My mother running again after my brother

Very possible Steven. But I also noticed that my extended family likes him more. Like he is so fun and great. He is very interesting person, knows many things like encyclopedia, jokes, always has an answer, very self confident and pretty much self sufficient. I live him very much but it seems like he is not any more the person I knew, or is it also that I have changed and I do not tolerate every nasty charming thing he does. He has hurt us alot with neglecting and similar but my mother and father seem to forgive him every time even when they are very mad at him they forgive and forget and continue to spoil him which his for his destruction. When we were cca 10 my cousine said to me, you are beautiful but your brother is something special. He was even a model for one year. He looks good. He got a job that is twice as much better payed then mine in the firm where my father has worked so he didn't go through afflictions like I have till I got a job that is steddy/regular but I don't like it and my brother loves his job. He traveled around the world while me I had only frustration (my father couldn't find a job for me in his company). I feel stuck in the school. For 18 years nobody invited me to travel to Germany and France which is very needed for my occupation of a teacher of French and German. Like everything went well for him except his wife was horrible and now they are separated.
Yeah when my sister had ungodly beliefs, everything went well for her too, and she"surpassed" me in worldly success. I think that this is the devil misleading them by letting them think that their ungodly way is right, and by having{worldly}success,and us running into obstacles, makes them feel "right" in their ungodly ways{.In other words, it keeps them misled.}So in these circumstances, my situation isn't that different than yours.
 
Praying with and for you in Jesus.

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 
Yeah when my sister had ungodly beliefs, everything went well for her too, and she"surpassed" me in worldly success. I think that this is the devil misleading them by letting them think that their ungodly way is right, and by having{worldly}success,and us running into obstacles, makes them feel "right" in their ungodly ways{.In other words, it keeps them misled.}So in these circumstances, my situation isn't that different than yours.

Thanks for another perspective . It really helps. I felt obviously low self esteem subconsciously all these years because of that situation with my brother. I see it now clearly. If you can see it you can heal.it. I heard someone said. It really helps to open up and get answers and help.like this. It is huge. Thank you brother Steven !!
 
Thanks for another perspective . It really helps. I felt obviously low self esteem subconsciously all these years because of that situation with my brother. I see it now clearly. If you can see it you can heal.it. I heard someone said. It really helps to open up and get answers and help.like this. It is huge. Thank you brother Steven !!
Remember, the devil is a master of deception.Not everything is the way it appears.Although a person with an ungodly approach may appear to be "surpassing" us, remember this question from the Bible,"What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world but loses his soul?"
 
Remember, the devil is a master of deception.Not everything is the way it appears.Although a person with an ungodly approach may appear to be "surpassing" us, remember this question from the Bible,"What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world but loses his soul?"

Amen. Thanks Steven. Your experience with your sister greatly helped me. Also I remembered that someone told me the word of prophecy that I AM A FAVORED of the Lord and I said, ok, we are all favored of the Lord, but this person said, BUT I PUT AN EMPHASIS ON THIS, YOU ARE REALLY REALLY FAVORED OF THE LORD IN THE FULL SENSE OF THAT WORD. And I know that God gave me many (also spiritual ) gifts so that I can consider myself the favored of the Lord although this means nothing to the person that is not saved or even the person who is religious and not in faith. You helped me to remember this prophecy when you mentioned that we are FAVORED of the Lord.
Only the power of the Holy spirit can save Him.
 
Amen. Thanks Steven. Your experience with your sister greatly helped me. Also I remembered that someone told me the word of prophecy that I AM A FAVORED of the Lord and I said, ok, we are all favored of the Lord, but this person said, BUT I PUT AN EMPHASIS ON THIS, YOU ARE REALLY REALLY FAVORED OF THE LORD IN THE FULL SENSE OF THAT WORD. And I know that God gave me many (also spiritual ) gifts so that I can consider myself the favored of the Lord although this means nothing to the person that is not saved or even the person who is religious and not in faith. You helped me to remember this prophecy when you mentioned that we are FAVORED of the Lord.
Only the power of the Holy spirit can save Him.
The rich man and Lazarus is an example. "He {the rich man} lifted up his eyes, he being in torment,and saw Lazarus afar off, and said, father Abraham, please send Lazarus to give me water that I might cool my tongue in these flames".But Abraham said,"Son, remember that you in your lifetime received your good, and Lazarus the injurious things.Now he is being comforted and you are being tormented."
 
Please pray that my mother will stop preferentially treat my brother when he really doesn't deserve it. He has no time to help (I don't have time and then he hang up the phone!) her but she calls me to help her and I do it. And today again she is sending my old father to send him food (excuse is the food will rotten and it is for her grandchildren) and he chases him again instead of telling him if you want food come to pick it up. If he has time for his choir and night clubs then he should have time to.pick up the food and show more respect. My mother is like dumb in these things. I see now that she has spoiled him because he values himself and his time more then anything else. And he disappoints us every time we expect him for a family meeting. I told her that she is doing wrong again but she doesn't want to listen to me. She is guilty that he acts towards us so diminishing, neglecting and unloving. Lord open her eyes! And his eyes to!
 

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