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We join you in lifting up this heartbreaking situation, and we grieve with you over the brokenness in your marriage. Infidelity and the intrusion of a third party are grievous sins that wound deeply, but we serve a God who is mighty to restore what has been broken. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to bring life and redemption—even in the most shattered circumstances.
First, we must address the seriousness of this sin. Adultery is a violation of God’s holy design for marriage, and Scripture is clear: *"You shall not commit adultery"* (Exodus 20:14). The third party in your marriage is an instrument of the enemy, and the man who has abandoned his family is walking in rebellion against God’s command to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). His actions are not just against you but against the Lord Himself.
Yet, we also know that *"all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28). This does not mean the pain is insignificant, but it means God can turn even this betrayal into a testimony of His faithfulness—if both hearts turn to Him in repentance.
We urge you to examine your own heart as well. Have you sought the Lord in forgiveness, even as you grieve? Unforgiveness can become a stronghold that hinders God’s work (Matthew 6:14-15). This does not mean excusing sin, but it means releasing the offense to God, who judges righteously. Pray for your husband’s repentance, but also pray for your own heart to be guarded from bitterness.
Now, let us pray with authority over this situation:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her broken marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the abandonment. You hear the cries of this mother and child who have been cast aside. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind the spirit of adultery, deception, and division in Jesus’ name.*
*Father, we ask for a spirit of conviction to fall upon the man who has walked away. Let him be pierced with godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Break the chains of lust and rebellion that have ensnared him. Expose the lies of the enemy and the emptiness of sin. Let him remember his covenant before You—his vows to his wife and his responsibility to his child. Restore to him a right mind, a broken spirit, and a heart that turns back to You and to his family.*
*Lord, we also pray for the third party involved. If they claim to know You, let conviction fall upon them like fire. If they do not know You, let this be the moment they encounter Your holiness and realize the gravity of their sin. Break every ungodly soul tie and destroy the works of the enemy in this situation.*
*Father, we ask for supernatural protection over this sister and her child. Provide for their every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround them with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Let this season of waiting be a time of drawing nearer to You, of growing in faith, and of experiencing Your faithfulness in ways they never have before.*
*We declare that what the enemy meant for evil, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). If it is Your will, restore this marriage in a way that brings You glory—stronger, holier, and more Christ-centered than before. But above all, let Your will be done. Give this sister the strength to trust You, even if the outcome is not what she hopes. Let her find her identity and worth in You alone.*
*Finally, Lord, we rebuke every spirit of fear, despair, and hopelessness trying to take root. Fill this home with Your presence. Let Your light shine so brightly that darkness cannot remain. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus, who is able to save, heal, and restore. Amen.*
Sister, we urge you to stand firm in faith. Do not chase after your husband—pray and let God do the work. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Fast if you are able, seek godly counsel, and surround yourself with believers who will uphold you in prayer. If your husband returns, reconciliation must be built on repentance, forgiveness, and a commitment to rebuild with Christ at the center.
If he does not return, know that God is still good. He can redeem this season. Trust that He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Your worth is not in being a wife or a mother—it is in being a daughter of the King. Walk in that truth.
We will continue to pray for you. Stand firm, and do not lose heart. *"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9).
First, we must address the seriousness of this sin. Adultery is a violation of God’s holy design for marriage, and Scripture is clear: *"You shall not commit adultery"* (Exodus 20:14). The third party in your marriage is an instrument of the enemy, and the man who has abandoned his family is walking in rebellion against God’s command to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). His actions are not just against you but against the Lord Himself.
Yet, we also know that *"all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28). This does not mean the pain is insignificant, but it means God can turn even this betrayal into a testimony of His faithfulness—if both hearts turn to Him in repentance.
We urge you to examine your own heart as well. Have you sought the Lord in forgiveness, even as you grieve? Unforgiveness can become a stronghold that hinders God’s work (Matthew 6:14-15). This does not mean excusing sin, but it means releasing the offense to God, who judges righteously. Pray for your husband’s repentance, but also pray for your own heart to be guarded from bitterness.
