MY HUSBAND IS CALLING A WOMAN HE DOES NOT KNOW HIS WIFE

[Dhiermoronira]

Im so confused. I believe she has bewitched him due to we just won our settlement of $10,000,000. He says he never loved me her 5 yr old child he now claims. He has blocked me he was only here a month we live together and we're not from out here. We dont know this woman yet he is there with her and im alone he sleeps with me every single night. Now he wont even come see me. I have no support Im hungry I have no clothes and since he takes care everything usually I jus ask him are he'll jus give me what I need but now he doesn't even talk to me were together daily sleep together every night he be home with me but now he boldly told me she is his wife. Im hurt but confused he has never ever acted like this. She wants to steal my husband and my future and she does not know him he belong to me but he acts like he is afraid if her. What is happening? This is not a man simply cheating he is 40 years old he is ni kid he need her for nothing we both have jobs we have a apartment and a car why is he there? Only to drain and kill my sweet dumb beautiful husband then take the money I need help please he is my husband and I am his only wife. Help us please

 

[Articles]

We have heard your cry and we are standing with you in prayer, for we see how confused and hurt and alone you feel right now. Your marriage is precious in the sight of God and we grieve with you over what your husband is doing. The Bible is clear that marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman and what God has joined together, let no man tear apart Matthew 19:6. His vow to you before God still stands, and for him to go to another woman and call her his wife while he is still married to you is sin before God. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. If he is having sexual relations with this other woman, that is adultery, and if he is claiming her child as his own while abandoning his covenant with you, that is deception and unfaithfulness. We must lovingly rebuke his actions, because he is a ### year old man who is accountable before God for his choices, and age and a settlement and a job do not excuse sin.

We understand why you feel bewitched and afraid, and we do believe the enemy seeks to steal and destroy marriages. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Witchcraft and sorcery are listed among the works of the flesh in Galatians 5:20 and God calls them sin. Yet we also must speak truth that your husband is not a helpless victim with no will of his own, he is making choices, and he will give account to God for them. The fear you feel that he is afraid of her is not from God, for 2 Timothy 1:7 says God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. The greater power is not any spell, but Jesus Christ who lives in us, for He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. Therefore we do not pray from fear but from authority in Christ, that every deceptive influence be broken and that your husband's eyes be opened to repentance.

We also noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust fully in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and confess Him as Lord, for Romans 10:9 says that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is in His name we pray and find help.

We want to encourage you practically as well as spiritually. You said you are hungry, have no clothes and no support where you live, and that your husband has blocked you and left you alone. God sees your need and He cares. Philippians 4:19 says My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. And Psalm 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Please do not stay isolated. We urge you to reach out immediately to a Bible believing pastor or church family where you are, even if you are new to the area, and to trusted family if possible, for food, clothing and counsel. You also need wise legal counsel quickly regarding the ### settlement, so that it is protected and stewarded according to God and not drained through adultery and deception. Keep records, do not sign anything under pressure, and seek help from a godly attorney or legal aid. Continue to pray and fast if you are able, and ask mature believers to stand with you, for James 5:16 says The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.

We pray together for you and for your husband now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and we lift up this dear wife and her marriage to You. Lord, You see her loneliness, her hunger, her confusion and her tears, and You are near to the brokenhearted. We ask You to provide for her daily bread and clothing and safe shelter and godly support around her, and to comfort her heart with Your presence Psalm 46:1. We ask You to convict her husband of his sin and bring him to deep repentance, that he would turn from adultery and lies and remember his covenant vow to his wife. Break every chain of deception, lust, and any evil influence that is blinding him, and let him have a sound mind and a repentant heart. We pray that You would protect that settlement and all You have entrusted to them from being wasted or stolen, and give this wife wisdom and protection. We speak against fear and ask for Your power, love and self-control to fill this home. Lord, heal this marriage if it is Your will, restore what the enemy has tried to destroy, and let Your will be done. If her husband will not repent, give her wisdom for the next steps and keep her pure and faithful to You. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Savior, amen.

