THERE IS A NEED TO KNOW; THE WORD OF GOD TELLS US THAT WITH "LOVE AND KINDNESS" HAVE I DRAWN THEE! IT ALSO DECLARES; TO HAVE A FRIEND WE MUST BE ONE! (SOWING TO REAP) IN WHATEVER AREA IS AT HAND. BUT ONE THING IS FOR SURE; IF GOD GAVE YOU TO SEE WHAT THE TROUBLE IS IN THIS PERSON'S LIFE. THEN SURELY YOU KNOW IT IS "YOUR" TASK! THE WORD OF GOD DECLARES; GREATER LOVE HAS NO MAN THAN HE WHO LAYS DOWN HIS LIFE FOR HIS BROTHER. JESUS DID NOT TALK ABOUT THE SIN RATHER; CAME TO SET THE CAPTIVES FREE!!! STAY BEFORE GOD FOR THIS SOUL, THAT HAS BEEN PUT BEFORE YOU TO SEE WHAT YOU WILL DO FOR THEM? JESUS WOULD THAT NONE SHOULD PERISH! WE MUST HAVE THE MIND OF CHRIST! (RENEWED BY HIS WORD) THEN THE ANSWERS WILL COME. THERE SHOULD BE A LOVE OF GOD SO COMPASSIONATE FOR THIS PERSON, THAT MOVES GOD ON YOUR BEHALF. (SEEK GOD ABOUT THIS) OBEY HIM! AND MOVE ON. BUT THIS YOUR CROSS, AS SURE AS IT SET BEFORE YOU! (BARE IT IN CHRIST). AND KNOW THAT ALL THOSE THINGS YOU SPEAK ABOUT THIS PERSON IS NOT TRUE! THAT IS A SPIRIT, THAT COMES TO STEAL, KILL AND DESTROY! IT CANNOT IF YOU STAY IN OBEDIENCE, GOD NEVER FAILS! (YOUR SEEING THE WRONG THING ABOUT THE PERSON) THIS IS NOT IN FAITH. AND NEVER FORGET? ALL HAVE SIN AND CAME SHORT OF GOD'S GLORY! HIS WORD FURTHER DECLARES, "IF WE SAY WE HAVE NO SIN, WE LIE AND THE TRUTH IS NOT IN US" (THE WORD OF GOD) BE BLESS...