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In Malachi 3:6, God tells us “For I am the Lord, I do not change.â€
God is the same yesterday, today and forever. Malachi 2:16 tells us “I hate divorce, says the LORD God of Israel.†The Bible makes it abundantly clear that
God hates divorce (
Malachi 2:16) and that reconciliation and forgiveness should be the marks of a believer’s life (
Luke 11:4;
Ephesians 4:32). Therefore, even if your husband is misguided, do not believe for one second that this "word" came from God. When we hear things that do not align with God's word we can know that these thoughts come from our own hardened hearts and/or directly from the enemy. Satan has come to steal, kill and destroy.
Keep praying. Pray for guidance and direction from the Holy Spirit. Pray for peace over your broken heart. Ask for God to show you way that you can continue to become the wife that brings glory to your husband and eternal glory to God. Don't give up. STAND in your faith. Go to god, repent of any/all sins in your life. Pray for forgivenes of your husband daily. Pray that your love and forgiveness towards him will cover and hurts he is causing you. Do not let a seed of bitterness set in, stomp it out with prayer and praise and communion with God. You are loved, and this tribulation does not lessen God's love for you. You are his child.
Holy, holy, holy Father. We come before you now in the name of Jesus Christ. We plead the blood over our lives, our mind, our body, our soul, our marriage. Christ blood forgives us of all sin, and we humbly come before you in His righteousness. Thank you for making us Holy in your sight. Lord, we lay our marriages at your feet. We give it ALL to you Jesus. Help us to COMPLETELY release our husband or any idea of changing him personally. We know that only YOU can change hearts and guide feet. Lord, we pray that you would soften our husbands hearts towards us. Lord, bring them back into the fold. May the lies of Satan be seen as the lies they are. May the voice of the Holy Spirit be so piearcing that he cannot be ignored. Lord, we ask you to do what ever it takes to return our husbands to your humble service so that our marriage may be a holy testimony unto you. Lord, forgive him completely so that his ears may be open to your voice, so that his eyes can see what you see. Lord, bless his steps turning him to your truths. Bring us peace that surpasses understanding. Help us to stand before your throne of Grace. In Jesus most holy name we pray. AMen