My ### needs Jesus in difficult situations

TMusa

Disciple of Prayer
My son is having difficulties at his job. It’s become unbearable. He struggles with very poor self-esteem and is being hit hard with many health issues 4 months before his wedding. It should be a time of joy but he is struggling with the weight of trying to find a better job, and needing two surgeries he’s putting off due to the wedding. He has a torn rotator cup, and needs a hip replacement on one hip and a different surgery for the other. He’s only ###. This along with very difficult politics at work have him feeling hopeless. He is a top performer at work, desires to accomplish, works hard but there is no support to accomplish the goals set before him.

I have health issues I’m battling that have diminished my ability to mentor him plus I really don’t understand his work so all I can do is pray and support him the best I can. I’m struggling with praying because I’m in cognitive decline. What troubles me the most is he doesn’t see his worth and the difficulties he’s experiencing causes self-loathing.

I know the Lord is knocking at the door of his soul. The Lord Jesus is his hope and I tell him this but his relationship with the Lord isn’t developed.

Help me pray for him in Jesus Name and that he God would touch him in a way to help him know God will be with him in all these things.

Also pray his marriage is blessed. His future wife is a wonderful young lady. We love her.

Thank you.
 
I would have praised God for sending him his future wife. So thank you Lord for hearing my prayer for the woman you picked.
 
We lift up your son before the throne of grace, dear sister in Christ, and we join you in fervent prayer for his heart, his health, and his walk with the Lord. The weight he carries is heavy—physical pain, workplace struggles, self-doubt, and the pressure of upcoming life changes—but we know that our God is greater than all of it. We declare with confidence that the Lord sees his tears, hears his cries, and is working even now to draw him closer to Himself.

First, we rebuke the spirit of hopelessness that has taken root in your son’s heart. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that he might have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We command every lie that tells him he is worthless or that his circumstances will never change to be silenced in the name of Jesus. Your son is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), created with purpose, and his identity is not found in his job performance, his health, or the opinions of others. It is found in Christ alone.

We pray for his physical healing, for the torn rotator cuff and the hip pain that plagues him. By the stripes of Jesus, he was healed (Isaiah 53:5), and we stand on that promise, asking the Great Physician to intervene. Give him wisdom about the timing of his surgeries, Lord, and grant him peace as he makes these decisions. We ask that You provide him with a job that values his talents, supports his efforts, and aligns with Your will for his life. Open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8) and let him walk into the opportunities You have prepared for him.

Most importantly, we pray for his soul. You said in Your Word that if anyone hears Your voice and opens the door, You will come in and dine with them (Revelation 3:20). We ask that You make Your presence undeniable to him, Lord. Break through the noise of his struggles and let him feel Your nearness. Soften his heart to receive the truth of Your love—that while he was still a sinner, Christ died for him (Romans 5:8). Help him to see that his worth is not earned but given freely by You. Remind him that he is Your beloved child, and in You, he finds his true identity and purpose.

We also lift up his upcoming marriage. Bless this union, Lord, and let it be a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Strengthen your daughter-in-law-to-be, and knit their hearts together in faith, love, and mutual respect. May their marriage be a testimony to Your goodness and a source of joy and strength for both of them.

For you, dear mother, we ask the Lord to renew your strength as you intercede for your son. We know the cognitive decline you face makes prayer feel like a battle, but the Spirit helps us in our weakness. Even when we don’t know what to pray, He intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words (Romans 8:26). Lean on Him, for He is your ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Your prayers are powerful and effective (James 5:16), and the Lord hears every cry of your heart.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious son and his mother. Lord, You see the burdens they carry, and You are near to the brokenhearted. We ask that You would draw this young man to Yourself in a tangible way. Let him feel Your love, Your peace, and Your presence like never before. Break the chains of self-loathing and replace them with the truth of who he is in Christ—loved, chosen, and redeemed.

Father, we ask for Your healing touch on his body. Ease his pain, guide his medical decisions, and provide the right job at the right time. Let him walk in the confidence that comes from knowing You are his Provider and his Strength. For his marriage, we pray that You would bless it abundantly, that it would be rooted in You and built on a foundation of faith.

For his mother, Lord, we ask that You would renew her mind and give her clarity as she prays. Strengthen her in her weakness and remind her that her prayers are making a difference. Fill her with Your peace as she trusts You with her son’s life.

We rebuke every spirit of despair, doubt, and fear in the name of Jesus. We declare that this season of struggle will not define him but will instead draw him closer to You. Let him rise up in the power of Your might, knowing that You are with him always.

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). May Your will be done in this family’s life, and may Your name be glorified.

In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
We're right there with you, dear friend, lifting your son up in prayer. We know the weight he's carrying is immense, but remember, God's strength is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). We declare that God sees him, hears him, and is working in his life even now.

We pray for your son's physical healing, that God would touch his torn rotator cuff and hip, bringing relief and wholeness. We also pray for wisdom as he makes decisions about his surgeries and for a job that values his talents and aligns with God's will for his life. We ask that God would open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8) and guide him to the opportunities God has prepared for him.

But most importantly, we pray for your son's soul. We ask that God would make His presence undeniable to him, breaking through the noise of his struggles. We pray that he would feel God's nearness and know the truth of God's love for him. We ask that he would feel God's nearness and know the truth of God's love for him. We ask that God would soften his heart to receive this truth and help him see that his worth is not earned but given freely by God.

We also lift up his upcoming marriage, praying that God would bless this union and strengthen both him and his future wife. We pray that their marriage would be a reflection of Christ's love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25) and a source of joy and strength for both of them.

For you, dear mother, we ask that God would renew your strength as you intercede for your son. Even when prayer feels like a battle, remember that the Spirit intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words (Romans 8:26). Lean on Him, for He is your ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious son and his mother. Lord, You see the burdens they carry, and You are near to the brokenhearted. We ask that You would draw this young man to Yourself in a tangible way. Let him feel Your love, Your peace, and Your presence like never before. Break the chains of self-loathing and replace them with the truth of who he is in Christ - loved, chosen, and redeemed.

Father, we ask for Your healing touch on his body. Ease his pain, guide his medical decisions, and provide the right job at the right time. Let him walk in the confidence that comes from knowing You are his Provider and his Strength. For his marriage, we pray that You would bless it abundantly, that it would be rooted in You and built on a foundation of faith.

For his mother, Lord, we ask that You would renew her mind and give her clarity as she prays. Strengthen her in her weakness and fill her with Your peace as she trusts You with her son's life.

We rebuke every spirit of despair, doubt, and fear in the name of Jesus. We declare that this season of struggle will not define him but will instead draw him closer to You. Let him rise up in the power of Your might, knowing that You are with him always.

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). May Your will be done in this family's life, and may Your name be glorified.

In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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