my mother has ### syndrome and it destroyed my life
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We hear the deep pain in your words, and our hearts ache for the suffering you’ve endured. The weight of growing up with a parent affected by such profound challenges must have left scars that feel impossible to bear. You speak of despair so heavy that death feels like an escape, but we must gently yet firmly remind you that your life is precious to God, and He has not abandoned you in this darkness. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give you life—abundant life, even in the midst of brokenness.
First, we must address the bitterness and hopelessness in your words. It’s understandable to feel anger toward the pain you’ve suffered, but we urge you not to let it harden your heart against God. He is not the author of your suffering—sin and the fallen nature of this world are. Yet He is the only One who can redeem it. The Psalms are filled with cries of anguish like yours, where David and others poured out their pain to God while still clinging to Him as their hope. Psalm 34:18 says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees you. He knows the depth of your wounds, and He longs to heal them—not by erasing the past, but by walking with you through it and giving you a future.
You mentioned feeling like you "won the worst lottery" in life, comparing your pain to others who had joy. But comparison is a thief of what little peace we might find. God does not measure our worth by the circumstances we endure, but by the love He has for us. Romans 8:18 reminds us, *"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which will be revealed toward us."* Your suffering is real, but it is not the end of your story. God can take even the deepest wounds and use them for a purpose you cannot yet see.
Now, let us speak truth over the lie that death is your only escape. That is the voice of the enemy, whispering hopelessness to a soul that is weary. But Jesus says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). Rest does not always mean the removal of pain, but it means He will carry you when you cannot stand. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary struggle, and it robs you of the chance to see how God can turn your ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). You are not meant to walk this alone—reach out to a pastor, a counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you. If you are in immediate danger, please seek help now. Your life matters.
We also sense a deep loneliness in your words—the isolation of feeling unseen in your pain. But you are not alone. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we are praying for you now. We ask God to send people into your life who can offer His love in tangible ways, who can listen, and who can remind you that you are valued.
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your cry. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6), no other name that has the power to save, heal, and restore. If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we plead with you to do so now. He is the only One who can fill the void in your heart. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Salvation does not erase pain, but it gives you the hope of eternity and the presence of God in the midst of it.
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**Let us pray for you:**
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, broken and weary from the weight of deep wounds. Lord, You see every tear they’ve cried, every moment of loneliness, every scream of pain that no one else heard. We ask You to wrap them in Your arms and remind them that they are not forgotten. Break the spirit of despair that has taken hold, and replace it with Your hope. Father, send Your Holy Spirit to comfort them in a way no human ever could. Heal the wounds left by a childhood that was never meant to be so hard.
Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that say death is the only way out. You are the God of resurrection, the One who brings life from death. Restore their will to live, and show them that You have a purpose for their pain. Surround them with Your people—those who will listen, love, and walk with them toward healing.
If they do not know You, Jesus, we pray that today would be the day they surrender to You. Open their heart to receive Your love and salvation. Let them know that no pit is too deep for Your grace to reach.
Father, we ask for supernatural peace to guard their mind and heart (Philippians 4:7). Give them the strength to take one more step, one more breath, trusting that You are making a way where there seems to be none. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, **Amen.**
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You are loved more than you know. If you are in immediate crisis, please reach out to a crisis hotline or a trusted person in your life. You are not meant to carry this alone. We are praying for you, and we believe God is not done writing your story. Hold on. He is near.
First, we must address the bitterness and hopelessness in your words. It’s understandable to feel anger toward the pain you’ve suffered, but we urge you not to let it harden your heart against God. He is not the author of your suffering—sin and the fallen nature of this world are. Yet He is the only One who can redeem it. The Psalms are filled with cries of anguish like yours, where David and others poured out their pain to God while still clinging to Him as their hope. Psalm 34:18 says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees you. He knows the depth of your wounds, and He longs to heal them—not by erasing the past, but by walking with you through it and giving you a future.
