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prayingmother
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My husband and I are having a difficult time understanding each other. I'm sure this is usual for a lot of marriages. I'm trying to keep myself positive, but his lack of interest in trying to make things work or trying to keep the communication lines open makes me feel as if our marriage isn't important enough for him to work on. He'd rather be watching television or shutting me out.
Yesterday was our anniversary. We didn't do anything but stay away from one another. Even if I try, by sitting next to him in the living room, it's as if I weren't there. He doesn't set any "us" to. I'm starting to wondering if it's just me and if I'm "requiring" too much attention. The matter of the fact is, he hardly gives me any attention anyway.
My feelings are very hurt and I'm seriously wondering whether this marriage is even worth working on. He doesn't seem to care and if I go to him to sit and talk, he looks at me as if I'm stupid. I can't explain it. But it's a look he gives me. As if I'm bothering him.
Anyhow, Please pray for us. If this is meant to be, then we both need to work on this. I prayed that God would speak to him and convict his heart where he is wrong and of course, the same with me. I want to know where my errors are as well. But as I'm typing this, I'm the one sitting here crying while he's watching tv. It's as if he has no emotions. How can I comprehend that. He knows I'm upset, yet instead of trying to meet me half way, he continues to shut me out.
Thank you and God bless.
Yesterday was our anniversary. We didn't do anything but stay away from one another. Even if I try, by sitting next to him in the living room, it's as if I weren't there. He doesn't set any "us" to. I'm starting to wondering if it's just me and if I'm "requiring" too much attention. The matter of the fact is, he hardly gives me any attention anyway.
My feelings are very hurt and I'm seriously wondering whether this marriage is even worth working on. He doesn't seem to care and if I go to him to sit and talk, he looks at me as if I'm stupid. I can't explain it. But it's a look he gives me. As if I'm bothering him.
Anyhow, Please pray for us. If this is meant to be, then we both need to work on this. I prayed that God would speak to him and convict his heart where he is wrong and of course, the same with me. I want to know where my errors are as well. But as I'm typing this, I'm the one sitting here crying while he's watching tv. It's as if he has no emotions. How can I comprehend that. He knows I'm upset, yet instead of trying to meet me half way, he continues to shut me out.
Thank you and God bless.