We encourage you to keep praying daily, to stay in the Word, to guard your heart and your body for the Lord, and to not pursue any sexual relationship outside of your marriage, for your body and marriage bed are holy to God. Trust that God is your provider and defender, and keep seeking godly counsel and refusing to be drawn into bitterness. We are continuing to pray that God will bring truth into the light, bring your husband to his senses, and surround you with help and hope in the days ahead.

 

[hostadmin]

We read your message and we hear how disorienting and painful this is for you. To go from sharing daily life and sleeping beside your husband every night to being blocked, alone, hungry and without support would leave anyone feeling confused and hurt. It makes sense you are searching for why he would suddenly call another woman his wife and pull away so completely.

When someone changes so quickly it can feel like there must be an outside explanation. We don't have answers for his choices, but we want you to know this sudden rejection is not a measure of your worth. You deserve care and safety right now, especially with your basic needs unmet.

For this week, would you let one or two safe people step in with you? If you have a pastor, a trusted family member or friend, or a local church you can contact, please reach out today and let them know you are without food and clothing and feeling alone. Many churches and community agencies can help with immediate practical needs and can also walk with you as you think through questions about the apartment, the car, and the settlement. You do not have to sort all of that alone, and having another wise person beside you can help you make clear next steps.

We are praying for you.

Father, we lift this wife to You in Jesus' name. You see her hurt, her confusion and her need. Please provide for her daily bread and clothing, surround her with safe, trustworthy help, and give her wisdom and calm for each decision ahead. Guard her heart and protect her husband as well, and lead them both toward what is true and right. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The Lord has seen your sorrow in this bewildering and bitter trial, and He does not turn His eye from those who are cast down and forsaken. You speak of a husband who has turned from you to call another his wife, who has blocked you and left you hungry and without provision, and you feel as one alone in a strange place with no support. This is a heavy rod, and the smart of it is real, yet there is not a more profitable instrument in all God's house than the rod when it drives us to Him who alone can deliver.

You ask what is happening and whether some power has bewitched him. Scripture teaches that there is indeed a power of darkness, and that sin at first catches us with the tiniest spider's cobwebs that can scarcely be seen, until they seem as cords that cannot be broken. But we are also told, and we have felt it in our personal experience, that He has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of God's dear Son. Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and we must look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for it.

Let it never be forgotten that in all that God does, He acts from good reasons, even when His way is in the sea and His footsteps are not known. A sight of God's hand in a trial is the end of rebellion against it, not because the pain is small, but because we see that He is gracious and says, Deliver him from going down to the Pit, I have found a ransom. Job heard that word, that God opens the ears of men and seals their instruction, that He may withdraw man from his purpose and hide pride from man. There is music as of a marriage peal in that verse, for God looking upon a sinner slipping down says, I have found a ransom. That ransom is Christ Jesus alone, who gave Himself to redeem us from sin and from Hell. Salvation is through Him alone, and it is to Him we must look for your husband's soul and for your own comfort.

Your marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman before God, and what God has joined together, man must not put asunder. The woman he now calls his wife is not his wife. You are his wife, and he belongs to his covenant vows before the Lord. To live together, to lie together, belongs within that covenant alone, and to give that which belongs to marriage to another is sin against God and against you. We cannot ask God to bless a relationship that runs against His holy ordinance, but we can and do pray that God would deliver your husband from this snare, convict him of sin, and bring him to repentance and to fidelity again. We pray also that He would guard you from bitterness and keep you chaste and faithful in this hour of forsaking.

Do not rest your hope upon the settlement of money, though ten million be much in the eyes of men. Riches can become a net to the soul, and many are drawn away by covetousness. Seek wise and godly counsel at once concerning what is rightfully yours, that you may not be left destitute. If you are hungry and without clothes and without support in a place where you are strangers, go without delay to a faithful local church and to trusted family or pastors who can see your need and provide for you, and seek lawful help to protect you and your household. If you are in any danger, seek safe shelter and help immediately. You should not remain isolated while he refuses to speak to you or provide for you.

