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[Anonymous]

I been very sad because during my whole life I put everything I did I put it in God hand. Today I find myself very disappointed with myself because growing up I was always compared to my cousin why can't you be like your cousin. You will be a disappointment in your life. I went to high school always studied hard and went to college got my degree but now I'm 35 married but I can't have any children yet. I also lost my mom and apparently I lost my mom side of the family in that loss, I always was there to help especially my mom side of the family because I never knew my dad side of the family. I also had loss of friends a friend I had got upset because after I let them stay for a week they wanted to stay more. I left my toxic job in January because I was exhausted and the environment was difficult. I find myself at home applying for jobs mostly remotely because I lost my car and now I don't have any money. I lost my second car because I lent it to a family member and my car was totaled. I never was able to obtain anything for that car. I live with my husband and his mom lives with us. I feel like I'm a burden I don't contribute economically. I helped others but when it's my turn to be helped no one is there I feel very sad. I don't even go anywhere because I don't have money. I feel bad for my husband because all I do is give him problems. I always had a car, I always worked now I'm nothing, we have an upcoming trip that has been done years ago I don't want to go because I'm unemployed and I don't deserve it. I see my husband work so much and I'm just cleaning and I feel bad. I just want to be better. I want to be able to be better. I just don't know why if I was so good to my family and I just need a break from all the things that are happening to me, I want to be happy again seeing my mom died and being humiliated so much by my old job and now my family blames me for my mom dying that I did not do much when I was there 24/7 while my grandmother never came to help me. Now I just want to catch a break I want things to get better but it's just going the opposite way why. I just pray everyday I pray to God please help me, please help me I want to be the same person I was I want to always smile in the midst of my problem I want to continue to encourage others like I did but now others just left me. It's only husband and I whenever I hear from my dad is just he wants to add more problems. Whenever I ask him about helping me he just does not say anything.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep sorrow and exhaustion in your heart, and we want you to know that your pain is seen and understood. You have carried so much—comparisons that wounded your spirit, the loss of your mother, the weight of unmet expectations, and the loneliness of feeling abandoned by those you once helped. It is not wrong to feel weary, but we must remind you that your worth is not defined by what you do, what you own, or how others treat you. Your value comes from the One who created you and calls you His own.

First, we must address the lie that you are a disappointment. The enemy delights in whispering these words to God’s children, but Scripture declares, *"The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart"* (1 Samuel 16:7). You have walked in faithfulness, surrendering your life to God, studying diligently, loving sacrificially, and enduring hardship with perseverance. That is not nothing—it is the very evidence of a heart after God’s own. The comparisons others forced upon you were never God’s design. He knit you together uniquely for His purposes (Psalm 139:13-16), and your journey is not meant to mirror anyone else’s.

Your grief over infertility is valid, and we mourn with you. Children are a blessing from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and the longing for them is holy. But your inability to conceive does not diminish your womanhood, your marriage, or your calling. We pray for healing and provision in this area, but we also remind you that God’s plans for you are good, even when they look different than you imagined (Jeremiah 29:11). Your husband is not burdened by your love—he is blessed by it. Do not assume his heart; instead, lean into open communication with him, for marriage is a partnership where burdens are shared, not carried alone.

The loss of your mother and the subsequent rejection from your family are wounds that only Jesus can fully heal. It is unjust that they blame you for her passing when you were the one who stood by her. But we must rebuke the spirit of guilt and shame trying to take root in your heart. *"There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"* (Romans 8:1). You are not responsible for their bitterness or their absence. God sees your faithfulness, and He will not abandon you as others have.

Your financial struggles and the loss of your car are tangible trials, but they do not define your future. The Lord promises to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We encourage you to seek His wisdom in your job search, trusting that He will open the right door at the right time. Until then, do not despise the season of waiting. Even in the mundane tasks of cleaning and caring for your home, you are serving the Lord (Colossians 3:23). Your hands may not be bringing in an income, but they are still doing holy work.

We must also speak truth about the lies you’ve believed regarding your worth. You are not "nothing." You are a daughter of the King, fearfully and wonderfully made. The enemy wants you to isolate yourself, to believe that you are a burden, but God calls you His beloved. *"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing"* (Zephaniah 3:17). You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. You are cherished.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is weary and disheartened. Lord, You see every tear she has cried, every sleepless night, and every moment of doubt. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around her and remind her of Your unfailing love. Heal the wounds of comparison and rejection, and replace them with the truth of who she is in You. Father, we pray for provision—open doors for employment, restore what has been lost, and meet every need according to Your riches. Comfort her in her grief over her mother and the loss of relationships. Strengthen her marriage, Lord, and help her to see herself through Your eyes, not the world’s. Renew her joy, restore her hope, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We rebuke the spirit of despair and declare that her story is not over. You are working all things together for her good, even when she cannot see it. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We also want to gently address something important: your prayers are heard because you are coming to God in the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6). If you have never surrendered your life to Christ, we encourage you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in Jesus as your Savior, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9). If you are already a believer, hold fast to Him. He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

You are not alone in this season. The same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Lazarus from the dead, and conquered the grave is fighting for you. Keep praying. Keep trusting. Your breakthrough is coming.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend,

We hear your heart's cry and we're here for you. We know that life has thrown you some heavy punches, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're in this with you.

First, let's address the lie that you're a disappointment. That's just not true. You've walked with God, surrendered your life to Him, studied diligently, loved sacrificially, and endured hardship with perseverance. That's not nothing. That's a life well-lived. You're not defined by comparisons, by what you own, or by how others treat you. You're defined by the One who created you and calls you His own.

Your grief over infertility is valid. We mourn with you. Children are a blessing from the Lord, and the longing for them is holy. But remember, your inability to conceive doesn't diminish your womanhood, your marriage, or your calling. God's plans for you are good, even when they look different than you imagined.

We also want to assure you that your husband isn't burdened by your love. He's blessed by it. Don't assume his heart; instead, lean into open communication with him. Marriage is a partnership where burdens are shared, not carried alone.

The loss of your mother and the subsequent rejection from your family are wounds that only Jesus can fully heal. It's unjust that they blame you for her passing when you were the one who stood by her. But we must rebuke the spirit of guilt and shame trying to take root in your heart. You are not responsible for their bitterness or their absence. God sees your faithfulness, and He will not abandon you as others have.

Your financial struggles and the loss of your car are tangible trials, but they don't define your future. The Lord promises to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory. Trust that He will open the right door at the right time. Even in the mundane tasks of cleaning and caring for your home, you are serving the Lord.

Now, let's talk about your worth. You are not "nothing." You are a daughter of the King, fearfully and wonderfully made. The enemy wants you to isolate yourself, to believe that you're a burden, but God calls you His beloved. You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. You are cherished.

We want to encourage you to keep praying. Keep trusting. Your breakthrough is coming. And remember, you're not alone. We're right here with you, cheering you on.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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