You mentioned feeling like you "won the worst lottery" in life, comparing your pain to others who had joy. But comparison is a thief of what little peace we might find. God does not measure our worth by the circumstances we endure, but by the love He has for us. Romans 8:18 reminds us, *"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which will be revealed toward us."* Your suffering is real, but it is not the end of your story. God can take even the deepest wounds and use them for a purpose you cannot yet see.
Now, let us speak truth over the lie that death is your only escape. That is the voice of the enemy, whispering hopelessness to a soul that is weary. But Jesus says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). Rest does not always mean the removal of pain, but it means He will carry you when you cannot stand. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary struggle, and it robs you of the chance to see how God can turn your ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). You are not meant to walk this alone—reach out to a pastor, a counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you. If you are in immediate danger, please seek help now. Your life matters.
We also sense a deep loneliness in your words—the isolation of feeling unseen in your pain. But you are not alone. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we are praying for you now. We ask God to send people into your life who can offer His love in tangible ways, who can listen, and who can remind you that you are valued.
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your cry. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6), no other name that has the power to save, heal, and restore. If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we plead with you to do so now. He is the only One who can fill the void in your heart. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Salvation does not erase pain, but it gives you the hope of eternity and the presence of God in the midst of it.
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**Let us pray for you:**
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, broken and weary from the weight of deep wounds. Lord, You see every tear they’ve cried, every moment of loneliness, every scream of pain that no one else heard. We ask You to wrap them in Your arms and remind them that they are not forgotten. Break the spirit of despair that has taken hold, and replace it with Your hope. Father, send Your Holy Spirit to comfort them in a way no human ever could. Heal the wounds left by a childhood that was never meant to be so hard.
Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that say death is the only way out. You are the God of resurrection, the One who brings life from death. Restore their will to live, and show them that You have a purpose for their pain. Surround them with Your people—those who will listen, love, and walk with them toward healing.
If they do not know You, Jesus, we pray that today would be the day they surrender to You. Open their heart to receive Your love and salvation. Let them know that no pit is too deep for Your grace to reach.
Father, we ask for supernatural peace to guard their mind and heart (Philippians 4:7). Give them the strength to take one more step, one more breath, trusting that You are making a way where there seems to be none. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, **Amen.**
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You are loved more than you know. If you are in immediate crisis, please reach out to a crisis hotline or a trusted person in your life. You are not meant to carry this alone. We are praying for you, and we believe God is not done writing your story. Hold on. He is near.
We're here with you, dear friend. We feel the heavy burden you've carried, the loneliness that's eaten away at your heart. It's okay to feel like you've been dealt a cruel hand, but remember, your worth isn't defined by the cards you've been given. You're precious in God's eyes, and He's been walking this path with you, even when you couldn't feel His presence.
We want to remind you of the power of community. Just as Jesus sent out His disciples two by two (Mark 6:7), He wants us to lean on each other. Reach out to a trusted friend, a pastor, or a counselor. You don't have to bear this alone. We're also here for you, praying for you right now.
Let's cling to the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain, and He's ready to heal. Trust in His timing, and know that He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
In the meantime, let's take one step at a time. What's one small thing you can do today that might bring a bit of light into your day? It could be reaching out to someone, going for a walk, or simply taking a moment to breathe. Remember, it's okay to have bad days, but don't let them define your entire journey.
We're believing with you for breakthrough, for healing, and for hope. You're not alone, and your story isn't over yet. Keep holding on, dear friend. Jesus is with you, and so are we. In Jesus' name, we pray.
We want to remind you of the power of community. Just as Jesus sent out His disciples two by two (Mark 6:7), He wants us to lean on each other. Reach out to a trusted friend, a pastor, or a counselor. You don't have to bear this alone. We're also here for you, praying for you right now.
Let's cling to the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain, and He's ready to heal. Trust in His timing, and know that He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
In the meantime, let's take one step at a time. What's one small thing you can do today that might bring a bit of light into your day? It could be reaching out to someone, going for a walk, or simply taking a moment to breathe. Remember, it's okay to have bad days, but don't let them define your entire journey.
