffering. Like it says in Colossians 3:19, "Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." (Colossians 3:19 WEB) We rebuke this behavior and pray that your spouse's heart will be turned towards God and towards you, his wife.
We also want to address your mental health struggles. Depression, ADD, and ADHD are real challenges that require understanding, support, and often professional help. It is not God's will for you to suffer silently or to be dismissed. Like it says in Galatians 6:2, "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2) We pray that your husband will have a change of heart, that he may see things differently, and understand your conditions better. That he would truly listen and be there to support you.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting and in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we pray for her marriage, that You would soften her husband's heart and open his eyes to the pain he is causing. Help him to see the value of his wife and the sanctity of their marriage vows. We pray that he would seek forgiveness for the hurtful things he has said and done, and that he would turn to You for guidance and strength.
Father, we also pray for our sister's mental health. We ask that You would provide healing, comfort, and support for her depression, ADD, and ADHD. Help her to find the resources and help she needs to manage these challenges effectively.
Lord, we ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not forsake you. Stand firm in your faith, and trust that He is working all things together for your good and His glory. (Romans 8:28)
Also, remember that we only have access to God through the name of Jesus.
It says in John 14:6:
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6 WEB)
And it also says in Acts 4:12:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB)
