My mother running again after my brother

natasha2

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Please pray that my mother will stop preferentially treat my brother when he really doesn't deserve it. He has no time to help (I don't have time and then he hang up the phone!) her but she calls me to help her and I do it. And today again she is sending my old father to send him food (excuse is the food will rotten and it is for her grandchildren) and he chases him again instead of telling him if you want food come to pick it up. If he has time for his choir and night clubs then he should have time to.pick up the food and show more respect. My mother is like dumb in these things. I see now that she has spoiled him because he values himself and his time more then anything else. And he disappoints us every time we expect him for a family meeting. I told her that she is doing wrong again but she doesn't want to listen to me. She is guilty that he acts towards us so diminishing, neglecting and unloving. Lord open her eyes! And his eyes to!
 
Please pray that my mother will stop preferentially treat my brother when he really doesn't deserve it. He has no time to help (I don't have time and then he hang up the phone!) her but she calls me to help her and I do it. And today again she is sending my old father to send him food (excuse is the food will rotten and it is for her grandchildren) and he chases him again instead of telling him if you want food come to pick it up. If he has time for his choir and night clubs then he should have time to.pick up the food and show more respect. My mother is like dumb in these things. I see now that she has spoiled him because he values himself and his time more then anything else. And he disappoints us every time we expect him for a family meeting. I told her that she is doing wrong again but she doesn't want to listen to me. She is guilty that he acts towards us so diminishing, neglecting and unloving. Lord open her eyes! And his eyes to!
I pray in the name of Lord Jesus amen God bless you and your family .
 
I stand in agreement with these prayers.{"Whenever 2 or more are gathered in My name,I, even I, am in the midst of them."}Actually, this is not that uncommon.With me, my sister is far from a saintly person.She's rebellious, can be spiteful when you disagree with her,judgemental.When she does do good, she's self righteous about it,and thinks it makes her "a better person" than the rest of us. Yet what happens? Like in your case, my mother seems to "lean more towards her" than me, and when talking to others , praises her like she's so wonderful, but {after me doing more for her},makes me the not so nice one.{Not to mention other relatives who think she's an angelic being.]This might be happening in unsaved familys too, BUT I somehow suspect that this may be that the devil, knowing that we're saved and the "favored one" isn't{along with the ones favoring them} this may be a form of persecution the devil uses against us, strife from unsaved loved ones.
 
I stand in agreement with these prayers.{"Whenever 2 or more are gathered in My name,I, even I, am in the midst of them."}Actually, this is not that uncommon.With me, my sister is far from a saintly person.She's rebellious, can be spiteful when you disagree with her,judgemental.When she does do good, she's self righteous about it,and thinks it makes her "a better person" than the rest of us. Yet what happens? Like in your case, my mother seems to "lean more towards her" than me, and when talking to others , praises her like she's so wonderful, but {after me doing more for her},makes me the not so nice one.{Not to mention other relatives who think she's an angelic being.]This might be happening in unsaved familys too, BUT I somehow suspect that this may be that the devil, knowing that we're saved and the "favored one" isn't{along with the ones favoring them} this may be a form of persecution the devil uses against us, strife from unsaved loved ones.

Very possible Steven. But I also noticed that my extended family likes him more. Like he is so fun and great. He is very interesting person, knows many things like encyclopedia, jokes, always has an answer, very self confident and pretty much self sufficient. I live him very much but it seems like he is not any more the person I knew, or is it also that I have changed and I do not tolerate every nasty charming thing he does. He has hurt us alot with neglecting and similar but my mother and father seem to forgive him every time even when they are very mad at him they forgive and forget and continue to spoil him which his for his destruction. When we were cca 10 my cousine said to me, you are beautiful but your brother is something special. He was even a model for one year. He looks good. He got a job that is twice as much better payed then mine in the firm where my father has worked so he didn't go through afflictions like I have till I got a job that is steddy/regular but I don't like it and my brother loves his job. He traveled around the world while me I had only frustration (my father couldn't find a job for me in his company). I feel stuck in the school. For 18 years nobody invited me to travel to Germany and France which is very needed for my occupation of a teacher of French and German. Like everything went well for him except his wife was horrible and now they are separated.
 
Very possible Steven. But I also noticed that my extended family likes him more. Like he is so fun and great. He is very interesting person, knows many things like encyclopedia, jokes, always has an answer, very self confident and pretty much self sufficient. I live him very much but it seems like he is not any more the person I knew, or is it also that I have changed and I do not tolerate every nasty charming thing he does. He has hurt us alot with neglecting and similar but my mother and father seem to forgive him every time even when they are very mad at him they forgive and forget and continue to spoil him which his for his destruction. When we were cca 10 my cousine said to me, you are beautiful but your brother is something special. He was even a model for one year. He looks good. He got a job that is twice as much better payed then mine in the firm where my father has worked so he didn't go through afflictions like I have till I got a job that is steddy/regular but I don't like it and my brother loves his job. He traveled around the world while me I had only frustration (my father couldn't find a job for me in his company). I feel stuck in the school. For 18 years nobody invited me to travel to Germany and France which is very needed for my occupation of a teacher of French and German. Like everything went well for him except his wife was horrible and now they are separated.
I have to do job related things now, but I could probably comment on that sometime later.
 
I stand in agreement with these prayers.{"Whenever 2 or more are gathered in My name,I, even I, am in the midst of them."}Actually, this is not that uncommon.With me, my sister is far from a saintly person.She's rebellious, can be spiteful when you disagree with her,judgemental.When she does do good, she's self righteous about it,and thinks it makes her "a better person" than the rest of us. Yet what happens? Like in your case, my mother seems to "lean more towards her" than me, and when talking to others , praises her like she's so wonderful, but {after me doing more for her},makes me the not so nice one.{Not to mention other relatives who think she's an angelic being.]This might be happening in unsaved familys too, BUT I somehow suspect that this may be that the devil, knowing that we're saved and the "favored one" isn't{along with the ones favoring them} this may be a form of persecution the devil uses against us, strife from unsaved loved ones.


I have to do job related things now, but I could probably comment on that sometime later.
No problem God bless you!
 

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