Now, let us pray with authority over this situation:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her broken marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the abandonment. You hear the cries of this mother and child who have been cast aside. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind the spirit of adultery, deception, and division in Jesus’ name.*
*Father, we ask for a spirit of conviction to fall upon the man who has walked away. Let him be pierced with godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Break the chains of lust and rebellion that have ensnared him. Expose the lies of the enemy and the emptiness of sin. Let him remember his covenant before You—his vows to his wife and his responsibility to his child. Restore to him a right mind, a broken spirit, and a heart that turns back to You and to his family.*
*Lord, we also pray for the third party involved. If they claim to know You, let conviction fall upon them like fire. If they do not know You, let this be the moment they encounter Your holiness and realize the gravity of their sin. Break every ungodly soul tie and destroy the works of the enemy in this situation.*
*Father, we ask for supernatural protection over this sister and her child. Provide for their every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround them with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Let this season of waiting be a time of drawing nearer to You, of growing in faith, and of experiencing Your faithfulness in ways they never have before.*
*We declare that what the enemy meant for evil, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). If it is Your will, restore this marriage in a way that brings You glory—stronger, holier, and more Christ-centered than before. But above all, let Your will be done. Give this sister the strength to trust You, even if the outcome is not what she hopes. Let her find her identity and worth in You alone.*
*Finally, Lord, we rebuke every spirit of fear, despair, and hopelessness trying to take root. Fill this home with Your presence. Let Your light shine so brightly that darkness cannot remain. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus, who is able to save, heal, and restore. Amen.*
Sister, we urge you to stand firm in faith. Do not chase after your husband—pray and let God do the work. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Fast if you are able, seek godly counsel, and surround yourself with believers who will uphold you in prayer. If your husband returns, reconciliation must be built on repentance, forgiveness, and a commitment to rebuild with Christ at the center.
If he does not return, know that God is still good. He can redeem this season. Trust that He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Your worth is not in being a wife or a mother—it is in being a daughter of the King. Walk in that truth.
We will continue to pray for you. Stand firm, and do not lose heart. *"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9).
We're here with you, sister, holding you up in prayer. We know the pain of betrayal is deep, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, God is near to the brokenhearted, and He's eager to heal and restore. We're claiming His promise over you today: "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18).
We're praying for your husband, that God would convict him of his sin and draw him back to you and your child. We're also praying for the third party involved, that they would experience God's conviction and turn from their sin. We're asking God to protect and provide for you and your child, filling your home with His peace and presence.
We're believing with you for restoration, but even if that's not God's will, we trust that He will use this for your good and His glory. Keep standing firm in faith, and don't grow weary in doing good. We're here praying with you every step of the way.
We're praying for your husband, that God would convict him of his sin and draw him back to you and your child. We're also praying for the third party involved, that they would experience God's conviction and turn from their sin. We're asking God to protect and provide for you and your child, filling your home with His peace and presence.
We're believing with you for restoration, but even if that's not God's will, we trust that He will use this for your good and His glory. Keep standing firm in faith, and don't grow weary in doing good. We're here praying with you every step of the way.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred honor of lifting your marriage before the Lord these past few days. Our hearts have been burdened alongside yours as we’ve prayed for God’s restoration, for the breaking of ungodly ties, and for your husband’s heart to turn back to his family with the same fierce love Christ has for His church. We know the pain of separation and the weight of betrayal can feel overwhelming, but we serve a God who specializes in redeeming what the enemy has sought to destroy.
If the Lord has begun to move in this situation—whether through a softened heart, a returned call, or even the smallest glimmer of hope—we would be so encouraged to hear your praise report. Testimonies of His faithfulness strengthen *all* of us in the body to keep believing for miracles. And if the silence or distance remains, we want you to know we are *still* standing with you. Please don’t hesitate to share an update or repost your request; we will continue to contend in prayer for your husband’s return, for the exposure of every hidden scheme, and for God’s peace to guard your heart and your child’s in the waiting.
Remember, sister, the Lord sees your tears, hears your cries, and is working even now behind the scenes. Cling to His promise in Jeremiah 32:27: *“Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh. Is anything too hard for Me?”* We are believing with you for a divine interruption—a supernatural realignment of your husband’s affections toward his home. Keep trusting, keep praying, and know that you are not forgotten.
We declare Psalm 34:18 over you today: *The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.* May He surround you with His comfort, provision, and the assurance that He is fighting for your family. Do not lose heart. We are here, and more importantly, *He* is here.
If the Lord has begun to move in this situation—whether through a softened heart, a returned call, or even the smallest glimmer of hope—we would be so encouraged to hear your praise report. Testimonies of His faithfulness strengthen *all* of us in the body to keep believing for miracles. And if the silence or distance remains, we want you to know we are *still* standing with you. Please don’t hesitate to share an update or repost your request; we will continue to contend in prayer for your husband’s return, for the exposure of every hidden scheme, and for God’s peace to guard your heart and your child’s in the waiting.
Remember, sister, the Lord sees your tears, hears your cries, and is working even now behind the scenes. Cling to His promise in Jeremiah 32:27: *“Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh. Is anything too hard for Me?”* We are believing with you for a divine interruption—a supernatural realignment of your husband’s affections toward his home. Keep trusting, keep praying, and know that you are not forgotten.
We declare Psalm 34:18 over you today: *The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.* May He surround you with His comfort, provision, and the assurance that He is fighting for your family. Do not lose heart. We are here, and more importantly, *He* is here.
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