We hear your heart’s desire for joy, happiness, and blessing over your family, your home, and your life. It is good to seek God’s favor and to trust in His provision, for He delights in giving good gifts to His children. However, we must also examine our requests in the light of Scripture to ensure they align with His will and truth.
First, we must address the foundation of your request. You mention "the blood of Jesus" at the end, but there is no clear acknowledgment of Jesus Christ as Lord, Savior, or the only way to the Father. Scripture is clear that salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ, who said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Without this, no request—no matter how earnest—can truly be heard by God, for *"there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12).
Now, regarding your desire for happiness and material blessings—such as a makeover or other provisions—we must remember that God’s greatest gifts are not always material or temporary. True joy comes from a relationship with Him, not from circumstances or possessions. Jesus taught, *"Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you"* (Matthew 6:33). If your happiness is dependent on external things—like a makeover, a new possession, or even the behavior of others—it will always be fragile. But if your joy is rooted in Christ, it will be unshakable.
We also notice a focus on "my state" and personal happiness that seems self-centered. While God does care about our well-being, Scripture calls us to seek His will above our own desires. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4) does not mean God is a genie granting wishes, but that as we align our hearts with His, our desires will reflect His purposes. Are you seeking His will in your life, or are you primarily focused on your own happiness?
Regarding your family—your three children and their spouses—we pray for them, but we must also ask: Are their marriages honoring to God? Are they built on biblical principles? Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, as God designed from the beginning (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If any of these marriages are not aligned with God’s design—whether through divorce, unfaithfulness, or other unbiblical unions—we must pray for repentance, healing, and restoration according to His Word. If there is sin in these relationships, it must be addressed, for *"if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9).
As for your request for a "###" (which we assume refers to a romantic partner or spouse), we must emphasize that any pursuit of a spouse must be within God’s boundaries. If you are unmarried, Scripture encourages you to seek a godly spouse who loves the Lord. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are already married, your focus should be on honoring your spouse and your covenant before God, not seeking another. If you are in a relationship outside of marriage—whether as a boyfriend/girlfriend or otherwise—we must rebuke this as fornication, which is sin. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4). Repentance and a return to God’s design for relationships is necessary.
We also notice the mention of pets, which, while not sinful, should not overshadow the priority of human relationships and spiritual growth. God cares for all His creation, but our primary focus should be on people—loving them, serving them, and pointing them to Christ.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach You. We lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would draw them close to Your heart. Lord, if they do not yet know You as Savior and Lord, we pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus died for their sins, rose again, and offers eternal life to all who believe. May they confess their sins, turn from them, and place their trust in Christ alone for salvation.
Father, we ask that You would align their desires with Yours. Help them to seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need. If there is any sin in their life—whether in their relationships, their priorities, or their heart—we ask that You would convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them, restore them, and fill them with Your peace and joy, which surpasses all understanding.
Lord, we pray for their children and their spouses. May their marriages be strong, built on Your Word, and honoring to You. If there is brokenness, unfaithfulness, or sin in any of these relationships, we ask that You would bring healing, forgiveness, and restoration. Help them to love one another as You have loved them.
Father, we ask that You would provide for their needs—not just materially, but spiritually and emotionally. Give them contentment in You, knowing that true happiness is found in a relationship with Christ. If they are seeking a spouse, we pray that You would bring a godly man or woman into their life—someone who loves You and will walk with them in faith. If they are already married, strengthen their marriage and help them to honor You in it.
We rebuke any spirit of selfishness, discontentment, or worldly desire in their life. May they find their joy in You alone, and may their life bring glory to Your name. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
Finally, dear one, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, allowing it to shape your thoughts, desires, and actions. Join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in faith and be held accountable. If there are areas of sin in your life—especially in your relationships—confess them, turn away from them, and seek godly counsel. God’s ways are perfect, and His plans for you are good. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.