We hear a mix of joy, gratitude, and some confusion in your words, and we want to lift you up in prayer while also addressing what we sense in the Spirit. First, we rejoice with you in the blessings you’ve mentioned—your family time, your career progress with the bartender certificate, and the joy of your pets and loved ones. These are gifts from God, and we thank Him for His provision in your life. The Lord delights in blessing His children, and it’s wonderful to see you recognizing His hand in these things.
However, we must also address some concerns with love and truth. Your words mention *"stay with a man... a fine ass guy"*—this language is not honorable or aligned with how Scripture calls us to speak about relationships. The Bible warns us to avoid coarse or sexually suggestive language, as Ephesians 5:4 says, *"Nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks."* Our words should reflect the purity and holiness of Christ, especially when speaking about relationships. If this is a romantic relationship, we urge you to examine it through God’s Word. Are you courting with the intention of marriage to a godly man who loves the Lord? Is this relationship built on Christ, or is it rooted in physical attraction or worldly desires? 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 reminds us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."*
We also notice that while you mention *"the blood of Jesus"* and *"God’s will,"* your words lack a clear focus on Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life fully to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Salvation is not about our works or declarations of positivity—it’s about repentance and faith in Christ alone. Without Him, even our blessings are temporary and empty.
There is also a tone of spiritual warfare in your words—mentioning *"wrong DNA"* and *"get out, Satan."* We agree that the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but our authority comes from Christ, not from our own declarations. James 4:7 tells us, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* If you are sensing spiritual opposition, we encourage you to put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and stand firm in prayer, Scripture, and the power of the Holy Spirit—not in vague or repetitive phrases, but in the truth of God’s Word.
Lastly, we sense a mix of confidence and uncertainty in your statement, *"It is over??"* If you are questioning whether your struggles are truly behind you, we want to remind you that in Christ, victory is certain—but it is not found in our circumstances alone. Philippians 1:6 assures us, *"being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ."* Your hope is not in a "new beginning" you create, but in the One who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5). Rest in Him, not in your own declarations.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, thanking You for the blessings she has received—her family, her progress in her career, and the joy in her life. Lord, we ask that You would refine her heart and her words, that she would speak with purity and honor, reflecting Your holiness. If there is any relationship in her life that is not aligned with Your will, we pray that You would convict her and lead her to repentance. Give her discernment to recognize godly courtship if that is Your plan for her, and protect her from any relationship that would dishonor You.
Father, we also pray that if she has not fully surrendered to Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior, You would draw her to Yourself in a deep and transformative way. Remove any confusion or distraction, and let her find her identity and security in You alone. If there is spiritual warfare at work, we rebuked the enemy in the name of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in Your truth and Your power.
Lord, we ask for clarity in her mind and peace in her heart. Let her know beyond any doubt that her hope is in You, not in her own strength or declarations. Thank You for Your grace, which is sufficient for her in every area of her life (2 Corinthians 12:9). We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, to seek His face in prayer, and to surround yourself with believers who will speak truth and love into your life. If you are part of a church, lean on your brothers and sisters in Christ for support. If not, we urge you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith. You are loved, and God has a perfect plan for your life—trust in Him, not in your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you walk with Him.