My husband of 19 years is having an

[Pearl Khoza]

My husband of 19 years is having an affair with someone for the past two years. He is hardly at home as he visits this woman from time to time. The woman buys him expensive clothes and give him money. The sad part is that my inlaws are in support of this affair. When my husband is home he is always shouting about everything the is no peace, this whole thing has affected my 11 year old daughter as she is always crying even at school. I'm always praying to God to end this affair and cut the ties completely

i have loose all trust in him and If i see him on his phone for longer i then suspect that he is talking to her. I'm not coping well I'm even thinking of living him and go and start a new life with my children

 

[caldoug]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[natasha2]

Dear Pearl, the first thing that came to me, is that this thing is of the devil. This is obviously a "strange woman" that seduced your husband. An evil spirit. One thing you can do is to ask God persistently to show you what spirit of force is doing this and how to fight it. You can always bind that spirit. I recently have done that with one pupil in my classroom, i bound that spirit that God shewed me, and he became peacefull. so i encourage you to do that. STAY IN THE SPIRIT. Thats the only way you can beat the devil. Stay in the spirit realm. Get some daily devotional, or read Bible every morning, stick to it like your life depends on it. Let God be more important to you then any person on this world. God is your first husband. He knows the heart of your earthly king, and he can turn it around,. Let God to stir a fire in your heart again for Him. Fall in love in Him again, like at the beginning, you know...

Our weappon is not carnal, but devinely powerfull....it is in the spirit, it is in the word of God. Search the answer in the word. 

Here are some VERY good prayers to pray when someone has problems in marriage. Pick up the ones that suits to your case. Pray it boldly, the devil is your adversarie, he is on your territory illegaly, so pray like you are driving him away, so that he knows his place. Send him straight into deepest pit of hell, in Jesus name. 

http://mfmlosangeles.com/?page_id=999

God bless you and your daughter, God gives you enlightement, guidance, direction, wisdom and counsel of God so that you overcome this nightmare of every wife.

Read PROVERBS, i hear that in my spirit. You will find there edification, wisdom and counsel for women. 

 

[In the need]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[MightyOak99]

[SIZE=10pt]I'm so sorry to hear this, Pearl. I know that being a victim of infidelity is extremely painful. My heart goes out to you and your daughter, and I would strongly suggest that you seek the help of a counselor. [/SIZE][SIZE=10pt]If you’re in the US, I believe if you call this number 855-382-5433, they can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor. [/SIZE][SIZE=10pt]Also, please read the book Love Must Be Tough -- this book has been helpful to many in similar situation as yours. Sending you prayers, asking for God’s grace and peace to surround you, sustain you, and guard your heart and mind in the days ahead.[/SIZE]

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.