My Marriage

[rebecca hernandez]

Gabe left again. This time he said it's final. He is not giving in and coming back. He said he wants out for good. He listed the things he wants to take with him to his brother's house. He let me know that he is going to see other people and just be free to live his own life. I'm still not working, I have no transportation, he just got a raise and wants to spend all his money on pot. He doesn't want to go to church anymore or pray. He has these fits of rage and they scare me. He had a fit of rage yesterday, he left, blamed me, then texted me it was over and told me what he wanted. I take responsibility for the things I do wrong according to him, I say I'm sorry, I ask for forgiveness, another chance, for mercy, and he says no. Things always get twisted to be my fault. And in hopes to calm him and fix things I start apologizing for things that aren't even true. Nothing seems to work. I am getting depressed and my body hurts all over like I have been beaten. I cry non-stop. I can't stay focused when I pray, I end up crying or thinking of everything that is going on. I just want my husband to be saved, set free, sold out to Jesus, and free from his addictions. He is running and running hard. I keep having dreams of trying to find him and never being able to reach him. He says such hateful things to me in his rage. He never used to be this way. Even when we were both living in sin he was not the way he is now. He went from bad, to doing good, to making a commitment, to backsliding, to giving up, to turning his back, and now completely cutting himself off. I do love him. And I do pray for him. I hurt inside so bad. I don't know what to do. I feel paralyzed and helpless. This time it feels so different. It really does feel final. He looked at me with hate in his anger. I have never seen him this way. He is at his brother's now. His brother is a huge pot head with none to call his own or responsibilities. My husband wants to be like him. He covets his life. How can someone who has a good and faithful wife who does everything and has a stable home want to leave and live that other life. Please pray for him, and us. And if you have any advice to give me please do.

 

[Pamela08]

Dear Lord,

I pray for ###, her husband and her marriage. Please call this wayward man back to You and back to his wife. I ask that You would break hold of the grip the enemy has on this man's life that has caused him to turn from You and his family. Please soften his heart and may he see that what he's doing is wrong - may he ask for forgiveness and may he desire to mend his marriage and may he accept You as Lord.

Lord, please bring Your comfort to ### - she needs You. Please build her up and give her your strength. May she know You care for her and are there for her no matter what is going on in her life. May she know that although her circumstances may look impossible - nothing is impossible for you! You can make something beautiful out of this mess and You can restore this marriage into one that brings joy and brings You glory. Thank you for hearing these prayers - thank you for being in control when our lives feel out of control. We love you Jesus. Thank you

Dear Lord,

I pray for ###, her husband and her marriage. Please call this wayward man back to You and back to his wife. I ask that You would break hold of the grip the enemy has on this man's life that has caused him to turn from You and his family. Please soften his heart and may he see that what he's doing is wrong - may he ask for forgiveness and may he desire to mend his marriage and may he accept You as Lord.

Lord, please bring Your comfort to ### - she needs You. Please build her up and give her your strength. May she know You care for her and are there for her no matter what is going on in her life. May she know that although her circumstances may look impossible - nothing is impossible for you! You can make something beautiful out of this mess and You can restore this marriage into one that brings joy and brings You glory. Thank you for hearing these prayers - thank you for being in control when our lives feel out of control. We love you Jesus. Thank you

 

[thehottestdivas6]

Lord we ask you to have mercy on ###. Lord we ask you help her to stop worrying and making herself sick. We ask you to help her give the situation over to you. I ask you Lord to help ###. Lord we ask you to save him. Lord we ask you to help her to be able to get in a place to hear from you and know what to do about her marriage. We ask you to strengthen her and give peace. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[lifeforchrist]

Dear Lord...we give ### & ### in your hands.,..heal their marriage..restore to them their previous joy & let all the devils evil scheme fail in their life..thank you for you are in control..In Jesus name we ask amen

 

[firstlady]

Father God, I lift my ### up, your daughter and we come to you together lifting up all your daughters and standing in the gap. Father, we adjust you daughters and we are not perfect. We need you to protect us from the attacks of the evil one in our minds and emotions. As we pray, we ask for your mind and will that the words released into the atmosphere are true and will not return void. We command the climate of the universe to change as the spirit of forgiveness and repentance bombard the earth realm, in the name of Jesus. We prophetically speak to the wind and command it spread the word of the Lord upon the people and land on their skin, absorb through their skin and resonate through their blood stream- circulation through their entire body- God's Truth; this truth leads to repentance and this truth will lead them to Godly sorrow and they WILL seek God for forgiveness and serve Him.

Father, I lift all the wayward spouses (whoever they are) and CALL THEM BACK TO YOU, in the name of Jesus! No matter where they are in their dissolution, until you have declared it over- I call them into right standing with you. Just as you stood at the tomb of Lazarus and called him out from death, we call ALL SPOUSES: DEATH, YOU HAVE NO HOLD! SATAN, YOU CAN NO LONGER HOLD THIS SPOUSE FROM THEIR MARRIAGE OBLIGATIONS OR COVENANT VOWS, IN THE NAME OF JESUS- LOOSE YOUR HOLD AND SET THE CAPTIVE FREE! in the name of Jesus. "SPOUSES" YOU ARE NOW FREE TO CRY FROM THE HURT AND SHAME AND FRUSTRATION, YOU ARE NOW FREE TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND NO LONGER BOUND BY THE GUILT OF SECRET SINS AND HARBORING OF UNFORGIVENESS! RESTORE! restore! restore! in the name of Jesus all that the enemy set to destroy. Restore their marriages, restore their relationships, restore their peace of mind, restore their confidence- restore their TRUST IN YOU GOD! You are mighty and I worship you, amen.

 

[Rev.Mike]

Lord create a clean heart and renew in them a right spirit. Amen

 

[The Encourager]

Be Encouraged! Somebody… Somewhere… Is Praying Just For You. I have asked God in Jesus’ name to honor your prayer request according to His perfect will and His perfect timing for everyone involved. The safest and best place to be in this whole wide world is in the will of God. God is in control. Trust Him. He Loves You.

Romans 8:28 tells us: And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

Encourager ###, LM, CS

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister

PS: If You Absolutely, Positively, Undeniably, No Doubt About It, Want to Be Blessed Today, Tomorrow, & For the Rest of Your Life…Just Obey God’s Word! Let Your Lifestyle be Shaped by the Word of God. God Honors Obedience, You have God’s Word on It.

 

[Eugene]

I am with you guys..I pray the best I can for you and your families. May God bring comfort and restoration to ###. Fill her heart with love, joy and forgiveness. May your hope and peace rule in their homes. Lord, let your name be glorified.