My husband and I have separated. I could no...

[littlesadlamb]

My husband and I have separated. I could no longer take his disrespectful and indifferent attitude towards my feelings and how badly his words and actions hurt me. He has many women friends who he caters to emotionally and I am left feeling like a roomate who provides financially and sex without guilt benefits. When I try to voice my opinion about how he is more involved in these women's lives than our relationship he gets mad at me and says I am being insecure, jealous, micromanaging and dictating his life. This makes me hurt and angry and in return as I start defending myself he says my behavior is immature, childish, that my perception of reality is skewed, that I am in sin and my behavior is not glorifying the Lord. I know that my response to hurt is not correct and I am asking the Lord for help with that, but I also know that I can no longer co-sign my husband's behavior. I also know that God is not okay with how my husband is conducting himself in his personal life and with these women.

My husband professes belief in Christ and says he is following Jesus and that he is ministering and sharing the gospel with these women, but I don't really see him doing that.

We have a counseling appt next week and I hope that it goes well.

Please pray that this marriage can be restored. I am completely heart broken and discouraged.

 

[Articles]

Our God of peace, you have taught us that in returning and rest we shall be saved, in quietness and in confidence shall be our strength: By the might of your Spirit answer this request, we pray of you, so we may be still and know that you are God; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

[Rose12]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

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[papafishin52]

Heavenly Father, We ask for your will to be done in this situation. You are a kind, loving, merciful God. Please let your child feel your presence and to trust you in all things. We ask this in the name of your Holy son, Jesus Christ, and it is because of him we can come to your throne. We Thank you for this....Amen...

 

[MEG]

"It's not an enemy who taunts me - then I could bear it;

it's not an adversary who deals insolently with me - then I could hide from him.

But it is you, my equal, my companion, my familiar friend.

We used to hold sweet converse together;

within God's house we walked in fellowship." Psalm 55:12-14

My dear ###,

I am praying for you and your marriage.

You are probably feeling down and mostly guilty for being separated from your husband. If that is the case, please don't feel that you are to blame. It is his attitude that caused that, not you.

The Lord can fix everything, and for sure your marriage too, but don't forget that you are right, that connivance brings disaster as "the wages of sin is death" Romans 6:23.

We, women, have always the tendency to think it is our fault and end up being abused, and what is worse, accepting it.

It is marvelous that you can stand for yourself and that you don't accept being treated as if you weren't the one whom he vowed to love and respect forever.

I am praying for you, for your marriage.

Blessings galore!

In Christ,

###

 

[shadowofleaves]

Heavenly Father, I stand and pray in agreement with this request. I lift up all hurting and broken marriages, including my own, to You in Jesus' name for healing and restoration according to Your perfect will. Amen.

 

I am praying for the restoration of your marriage. From what I read, I believe the problem mostly lies with him. It is okay to have opposite-sex friends when you are married. However, even though he isn't sleeping with them, he is doing wrong by putting himself into near occasions of sin and not keeping his primary attention on you, his mate. Stand your ground, sister. Yours in Christ, ###.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.