I prayed for your marriage this evening. Satan despises marriage because it is blessed by God. I prayed that God's armour will cover you both. Continue to pray for your husband and don't give up. Sometimes we have to change in order for our husbands to recognize their own behavior. I know, I've been there. A verse that meant alot to me was 1 Peter 3:2 - Without a word, by the behavior of their wives, as they observe chaste and respectful behavior.
Right now your husband isn't showing Christian like behavior, but he knows what it looks like. Wives can and do influence husbands. As women we think that means alot of talking, but that is not the way men think. Give him his space, but show him respect. Respect is more important to a man than anything. Love him by praying for him. God is in control and he can bring him back to you and provide you with a stronger marriage than before. Hold on to this verse to know God is working on your husband as your pray for him, Proverbs 21:1 The King's heart is in the hand of the Lord; he directs it like a watercourse where he pleases.
And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive. Matthew 21:22