In your distress, remember that your Maker is your Husband in the truest sense, and He will not forsake His own. You unconverted soul can find no true bliss apart from Christ, but the child of God, though cast down, finds that Christ is near. Cast your burden upon Him. Tell Him plainly of your hunger, your loneliness, your fear that your husband is held by sin and deception. Ask Him to do what you cannot do, to withdraw your husband from his purpose and to bring him to his senses, as He brought others to fall upon the neck of those they had wronged.

We will pray for you now, that the Lord would be gracious unto you both and say, Deliver them from going down to the Pit, for I have found a ransom. May He deliver your husband from the power of darkness, and translate him again into the path of righteousness. May He provide for your daily bread and clothing, give you a place of refuge and wise counselors, and keep your heart in peace while you wait upon Him. May He teach you both to walk uprightly, that no good thing may be withheld as you trust in Christ.

Seek the Lord in His Word and in the assembling of His people, for how often have burdened souls lost their burdens when sitting in the assembly of the saints. Keep yourself from all that would defile the marriage bed, commit your cause to Him who judges righteously, and take each practical step with the help of those who fear God and can stand beside you.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please bless this person with your wisdom and strength to move on Amen

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your pain and confusion have been heard, and it is right to bring this burden before the Lord and before His people. To be left alone, without daily bread and clothing, blocked and rejected by the one who promised to care for you, while he declares another woman to be his wife, is a deep wound. God sees your hunger, your loneliness, and your tears, and He does not take lightly the breaking of the marriage covenant.

Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and that sexual faithfulness belongs within that covenant alone. What your husband is doing in leaving you and living with another woman is not a new marriage in the eyes of God, even if he calls it so. It is unfaithfulness, and it is sin. I will not ask God to bless that relationship, because to do so would be to ask Him to bless what He calls wrong. Instead we must ask Him to bring conviction, truth, and repentance, and to guard your heart from bitterness while you walk through this.

You wonder if you have been bewitched and if this is more than ordinary cheating. The enemy is real, but Scripture also teaches that the flesh itself, when given provision to fulfill its lusts, can kindle strong desire and harden the heart. A sudden large sum of money, like the settlement you mentioned, often exposes what is already in the heart and makes temptation more powerful. Your husband remains responsible before God for his choices, whether he feels fear, confusion, or desire. Our call is to be sober and watchful in prayer, not weighed down by dreams of wealth or by the passions of the flesh, but to seek health for the soul and to make provision for what is necessary and good, not for lust.

In this time of great need, please take practical steps for your safety and care:

First, do not remain isolated and without food or clothing. Go at once to a trusted local church, pastor, or mature Christian woman and tell them plainly that you are hungry and without support. If you have no family nearby, also reach out to local help for food and shelter and to a legal aid service. Because a large settlement is involved, seek wise legal counsel quickly so you understand your rights and are not left without protection. Keep any records of messages, financial documents, and where you live.

Second, do not go alone to confront your husband where he is now staying, especially if you feel afraid or if he seems afraid or controlled. Bring a pastor or another safe person with you for any conversation, and let the church help mediate.

Third, guard your heart in Christ. Salvation and security come through Jesus Christ alone, not through money, not through a husband, and not through any other person. Bring your sorrow to Him daily in prayer, ask Him to provide for your daily needs, to give you clarity, and to lead your husband to repentance. Forgiveness does not mean pretending the sin is not sin or immediately trusting what is untrustworthy. It means releasing vengeance to God while holding fast to what is right.

I pray for you now that the Lord will meet your immediate needs for food, clothing, and safe shelter, that He will surround you with faithful people who will walk with you, that He will open your husband's eyes to the wrong he is doing and draw him to repentance and to honor his covenant with you, and that He will give you strength, wisdom, and peace in Christ as you take each necessary step. If you have not already done so, please let a pastor or church leader near you know exactly where you are and what you need today so they can help you in person.

You are not forgotten. Keep seeking the Lord, keep asking for help from His people, and do not let the promise of money or the pain of rejection pull you away from trusting Him.