We're believing with you for breakthrough, for healing, and for hope. You're not alone, and your story isn't over yet. Keep holding on, dear friend. Jesus is with you, and so are we. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
be-an-encourager.blogspot.com
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
be-an-encourager.blogspot.com
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want you to know how deeply we’ve been carrying your heartache before the Lord these past days. The weight of caring for a parent with such profound challenges—while wrestling with your own pain, exhaustion, and even moments of despair—is more than any of us were meant to bear alone. Yet here you are, raw and honest before God and before us, and we honor that courage. It is a sacred thing to stand with you in this valley, lifting your mother, your grief, and your weary soul to the Father who sees it all.
We’ve prayed specifically for God to meet you in the honesty of your lament, just as He did with David, Job, and even Jesus in Gethsemane. You don’t have to sanitize your pain for Him—He already knows the depth of it, and He is not shocked by your questions or your anger. We’ve asked Him to surround you with His presence in ways you can *feel*, even if just for a moment, to remind you that you are not abandoned. For your mother, we’ve prayed for mercy—whether that looks like unexpected grace in her care, a moment of connection between you, or the Lord’s perfect timing in calling her home. And for you, we’ve begged God to restore what has been stolen: your joy, your peace, your ability to hope again. You were never meant to live in this kind of isolation, and we are asking Him to bring trusted people into your life who can share this burden, even if it’s just to sit with you in silence.
If you’re able, we’d love to hear how you’re doing now. Has the Lord brought any glimmer of light—even if it’s just the strength to face another day? If so, we’d rejoice with you over every small victory. If the darkness still feels overwhelming, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are here for the long haul, not just the easy prayers. And if you’re still too weary to form the words, that’s okay too. We’ll keep praying, keep fighting for you in the spiritual realm, and keep trusting that God is working even when we can’t see it.
You mentioned feeling like others “won the lottery” with easier lives, and our hearts break with you over that. The truth is, none of us escape suffering in this broken world—but the cross proves that God doesn’t abandon us in it. He is with you in the hell of these days, and He will redeem what feels unredeemable. Cling to that, even if it’s by the thinnest thread.
We love you, friend. Keep reaching out. Keep being honest. And may the God of all comfort meet you right where you are, in ways only He can.
In Jesus’ name.
We’ve prayed specifically for God to meet you in the honesty of your lament, just as He did with David, Job, and even Jesus in Gethsemane. You don’t have to sanitize your pain for Him—He already knows the depth of it, and He is not shocked by your questions or your anger. We’ve asked Him to surround you with His presence in ways you can *feel*, even if just for a moment, to remind you that you are not abandoned. For your mother, we’ve prayed for mercy—whether that looks like unexpected grace in her care, a moment of connection between you, or the Lord’s perfect timing in calling her home. And for you, we’ve begged God to restore what has been stolen: your joy, your peace, your ability to hope again. You were never meant to live in this kind of isolation, and we are asking Him to bring trusted people into your life who can share this burden, even if it’s just to sit with you in silence.
If you’re able, we’d love to hear how you’re doing now. Has the Lord brought any glimmer of light—even if it’s just the strength to face another day? If so, we’d rejoice with you over every small victory. If the darkness still feels overwhelming, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are here for the long haul, not just the easy prayers. And if you’re still too weary to form the words, that’s okay too. We’ll keep praying, keep fighting for you in the spiritual realm, and keep trusting that God is working even when we can’t see it.
You mentioned feeling like others “won the lottery” with easier lives, and our hearts break with you over that. The truth is, none of us escape suffering in this broken world—but the cross proves that God doesn’t abandon us in it. He is with you in the hell of these days, and He will redeem what feels unredeemable. Cling to that, even if it’s by the thinnest thread.
We love you, friend. Keep reaching out. Keep being honest. And may the God of all comfort meet you right where you are, in ways only He can.
In Jesus’ name.
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